Hey. My names Conor Im 16 years old and im 6'1. I live in houston/katy texas and goto Mayde Creek High School. I started this cause im usually up all nite and i figured what better way to spend my time then trying to help people. Just ask me a question and ill answer it the best i can! I like all types of music and movies i like dirtbike riding and hanging out with friends.
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my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP (link)
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All i can say is you should drop his @$$ next time you see him cause if he sais he'll dump you for no having sex with him then he really doesnt care about you and that means hes just using you for sex so yeah..brake up with him
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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do? (link)
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If you dont know if your ready then your probably not. Just dont let him pressure you into doing it and if he loves you then he wouldnt make you do something your not ready for. just wait until you feel your 100 % ready
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hey this is ashlee..u IMed me on aim yesterday, beani027. u seem really nice and i figured u could help me maybe? my mom has had this bf for over a year now and hes been living with us. they break up like 3 times a month and he actually moves out everytime. its incredibly annoyiong. they fight everyday..screaming, yelling, my mom crying..and i hate his guts. i really wish he would just die. he has three kids and weve all became really really close, we call eachother brother and sisters wen we tell ppl about eachother. but anyway so within the time that theyve been together hes moved out at least 30 times..no joke. and we used to get along until it all started now whenever hes around he talks to me like a dog and acts like im a little 6 yr old who knos nothing. i used to cry almost everyday when he lived here. but then like a week ago they got in another big fight and he left so me and my mom actually packed up his clothes and took them out to his dads house. because whenever he left before but didnt take his clothes he could come over anytime he wanted and the police couldnt do anything cause 'he has personal belongings in the house'. so anyway i thought this time he was out for good. ive thought that many times..i dont kno why this time made it any different. hes threatend our lives with a gun before..multiple times. does big time drugs. and he even went to jail a few weeks ago..theres been a few cases where we had to leave our house at like two in the morning and stay gone all day for fear of what he might do. my mom continues to let him come back even though hes hurt her so much and even tho i tell her how much i hate him and how much i wish hed die and how horrible he makes me feel. and she knos how he talks to me. she doesnt seem to care and last night when they walked through the door together i just went to my room and cried off and on all night..i didnt sleep until 9 this morning..it never seems to end tho. before glenn she dated some dude whod never had a job before in his entire life..all he did was drink beer and play video games all day while my mom worked and i went to school. he didnt even have a drivers licens. and the guys before that..my dad..hes in prison right now. it just doesnt stop and i dont kno what to do. im sorry my thing is so long, i guess im kinda just venting too. but if u have any advice or just sumthing to make me feel better please write me back..i could really use something..srry agin. thanx (link)
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Hey sorry it took so long for me to peply but honstly i just woke up and right now its almost midnight. And dont worry about the length of it its 100% ok. You shuoldnt have to live in fear that this guy is going to keep comiing back to your house. Sometime soon you need to sit down with your mom and not just tell her how you feel you need to get it into her head try yelling at your mom and tell her how shes made a mistake but its ok cause she still has time to fix it. tell your mom her boy friend has to leave and for good. And you said he has 3 kids tha you really like but youll have to give them up in order to make life better for your self and your mom. look if you ever need any help what so ever with anything just send me a message on aim. and once again sorry it took awhile for me to reply.
Conor
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Hey guys! Okay well my column is really blahhhh...it's like brown and black and white..not too nice to look at, anyone kno how to make it all colorful and such ?? I can't figure it out !! Help me outtt =) thanks xoxo!! (link)
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http://webmonkey.wired.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/ go there and it gives you all the numbers you need to change the color of your page! just pick ones you think match. hope this helps
Conor
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hey sorry i got on your advice column and asked a few questions..lol i figured you use the same password for every thing hehe! ill stop:) (link)
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haha its ok I WAS trying to get a moderator position but now with those questions you asked it doesnt look so great! but i guess i can forgive you liz
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hey, I was wondering if anybody has heard the song that plays at the end of '10 things i hate about you'? You know the one that goes: 'i need you to need me, i want you to want me, i love you to love me.' I need to know who sings it and what it's called, thanks. (link)
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im not familiar with the songs in that movie but heres a link to a website that has a list of all the songs. hope you you find it.
Conor
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0147800/soundtrack
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What is worse for you; throwing up or taking laxactives? I was just wondering which form of bulimia is worse on your body.
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Throwing up because what happens is your stomach acids eat away at your esophagus and that can lead to cancer. plus it can cause severe tooth decay. But no matter what and whoever you are i hope you dont devide to do either cause both are unhealthy
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How come everytime your with a boy and a "sweet" car goes by.. they always know what it is.. how do they fucking know the year of a car and stuff.. i mean there always like oh, thats a 46 blue honda..or whatever i mean honestly how do they know thats the year it was made and ugh i break my cars down into like 3 groups.. bus..car..truck.. its that simple.. o yeah and i mean i know what toyota's and stuff are and like fords but other then that i dont know what a car is unless it states what it is on the back of the car.. wow i really wanna know why they always do this please tell me lolol..
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cars to some guys could be like a skirt in the display at the mall to you and other girls. its just something some guys love. see a guy could just as easily ask a question as to why a girl sees a pair of shoes and can tell you the designer its just something there interested in Just be happy hes checking out cars and not other girls.
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i like this guy and he only likes me as a friend so what should i do?? i will rate u!!! plzz help!!
confused- gurl :( (link)
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maybe he does like you and hes only saying that cause hes to shy or imbaressed or give him reasons to like you a little more get to know him and flirt with him a little. hope i helped atleast a little.
