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im sorry its so long
hey this is ashlee..u IMed me on aim yesterday, beani027. u seem really nice and i figured u could help me maybe? my mom has had this bf for over a year now and hes been living with us. they break up like 3 times a month and he actually moves out everytime. its incredibly annoyiong. they fight everyday..screaming, yelling, my mom crying..and i hate his guts. i really wish he would just die. he has three kids and weve all became really really close, we call eachother brother and sisters wen we tell ppl about eachother. but anyway so within the time that theyve been together hes moved out at least 30 times..no joke. and we used to get along until it all started now whenever hes around he talks to me like a dog and acts like im a little 6 yr old who knos nothing. i used to cry almost everyday when he lived here. but then like a week ago they got in another big fight and he left so me and my mom actually packed up his clothes and took them out to his dads house. because whenever he left before but didnt take his clothes he could come over anytime he wanted and the police couldnt do anything cause 'he has personal belongings in the house'. so anyway i thought this time he was out for good. ive thought that many times..i dont kno why this time made it any different. hes threatend our lives with a gun before..multiple times. does big time drugs. and he even went to jail a few weeks ago..theres been a few cases where we had to leave our house at like two in the morning and stay gone all day for fear of what he might do. my mom continues to let him come back even though hes hurt her so much and even tho i tell her how much i hate him and how much i wish hed die and how horrible he makes me feel. and she knos how he talks to me. she doesnt seem to care and last night when they walked through the door together i just went to my room and cried off and on all night..i didnt sleep until 9 this morning..it never seems to end tho. before glenn she dated some dude whod never had a job before in his entire life..all he did was drink beer and play video games all day while my mom worked and i went to school. he didnt even have a drivers licens. and the guys before that..my dad..hes in prison right now. it just doesnt stop and i dont kno what to do. im sorry my thing is so long, i guess im kinda just venting too. but if u have any advice or just sumthing to make me feel better please write me back..i could really use something..srry agin. thanx
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Hey sorry it took so long for me to peply but honstly i just woke up and right now its almost midnight. And dont worry about the length of it its 100% ok. You shuoldnt have to live in fear that this guy is going to keep comiing back to your house. Sometime soon you need to sit down with your mom and not just tell her how you feel you need to get it into her head try yelling at your mom and tell her how shes made a mistake but its ok cause she still has time to fix it. tell your mom her boy friend has to leave and for good. And you said he has 3 kids tha you really like but youll have to give them up in order to make life better for your self and your mom. look if you ever need any help what so ever with anything just send me a message on aim. and once again sorry it took awhile for me to reply.
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