Hey this is ~Tarebear~, you can ask me anything, I'm cool and won't give you a hard time about it. Dont be afraid, Im here for you all. and I will do the best I can
E-mail: naughtybitch_6969@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: South Dakota
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: September 27, 2004
Answers: 49
Last Update: October 9, 2004
Visitors: 3208
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for about a couple weeks my nipples have been really sensitive and they hurt sometimes if something touches them like my bra or something...i dont mean to sound nasty but they just have been hurting. im not pregnant or anything cause ive never had sex and im only 14 but if anyone knows why please help! (link)
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Dont worry hun you boobs are just growing thats what happens when your boobs start developing
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Well today is me and my girl one month anniversary. She lives in Oregon and I live in Texas, I will tell you that I do care for this girl and I can only see her as being with me in the future, like as my future wife and everything
but there someone else I like right now and shes here ..and more near. Ive went on a date with this girl before I got together with my baby. But this girl kinda toyed with my emotion , making me think she didnt like me. Well now we are closer and she really likes me and tells me that only i can make her happy and that I was the only one who ever made her feeling 'so many emotions' at once in her lifetime thats why she denied when I asked her out cause she was scared.
So I dont know what to do. Should I let my baby girl go? because I dont want to hurt her if anything happens between me and this girl but then I dont want to because Im afraid ill make the biggest mistake of my life. (link)
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I think you should go for the girl closer to you long distance relationships dont work out... just move on
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what kinds of thigns can happen if you take oxycontin? like how long will it take to be addicted, and like what kinds of reactions can one have? and like what can happen like long term effects? and does any one know any additional info about them? (link)
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oxy frys your brain, it can cause you trouble in your teenage life... like school, sports, friends, family just think of how much important things and people you would be losing
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a friend of mine wants her nose pierced... which side do you pierce if you r straight??!?!? she has her eyebrown pierced on the left... so wht does she do?!?!?!??!?! (link)
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i think she should get in on the right cuz that would be pretty weird to have both on the left.... hope i helped
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Hey...im a girl and im addicted to masturbating. i do it whenever i can with whatever i can. if my parents found out they'd kill me. but...i was wondering 2 thins
1) can your cherry pop when you're masturbating?
2)if you masturbate too much, can it make you sterile and not able to have babies?
Im so scared of these two things...but im so addicted...help me! (link)
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yes you can pop you cherry its depends what you use and how far it goes up.. there is nothin wrong with being addicted and ur parents shouldn't be mad at you cuz its a normal thing.. no it will not make u sterile and u will be able to have babies
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Ever since I was LiL I would masterbate. Im not addicted to it I just do It once in a while but I remember doing it when I was 5!!(of course I didnt know what I was doing at 5 but all I knew was that it felt good and that I was going to do it) I was caught a lot when I was little and I remember one time my mom asked me if it felt good and she was really dissapointed in me. And I hated myself for it because every 5 year old wants their parents to be proud of them. But now I know what I'm doing and I havent been caught in like 5 years(im 14) Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal to start sooo early? (link)
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its tottaly normal.. dont worry about it masturbating is a normal thing EVERYONE does..there is nothing wrong with you and no you did not start to early..everyone is different
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There is this guy that i had met and the next day he took my virginity and then 2 days later he came back for more. I didnt really know him and we starting freaking out hat i might've been preg.But i am not and like ever since he has been scared to talk to me. I dont care that he doesnt talk to me but like doing what i did with him ruined my life. I got kicked out of my moms house and like alot of stuff happened. I dont talk to him because i am not important to him or whatever. I feel so used and gross. I wish this feeling can leave me but it wont. I need to feel clean ,any advice? (link)
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same thing happened to me except I didnt get kicked out of my house.. the guy took my virginity and then came back for more and i thought i was pregnat and he got scared and now im nothing in his life except someone he had sex with and left... just try talking to your family and tell them how sorry you are.. dont worry you are not gross and yes you were used but hey it happens I know excactly how you feel so hey if you have any questions feel free to leave them in my inbox
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i have no clue where i should have put this. but heres my question... what do they do when you go to get birth control? (link)
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umm. are you sure you wanna kno.. they will actually give you what they call yearly women exams. they first give you a papsmhere( where they stick what looks like a beak into your vagina then they open you and rub some kind of cutips in there, then they do the breats exams where they push on your breasts and feel for lumps, then they do the pelvic exam where they insert two fingers and press on your stomach to feel there fingers.. dont be scared The only way it hurts is if you tense up bring some music to relax you they also put gel on there fingers and the beak thing so it slides in... then you have to get yearly checkups
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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE (link)
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The same thing happened to me.. dont worry about it I thought I was pregnat to.. it will take a while and when you get your period you will bleed very heavily.. its just a normal thing.. if you dont start within 2 weeks go try a pregancy test.. write me anytime you want.. i know excactly how you feel
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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor? (link)
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Yes it is perfectly normal.. periods are like that and if you dont feel comfortable go to a doctor and they will put you on birth control to even it out
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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees. (link)
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I don't agree... because when you have sex the first time its suppose to be special.. I was stupid and went ahead and did it and believed the guy when he said he loved me.. now I'm all heartbroken and sad and actaully it has been about 3 months.. so don't get yourself fooled like I did.. hang in there.. wait till you feel like you are really ready.. then from there its all up to you
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I wasn't sure what category to put this under by recently my girlfriend / best friend and I just lost our virginity to each other. It was amazing. But then the next night, I get a phone call from her brother saying to go the hospital because my girlfriend's just been raped...by her father. I didn't know what to do, so i just froze and went after her father. I beat the crap out of him and broke my hand. I know that wasn't smart but what he did to her was less smart. He's been abusing her since about the age of 4, I was one of the few people who knew this. She didn't want ANYONE telling the police because her father threatened her. And she didn't want to run away and leave her little sister with her father for fear he might hurt her too.