Conor
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how do you rate people, or you have to ask a questian to rate them, not many people are rated (link)
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You have to ask a question then wait for someone to answer it then depending on whether or not you liked te advice you rate it 1 to 5.
Conor
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This summer while in Canada I met a really awesome girl, however I really really really..... screwed up our relationship. I cheated on her once, guilted her into a lot of things I shouldn't have, and I lied to her so many times. It was just in the last week that I was with her that I started to straighten my act up and realize how wonderful she was. I want to say sorry so bad, but I live 1600 miles away from her and don't have a planned visit there for 2 more years, also I want to do something bigger than just write her an email and hope for the best. We are kind of friends now, we talk every now and then online, but I still feel like this is still keeping us apart. If anyone has any ideas on how to say sorry for being this horrible I'd love to hear from you. Also, flying up there just to say sorry isn't out of the picture, its about $700. I really need something big that says I'm sorry and I'm willing to do whatever it takes to have you trust me again. (link)
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Wow flying up there is acctually pretty big try and so somethining nice maybe get a video camera and tell her what you feel on it then send it to her im sure she wuold love that.
Conor
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I have a problem with cutting myself and I've always been to afraid to tell one of my best friends for fear that she might think i was some kind of freak! I just need an idea on what would be a good way to start off a conversation and then breaking the news to her! I would appreciate it! OH and ill rate u goood!!!!!
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well if they think your a freak then they shouldnt be your best friends and i dont think a friend would be the best person to tell try your paretns if anyone would listen and help you its them just dont be afraid, hope i helped
Conor
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I have a bad sunburn on my face and I would like to know what to put on it OTC or if I should see my doctor. (link)
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aloe vera should do the trick but be patiant and a doctors visit isnt neccesary at all!
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im 14 (almost 15) and my bf is already 15. weve been going out for about 9 months, and weve only done kissing. i want to go further but i dont know how to get him to...help!!! (link)
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im sure hes just as scared as you are, if your not comfprtable talking to him in person try talking to him on the intenet about it or have one of your friends bring it up. but chances are if youve gone 9 months with only kissing youll have to make the first move to go further just confident and go for it.
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what r some things that i can say 2 the guy i like?? how can i become a better flirt...lol...?? (link)
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just the small things if your talking to him instead of starting out with "hey" say something like "hey handsome" or smile at him when your talking even for no reason just look up at him and give him a smile he should get the point. hope i helped
Conor
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my girlfriend is amazing. i am truely honestly blessed to be with her, she is so perfect. the problem is sometimes we get in arguements over really stupid stupid shit, and when we do i feel so extremely guilty and torn up because she is so nice and sweet, she never deserves to be hurt. i know all relationships have things that need to be overcome, but i just cant take it when i hurt this girl. she is so sweet and great to be with, and she would never hurt anyone. how do i make myself feel less guilty about it? (link)
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acctually your probably one of the lucky few that is fortuante enough to fight over little stuff and you really shuoldnt feel guilty at all but if you really do just tell her your sorry and you were just kind of mad and she will understand and give her a big hug or kiss and im msure she will forget all about it
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when an embarrassing topic comes up, i can feel my face heat up and i'm sure it's really noticeable - is there anyway to prevent yourself from blushing?? i doubt it but i figured it doesn't hurt to ask (link)
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lol im afraid theres no way to prevent it or stop it i blush like none other! lol an excuse is always the best thing to try and hid it say you got the shivers, your cold, maybe even fake a sneeze!
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Every time I go to my friend she always jokes with me saying that "Oh here comes lil miss christian girl" and "Oh great your going to preach to us are'nt you." I know she is just playing but I wish I could witness to her without being made fun of. (link)
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One of my best friends cole was very religous but still an awsome kid and when ever we hang out with a group of people his faith was always brought up and instead of getting mad about it hed just loo at the person that said it and hed say something like "OK, and your point is.." and hed wait then just kind of laugh it we were never ragging on him just playing and joking around. but remember one thing dont change your faith based on something hurtful some one said. hope i helped
conor
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Ok well tomorrow I'm leaving for Flordia. I hafta go on a 5 hour plane trip! Does anyone have any ideas for things to do?? I have my cd player (but ive already heard all my cds!!), a walk to remember book (my favorite :D), and a notebook. CAN ANYONE HELP ME?? (link)
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Books are always good for plane trips, maybe you could borrow a cd from a friend or start a journal! good luck and hope i helped
Conor
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ok so there's this guy who is a friend of my family and he comes to all our parties and holidays and stuff. last year he came on vacation with us and we hit it off and became really great friends. we started dating on valentines day and he was always so sweet and affectionate and caring. we talked online every day for hours and everytime i came home from school on weekends we hung out. it was hard for us since i was away at college but he always said things would be so much better when i graduated (in may). then all of a sudden he started acting distant and we stopped talking as much. he has a really stressful job so i believed him when he said he was just really busy. but now that i'm home he like NEVER talks to me and i dont understand what happened! but when i see him he acts like normal again and every once in a while he'll call me or something. its so weird. if it was any other guy i'd be like forget him...but i know we'll be seeing each other at family stuff anyway and i dont understand why he would want to throw away our friendship and everything! does anyone have any insight as to what i should do or what this means? should i tell him he's hurting me or just wait till he comes around again? (link)
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ive been in the same situation, when you get really close to someone but then something happens like one of yall goes away and yall become distant i think its a common thing, and i think the only way to get it back to normal is to sit down with him in person and just tell him how you feel and that you want things back the way they were if it was possible
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