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Q: ive been chewing tobacco for about a year now, on and off, and its a good subsitute for smoking pot and drinking 2 much, but now im kinda disgusted with my habit, and i wanna kick the habit...but im not sure hot to do it, because im around the stuff so much, its like impossible to resist..
HELP adam

OK so your just gonna have to kick it cold turkey man! Maybe go on the patch or gum or something.But just whenever you get the urge to chew just think of how your gonna look with your lip and half your chin gone cuz you got cancer!!!
Hope I helped
*Lacey

Q: Can anyone give me the lyrics of the song "Superstar" by Jamelia??

People always talk about
Hey oh hey oh hey oh
All the things there all about
Hey oh hey oh hey oh
Write it on a piece of paper
Got a feeling now see you later

[Bridge]
There's something bout me
Let's keep it moving
And if it's good lets just get something cooking
Cus I really wanna rock with you
I'm feeling some connection to the things you do
(You do, you do)

[Chorus]
I don't know what it is
That makes me feel like this
I don't know who you are
But you must be some kind of superstar
Cus you got all eyes on you no matter where you are
You just make me wanna play

Baby take a look around
Hey oh hey oh hey oh
Everybody's getting' down
Hey oh hey oh hey oh
Deal with all the problems later
Bad boys on there best behaviour

[Bridge]
There's something bout me
Let's keep it moving
And if it's good lets just get something cooking
Cus I really wanna rock with you
I'm feeling some connection to the things you do
(You do, you do)

[Chorus]
I don't know what it is
That makes me feel like this
I don't know who you are
But you must be some kind of superstar
Cus you got all eyes on you no matter where you are
You just make me wanna play

I feel you movin'
Hey oh hey oh hey oh
I just give into the groove and then
You just make me wanna play
If you just put pen to paper
Hey oh hey oh hey oh
Got that feelin' now see you later
Hey oh hey oh hey oh

Make your move
Can't we get a little closer?
You rock it just like your supposed ta!
Hey boy I aint got nothin' more to say
Cus you just make me wanna play

[Chorus]
I don't know what it is
That makes me feel like this
No no gotta be gotta be a superstar
All eyes on you ohhh eyes on you
You make me wanna play

[Chorus x2]
I don't know what it is
That makes me feel like this
I don't know who you are
But you must be some kind of superstar
Cus you got all eyes on you no matter where you are
You just make me wanna play

There you go
*Lacey

Q: I'm almost 17, and I've never had a boyfriend, Its not that theres something wrong with me, except for the fact that I'm shy, and now I kinda feel like everyone has someone except for me, and it gets lonely...
help please?

Im not sure what you need help with here.Im sure it does get lonely,and I know your shy but somehow your gonna have to get over that if you wanna boyfriend bad enough!
Hope you find what your looking for.
*Lacey

Q: whats a orgy? how do you get one?

Well hun,an orgy is when you have sexy with numerous partners at the same time,like a 3sum,would be considered an orgy.And when you ask "how do you get one?" I think your thinking of an organsim I may be wrong but thats what it sounds like.But still im gonna answer your question.So uh I guess you would go about getting an orgy by asking people if they wanted to have an orgy,round som people up and go at it!I dont know.
Hope I helped
*Lacey

Q: If you use a condom, can you still get an STD?

Using a condom only lowers your chances of getting and std.Its the same thing with getting pregnet!Condoms are only like 98% sure,somthing could still go wrong!
Be carful
*Lacey

Q: would it be bad to be a pimp for halloween???

NO way man!Being a pimp for Halloween would be awesome,go for it!
Go on wit your bad self! =)
*Lacey

Q: is it normal when you poop for your nipples to get hard and you get really hot feeling and you feel sick??

NO TOOL are you crazy! That is some freakin crazy ass shit yo!
Hope I helped
*Blah

Q: what are some excersises or cardio i could do?

well there is two that i do. i lay on my back put my hands underneath my but and keep my head down .lift you legs up for ten seconds.it may help if you have a water bottle between your feet. or you could do sit ups. for other ideas go to www.seventeen.com and look under the health section or look in womans magazines.

Q: hey yall! well i did a really stupid thing! i had sex with my bf without a condom. But he pulled out before he came. But when he pulled out he got cum like on the really high part of my leg and I thought i was pregnant...but now im like bleeding(its been like a week later)...does that mean im not? PLEASE PLEASE HELP MWA!

well maybe you should wait ti out until your next period and then if you are still bleeding dont worry , but if not go see a doctor and get you options. next time please wear a condom!i know it isnt the sexiest thing but it wont be to sexy when your pregnant and he has to get a job and support you!

