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ok i really like this guy and i have a boyfriend at the same time i really like them both and me and the other kid have ben talking about "practiceing"... i dont know wat i should do...i need some help (link)
practicing what?...go for the guy that likes you more...or that you like more...and the one that you could see yourself with longer...that's what i did...

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I have always wanted a boyfriend. But my public persona says NO. Even though I've wanted a boyf. really bad, guys (almost every, the only ones who aren't either are gay or have a girlfriend)are really mean to me because my ideas are kind of old-fashioned, I like classical music, I dress kind of old-fashioned, and I'm uncontrollable, and incredibly opinionated. I tried liking a guy once, but he just laughed in my face and told the whole grade. If I sort of let down and turn into just a regular girl, people will think i've gone soft and I won't feel like myself! Advicenators, help me! (link)
don't change who you are for a guy. be yourself..and one day you will meet a guy who LOVES you're style and what not...

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umm i like this dude nd hes not like hott but reli sweet nd every1 hates him but im goin out with him neway....should i stay with him nd be laughed at, or just break up? (link)
stay with him if you really like him. people hate my boyfriend (not because he's ugly or nothin but because he breaks my heart a lot)...and i'm still with him. you shouldn't worry about what other people think...if you like him...stay with him...and be laughed at...

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me: i never look good lol
him: yeah you do
me: you havent seen me in like.. 10 months how would you know
him: b/c i just do

is he into me? (link)
maybe ..maybe not... just because he thinks ur pretty doesn't mean he's into you... keep talkin to him ...

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I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean? (link)
just tell him that you want to be friends and you're not trying to be mean...but you need to break up with him because you don't want to hurt him later in life...

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can u really get breast cancer if u sleep with a bra on? please answer quick. (link)
no...i sleep with a bra on...it doesn't make u get breast cancer...but it does stunt the growth of them...

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theirs this boy and he wants to go out with me for the 3rd time.i really like him but i jus know he is gonns dump me again for a dmumb reason. i dont know what to do.
help me ^O^ (link)
that's like me and my boyfriend. he dumped me 4 times... after the 3rd time all my friends were pissed off so bad. they told me not to give him the time of day. so then i really liked him and didnt listen...i dated him again and he broke up with me for another stupid reason...then igot over him and was gonna go out with this other guy...and he got all jealous and realized that he likes me A LOT and needed me to be his gf...so now we're back together. i'd give him one more chance...

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ok im 15/f and i really like this guy but he's so shy!! he barely talks online to anyone even his friends! i want him to open up cause the only time he talked a lot was at school in class but schools out now so we never see eachother! he's never even had a gf before so that might be why he's so shy but i really want him to open up so how can i do that! (link)
call him up..you make the first move. then just lead him...

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me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways. (link)
my boyfriend is the same way! like when i talk to my ex's that are friends now...and he gets pissed when i talk to my neighbors that are like my bros...and so just tell him that he has to trust you. relationships get ruined if there is no trust...

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I always wear jeans CONSTANTLY...and I'd like to "spice" up my style alot..I'm into a lot of different styles, I'd just like some tips of things to wear besides jeans that are still really cute..you know..new outfit ideas! (link)
skirts are so cute... go to like Abercrombie & Fitch or Hollister and just look at the clothes they have and see if you like them...you could always go somewhere cheaper too...

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is it weird i like my step brother? (link)
haha my cousin is like that...my cousin is DATING her step brother...like my cousin and his brother were dating these 2 girls that are sisters...and it turned out that the girls' dad was single...and so was the boys' mom...so they hooked up the mom & dad...and the mom and dad got married. one of the cousins and girls broke up b/c they thought it was weird...but the other 2 are still dating. i guess it's ok if it's a step brother...

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What the hell is a break...I am a 16 year old female and my boyfriend(or w/e hes called at the moment is 18) and he said that i hurt him (inside on this is that...we were talking and he said i dont trust him but i really do trust him i just made a joke after he said it saying i didnt), and that he really wants things to work, but we are going to go on a break for this week and then talk and see where we stand as a couple and what we want to do about the realtionship. Im really hurting, i cry all the time, and i want to stop...what should i do to stop the pain? What is a break? and how can i save the realtionship?? GUYS HELP PLEASE (link)
think of a "break" as fracturing a bone, you're not completely seperated. where as "breaking up" is like breaking a bone completely, you are seperated from the other person. just wait til the week is over...and find out where you stand as a couple. if it's over, then you just need to try really hard to get over him...you can't make the boy like you. but just tell him it was a joke and that you really like him and that you are really hurting. if he doesnt care...he's not worth it!

