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What's the difference between Taking a break and breaking up! I always saw taking a break as just an easy way of breaking up with someone...like just a nicer way ya know!
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I used taking a break as an excuse to get my own space.. But it was never to break up with my boy friend.. he just took it really badly.. Then cheated on me *shrugs* o well.. Breaking up is when u cleanly say, I son't think we should date or I think we should just be friends. Taking a break, in my eyes, is soo different then breaking up because I've had experience with those words and I'm still hurting :-) but you're okay. Just remember, no matter wat a guy says, he's only true if he marries u, and if there's a divorce, than the marriage was false ;-) Stupid test answers...
*Mayya
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how do you know when a guy wants to kiss you? (guys and gurls answer this!) what are some signs and if i can tell he does should i just make the move or wait for him to? give me some help on kissing! muah** lol thanks! (link)
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I remember I had this same question myself, but I didn't know of this site, and sadly, I'm a columnist.. But, anyway.. back to the subject.. You know if a guy wants to kiss u if he keeps looking into ur eyes and u can feel a warmth even when he's not looking straight into ur eyes. The way u know he's not sure if he wants to kiss u is if he looks at ur lips first. But once a boy looks straight into ur eyes, make the first move if he doesn't do it for 10 seconds. Make sure ur eyes "lock" and just lean in! You could also just ask the guy if he wants to kiss u, just to be silly, but if he does he'll say yes ;-) Hope this works!
*Mayya
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hi, does anyone know i good shoe to wear for tennis? i bought some wilson brand tennis shoes and you'd think they would be good but they leave white marks on the courts and when i run fast to get a ball and stop my foot goes foward and my toes get squished and now my two big toenails are killing me from playing 7 hours of tennis today! please help i dont want this to happen again-i have tennis tomorrow! my feet are in so much pain! (link)
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Cheerleading shoes would be good for tennis. U can buy them at ur local Payless or Model's, or any other place where they sell shoes, for as little as 10 - 70. Choose wisely, and u can ask managers and people who work at the stores to help u find exactly wat u're looking for!
*Mayya
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Does anyone know a website where I can make it my own. Like my own website name for free? (link)
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I think the site is called "geocities.com" or u can check Google.com for places to get "free websites" or etc. I hope u find it :-) Sorry if u don't because I have no more suggestions ^_^
*Mayya
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are those flirty skirts that go out like or have two layers... u know the popular ones? are those gonna be in this school year? i wanted to buy one tomorrow but i'm afraid that they will be out in a couple of months. what are your thoughts? i live in california. (link)
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Those skirts are awesomely adorable, I have one ^_^ . But here's my advice, you shouldn't care if it's in style or not. If u like it, wear it. If it's out, o well, atleast u're wearing wat u like.. and who knows, maybe u'll bring it back
;-) But, if u MUST go with the crowd, I have a feeling the 70's are having a very stable come back, and that skirt should be bought and shown off :-)
*Mayya
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my friend is really nice to me when she its just me and her but if she is with another friend she is such a butthead to me and i get mad at her all the time and stuff but then we havce a fun time or we talk o0n the phone and we r friends again like all my friends are friends with her so it sucks and now im mad at her again wut shuld i do ? (link)
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You should definitly talk to her about this directly. She can't be 2 different people, it gives an insecure feeling to people who THOUGHT they knew her. If she doesn't change, it doesn't look as if she really as good of a friend as u believe she is. She should be herself around everyone, not just sometimes she's nice, and others she's not. Tell her straight "you're acting a little weird" when u're alone. Just tell her wat u think, and if she really is a good friend, she'll understand and not give u a stupid answer like, "I don't want anyone knowing we're friends" that's gay and anything like it is also gay, and u should drop her from "friend status" right away! Tell me wat happens cuz I had fun answering this question :-D
*Mayya
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I heard that if you eat 6 small meals a day, instead of 3 big its better for you. Any truth to this? (link)
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yes, every cent of it is true. The reason is because it paces ur metabolism and keeps it going at a steady rate, therefore, more easily breaking down sugars and fats. If u have any questions about losing weight, or antyhing else at all, please feel free to contact me :-)
*Mayya
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(I'm 14) I've been going out with my bf for awhile, and I always knew that he USED to smoke pot, and stopped like 6 months ago,and sometimes drinks a lot because of family problems...Well about 3 weeks ago he left a voice message saying he wouldn't be able to call because he got grounded because he "got caught doing something...very bad" and wouldn't tell me what it was, well his parents disconnected his phone and I found out yesterday from his friend justin (i had to practically beat it out of him...because he was afraid i'd go off killing my bf or something...) that his parents caught him smoking (which explains why he cant run 2 miles anymore) and that he used to have a big stash of cigs in his room, but that he quit after his parents caught him...then he asked if i was gonna break up with him, i said "i have no idea" And i haven't talked to him because he's grounded, and as selfish as it is, it pisses me off..