Q: i used tew be really shy and all of a sudden i made a big change all of my friends see it to, i dont think a lot of people exept that im changing.........and im not sure but a lot of people started calling me a slut or a hoe and like a whore and i dont no why, and even if i was doing somting it would only be with my boyfriend and its not even there buisiness, im so confused

Its really nothing to get in a tizz about.Just blow it off,I know it hurts to be called names but seriously all the people calling you names are probly just jealous or have problems of there own and need to take it out on someone so they chose you.Why? I dont know,becuase you are coming out of your shell and they dont like it!I dont know but just be strong,thats the best advice I can give you!
Hope I helped
*Lacey

Q: ok . heres my deal , im going into high school on aug. 23 , and i really want to get a boyfriend for the first time cuz ive never dated b4 . im getting braces to which might turn a guy off . how can i get a boyfriend evn tho braces r a total turn off

Well I have braces myself, and actually most guys dont think its a turn off!And as to getting a boyfriend(the first ones are always fun).Just be yourself,that always works best.
Hope I helped
*Lacey

Q: ok if your a lord of the rings fan you might get this but you might anyway.

into the south

int othe south we go
through danger we do not know
we'll give it our best
to finish our quest
with only a sword and bow

to mordor we must fly
where darkness fills the sky
throught dark shadows and mirk meadows
the end of all comes nigh

--- ok i know thats not that good but how do yall like it?---

Not that good...?That was an awesome poem!I have actually seen other peoples poems about Lord of the Rings but that was like top 3! Good Job!
Keep Writing
*Lacey

Q: What does Imao mean? I know what idk means but what does this mean? I try to answer questions but these abrevations get in the way of me understanding sometimes. Could someone tell me? Thanks in advance!
advice~gurl

lmao means Laughing My Ass Off
And for some reason people think its cool to say that when they are typing!
Hope I helped
*Lacey

Q: Hey!I am 14 almost 15(august 17)and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2months.And he says i am perfect and like the "one".And says that we will be together forever.And i feel the exact same way too.And he asked me to marry him and i said yes!But we are not going to get married till we are out of school!But did i do the right thing about saying yes???ill rate you if u answer!~Kristen~

HM WELL my opinion is no it wasnt the right thing to do by saying yes!I have had experience in this department!My aunt was 13 when she met this guy he was almost 21 and by the time she was 18 they were married,had a little girl,and another one on the way!She never finished high school never did any teenager stuff becuase she was spending all her time with him!He is a great guy and takes very well care of her and their two girls but she is 20 now and has never had a job,has two little girls and wants to party and be a kid!She totally regrets marrying him and now they are seperating!Its just a bad thing to get into at such a young age!
Hope I helped and you give it more thought!
*Lacey

Q: i dance alot (about 12 hours a week) .. does this have anything to do with my not having my period yet because of heavy exercise?? that's what my friend said and i want to know if it's true

Well I really dont think that your period hasnt started becuase you exersice alot,that just doesnt seem right!Ask your mom how old she was when she started and then give or take a year!You could be one of the lucky ones thhat doesnt start early in life! =) Its not as cool as all the new girls think it is,its a pain in the rear!But I think it just might have something to do with your age,your not ready!But if you and your mom find it REALLY weird that you havent started then maybe try going to a gyno!She/he can help you the most!
Hope I helped and everything turns out ok!
*Lacey

Q: i'd like to start my own babysitting business. how can i get started??

Advertise....!!!Put up flyers in stores and on streets, and just tell people about it!
Hope I helped and you get your business!
*Lacey

Q: I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird??

NO WAY soaps are fun to watch!I am really into days of out lifes right now even though it has REALLY BAD special effects and they are kind of dragging the story on forever!But I dont think its weird!
Keep watching those soaps darlin!
*Lacey

Q: i dont kno anyone in my new skool *highskool*im not a mean person and i have alot of friends in my old skool do you think ill make friends cuz im really scared about it please help!thanks in advance

On the contrary to what you may have heard about high school,its not such a bad place!Yes you get you different clicks and they are rude and unwelcoming becuase they dont know you.But you will find people that are just like you and people are get along with!High school is actually kind of fun once you get the hang of it!
Hope I helped and everything goes good
*Lacey

Q: Hi hey how do I get over a xbf, when I still am in love with him and he sorta likes me??? Thanks PLZ help , My life will be ruined if I dont get It. PLZ HELP THANKS
Signed
NEed help gurl

Well you still love him and he still likes you maybe it wasnt your time to break up!Maybe you need to give it another shot!But you cant and /or dont want to then to get over him you just need to keep your mind on other things!Friends,job,sports,maybe other guys!
Hope I helped
*Lacey

Q: I never told anyone this but I've been bulimic for 2 years. I know you may say that I should top but I can't. It's so hard, and I don't know what to do and I do not want to see a doctor. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!

Bulimia is a bad thing!Its a disease,and for 2 years thats a long time!I know its hard becuase a couple of my friends have gone through it! So the first thing you need to do is tell your parents if you havent already done so!The first step to recovery is admitting the problem to yourself and loved ones!They can probly help you more than I can becuase they know you better and love you!Just be comfident and true to them and yourself!And even though you dont wanna see a doctor,you just have to think which is worse...Seeing a doctor and getting better or dieing!

bio

My name is Morgan,im 16,I love to shop and do girly stuff but I am a tomboy when it comes right down to it!I love to camp,surf,I play drums.I like to read alot and listin to music(My chemical Romance,Sondre Lerche,The 88,Dresden Dolls,Fear of Falling Stars,Gosling,Phantom Planet,Rooney,36Crazyfists,INCUBUS,Dashboard,Scotty Ryan,*im an emo child).
Most of all I love hangin with my homies Dane,Katy,Mitch,Vernon,Todd,Dan'l,Kayla,Jamie,Summer,Mark,Kyle,And J.J!

And I am here to dish out some advice!

My sister has a colum to,MCRRocks102