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Say you are thinking about someone, and about whether there's any chance they still like you or will ever talk to you again....then a big truck comes past with their name on it in Big Red Letters...and you get stuck in traffic so you can constantly see their name next to your window...
Would you consider that to be a sign?
And what would it MEAN? (link)
well if it's not a common name then i would definitely say it's a sign. even if it is a common name it could be. like there was this guy i was dating and he broke up with me. but then later i was driving by this place up in the mountains and it had his name on one of the stores(his name is pretty common) and i told him that i was thinking about him and saw his name on a store... now we're back together haha.(sorry that's so long)


I'm at a friends house and the two friends that i'm here with are mad at each other!! My friend, lets call her Anne, thought that my other friend, ummm..lets call her Haile...anyway! She Anne thought that Haile like did stuff with Anne's boyfriend, but haile didnt, but anne is convinced she did!! I wanna help I really do, but I just dont know what to do anymore! I really dont want to get stuck in it, but I cant enjoy myself with all the tension whirling around....please help!


~Melissa~ (link)
Well if i were you, i'd stay out of it. but if you must get involved, then you need to find out from haile and anne's boyfriend what really happened...and then tell Anne what really happened. anne shouldn't be mad at haile anyways...she should be mad at the boyfriend...

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ok...me and this guy broke up like 4 months ago. and scince then i have still been in love with him. but he dosent even think i like him more than a freind. ok newayz...scince we broke up he hasnt shown any signs watsoever of still liking me.but then all of the sudden out of the blue last night hes like i love you so much and he was just gushing about how much he loved me. is this for real? or is he just being stupid and getting my hopes up? wat should i do? (link)
it's probably for real. my boyfriend did that...we had broken up and he did that and now we're back together. you should let him know how you feel and ask him if he's for real or if he's getting your hopes up...

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okay well i like love my best friend, he means everything to me, but the thing is i dont wanna like him. i mean, he knows i like him, but he doesnt know how much. i like cant ever stop thinking about him, hes everything to me. i would give my life for him. i have a boyfriend right now, but i still love him. how can i get my mind off him? (link)
well hun...just try to think about your boyfriend. if that doesn't work, then you probably really do have feelings for your best friend... just try to hang out w/ ur boyfriend a little more...

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OK..i have this girlfriend of about 3 weeks, though ive liked her since about february. im going away to another country for 9 weeks next week and am not sure what to do. the relationship seems to have been going pretty well, we hook up, we talk often and get together a lot. an off topic note is her parents dont allow her to date, but im trying to get around it and if they know for sure(they already suspect), ill meet with them and try to negotiate. ANYWAY, how can i discuss the subject of cheating without her thinking i think she wont be loyal. 9 weeks is a long time, but im willing to make it work and sacrifice a lot of girls for her. im a sophomore, shes a freshman. any tips on what i should do? break up for the summer, which there is no guarantee she will still be single or still like me? stay together and call often? what?
thanks (link)
stay together and call often...

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ok my BEST guy friend might like me. i'm not sure if he does because his close friend-who is also my close friend-says that he probably does like me.
the reason i don't think he does or that i'm like, pessimistic about it is because we are like, so close as friends that i don't think that we would be anything different.
but the reason why i think he might is because: 1) his/my friend thinks so 2) he called me randomly just to talk (and he usually doesn't do that) 3) he said (while on the phone) 'oh i see ------- (his friend) he's gonna ask me who i'm on the phone with and i'm gonna say a hot girl...cuz its true.' 4) after he said this (and he said it like--seriously) i was like oh i'm sure (me=no self esteem...so i DON'T take compliments well) and he was like 'i love you' and i didn't hear him so i was like what? and he was like 'i love you!'
can you tell me what he might be thinking or feeling...thanx in advance
p.s. sorry for the length (link)
he definitely likes you!!! he probably wants you to be his girlfriend...

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what do u do when u workout but the muscle builds underneath and pusheds out the belly fat that you already have? im a cheerleader and i play softball. im really in shape minus the bulge on my tummy. (link)
do lots n lots of sit ups... eventually the fat will burn off...

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why dose it seem like my bf dont really like talking to me? he seems like hes mad.? (link)
oh my goodness...same with my boyfriend. but most likely he's not really mad. i always think that...but he never is. just talk to him bout it...

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