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boyfriend troubles
yes, i have a bf but i also have this friend who like watches every move i make i can never do things at my own pace cas she always gets hers and her bf's nose in everything...i really love my bf but i want to go at my own pace not hers....wht should i do???
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exactly what you just said go at your own pace not yours..just because your her friend doesnt mean your her puppet or under her control..everyones diffrent and thats ok... who are they to tell you how to live your life...Dont let anyone decide who you are no matter how good of friends you are.
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try to tell your friend how you feel in a polite way. Not everyone can move at the same pace in a relationship, some people just have to go slow then others. She will never know how you feel unless you tell her. If she is your friend she will understand. hope this helped.
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Try talking to your friend and telling her that while she made be ready to do all of those things, you're not and you want to go at your own pace. If she is a real friend she'll understand that you just aren't ready to go that fast yet. If she doesn't understand, don't dump your boyfriend because of it, dump her. It isn't any help when you have a nosy friend (& her bf) weighing you down all the time. Explain to her why you don't want to do the things she wants you to do and if you have to explain why you need to "get away" from her for a little while.
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xo Morgan
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Talk to her about it. If she doesn't listen, go by your own pace anyways. You shouldn't have to wait for her to catch up or whatever.
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