Well anyway, back on topic, her father went to jail and everyone testified against him. So he'll be in there for a LONG time. My problem is, my girlfriend is still in shock over this. We tried to have sex a few weeks later but she was so scared and still thinks about the rape. I'm not frustrated about the no-sex part AT ALL believe me. But what I'm wondering is if there's anything I can do for her to make her get over this. I want her to be happy again. I love her with all my heart and hate seeing her like this.
Any girls who have been raped, you could probably help me most on this. How did you get over it? Thanks SO much! (link)
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Hey, Im really sorry about your girlfriend... just whatever you do.. dont leave her side. She obviously needs you right now. She may say everything is fine.. im ok.. but shes not she needs someones hand.. and that hand is yours.
I don't really think she should go to a stranger (couselour) right away and express all her feelings. Shes gonna need you... none of this is any of your fault in ANY way.. just hang in there and eventually everything is gonna work out and she will be able to move on.. hope I helped
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OMG...i really need to help my friend she needs help fast! she is 14 and she had sex with her boyfriend and she just found out that she iz pregnant. please dont leave advice like "oh she shouldn't have done that because she is a slut" and stuff because we really dont need to hear that and she isn't a slut because she really loves her boyfriend! she doesn't know how to tell her mom and she has no clue what to do she is just crying and crying and i'm trying to comfort her but what should i say (link)
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dont listen to all these people Abortion is not the anwser..... that is cruel.. just comfort her and tell her that u love her and you will help her while she tells her mom.. please whatever she does at least try to have the baby.. abortion is just not the way to go
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Does anyone know a really good work-out that I could do every day? I know people are prolly always ask this but I am seriously wantin to work out and loose at least 10-15 punds at least. Thanks alot and I rate*
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do thr marine core daily 7 excercises like cherry pickers, puishups, crunches, sungods,arm rolls, jog in place, and just eat right that should do it
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Okay, so I only just turned 13, and I want to become a professional singer.
I've always wanted to be one. Now I want to be one so bad I'll do anything. After seeing JoJo become a singer and she's only 13, I think I could do it too.
What I need to know is where I can go to shove my singing career off the ground. I've had private lessons on singing, and the only problem is I have stage fright of singing infront of people.
I just need to know 2 things. Places I can take my singing career further, and how to overcome my fear.
Thanks! (link)
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well if you have stage fright pretend ur all alone then and im not sure maybe you should try lookin something up on the internet.
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Im in student council and we have elections for officers (pres, vice pres, secretary, treasurer) tomorrow. I kinda wanna run for vp but my friend wants to do that too and i don't wanna run against her becuz i don't want to run against a friend. I could possibly win but i don't want to do that to her and if i don't get to do my job with the class officers (not student council officers) i'm gonna be mad. We decided that we were gonna nominate each other, but i'm not sure i want that responsibility that comes with the job. I don't want to run for any other positions because i don't quite think i can do those as well. On the other hand, if i don't run, i can still do my job as a regular student council memeber and hang out with my other friends. Should i run for vp or just not run at all? plz help soon. the elections are tomorrow. (link)
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hey i know you dont want to hurt your friend, but you HAVE to make yourself happy before you make others, i think you should run for vice president and if she gets mad maybe she just wasnt a true enough friend and she will realize that she was wrong and u were right... i mean would you get mad if she won.. so just think on that and I hope i helped... good luck hun
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im 13/f and ive had my period since january. im a 34a cup and my boobs are kinda pointy, like underneath theyrnt rounded yet cuz im still growing and i may not be fully developed until im 17 because my whole family has really big boobs. my question is, will guys be weirded out if they see ur boobs an they rnt fully developed yet, or should i wait to show anyone them until im fully developed? d guys still think they're hot, or wil they only be sexy if theyre rounded?
thanx
knala (link)
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I dont really think you should be showing your boobs at 13 dont worry i was like that when i was ur age and now im in a 38c guys dont reallyh care as long as the get to see boobs dont sweat it hun
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I was really good friends with this girl named madeline.... today she came up to me and punched me in the face in school(i still am in school right now) for no reason at all! I fell on the ground and didn't hit her back! I should of (well i think so at least) And i didn't! Should i of went after her or did i do the right thing by not hitting her back? (link)
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well.... im kind of seeing it both ways.. 1 since u didnt punch her that just makes you look stronger and 2 you should've punched her.. it would of been self defense i dont talk to her and she hits you again throw a punch maybe coming in a different way will knock some sense into her.
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Is sex suppose to hurt when you have done it quite a bit?? (link)
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ignore this one also thats pretty disgusting I don't know who is writing these
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My boyfriend wants to know what the most plesureable position is!! haha lol (link)
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hey that wasnt me typing that sorry just ignore this question
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