I dunno what to do, should I break up with him or not? I know all my friends will say I should, because I'm in the "good" group of friends, a lot of them go to church and have very strong beliefs and have never done any of that stuff,(we live in a small town in farmersville u.s.a so that stuff is a big deal) I'm in with them...but barely (my family is screwed up) it's like i'm teetering on the edge of good and bad...and i always fall for the messed up guys, and I know my bf is messed up..but i love him, and I don't know...he's never pressured me or ANYTHING, he's not like that, but I know dating someone with that many problems isn't good and will lead to problems, because drugs and alcoholism run in MY family too..but no matter what he does i can't hate him
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Okay, my EX boyfriend, whom I still love to this very second (2 years now) is starting to smoke and do drugs and drink.. it's a slap in the face when u hear loved ones are doing that type of stuff. The worst thing u could do right now is break up with him, or hate him, both for urself and for him. Now, ur bf seems very special to u and also seems like a good person who just may do some bad things to himself, but never to u. However, if u should get to talk to him, I think u should tell him that u love him, but he actually ISN'T just hurting himself by getting in trouble and doing bad things, but he's also hurting u by not being able to go out, being scared for his health, not talking to him, etc. If u don't get to talk to him, I think he's parents may puit him in rehab for a while, cuz I think that's wat he needs, so it may be a while, but hold strong, and u guys can make it through. If u don't it just wasn't meant to be: Love will find it's way, and if it's meant to be, it will happen. And remember, no matter how bad life gets, ur being weak by turning to things like drugs and alcohol because u're running from life. It's better to just take it because in a quote I read, which is TOTALLY true: "anything in life that doesn't kill u, will only make u stronger." I hope u and ur bf make it, and stand fast my dear :o)
*Mayya
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hi.. i'm really bummed, my friend was talking behind my back and i got the advice to talk to her, so i did . she told me she never said anything and so i beleived her... it was fine, then my other friend sends me this e-mail she sent her saying she did sy stuff behind my back and isn't sorry for it and she doesn't want to be friends because i don't show that i want to be either.. but can i help it if i've been busy all summer? anyways i just wish we could be friends back.. and real ones who don't talk behind eachothers backs... what should i do?
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Wishing doesn't do anything unless u find a shooting star.. Take it from me, it works :-) but in reality, right here and right now, no friend who talks about u behind ur back is, or ever will be a TRUE friend. U should just stop talking to the girl if she will get jealous like that and start saying things behind ur back. She should be saying it to ur face anyway if she has a problem. There are a lot of other people that can be wat better friends. However, if u insist on staying her friend, I think u should talk to her about it, say wat u have been hearing, and if she says no, tell her that u want the truth, or ur out, just as if ur boyfriend secretly cheated on u. Kinda wrong, but it's the same idea. Anyway, I think u can find waaaay better friends, but keep ur head up girl, and be urself, then nobody will have anything to talk about, except how great u r ;-)
I hope u make the right decision :-)
*Mayya
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if you stop drinking soft drinks, will that help you lose weight (link)
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It may aid in it, but there is still so much more u can do! You can start drinking milk (low fat) and eat yogurt.. and drink LOTS of water. U could also do crunches every night before u go to sleep so the food u ate for dinner isn't just sitting in ur stomach. But remember, eat ALL meals, and don't stop eating because that will actually slow ur metabolism, and u won't lose a thing. PLus, be active; pick up dancing, track, yoga, cheerleading, etc. There is TONS of activities to experiment with. Just keep moving ur body, and eat right. You'll do great!
*Mayya
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I'm wondering if i can make a potatoe with my mind if i preheat it at 350 degrees (link)
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Ask a surgeon to cut ur brain out first. You don't want to burn watever may be working ^_^
*Mayya
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i had 3 girls ask me out and i only like one what should i tell the other 2? (link)
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If u really only like one of them, and don't want to go on a date at all with the other two, just tell them. They may be hurt, but it's way better to tell them then to leave them hanging.. or leading them on.. even worse idea, but don't tell them u want to go out with someone else, that's really mean, just say u're not interested in them that way, and would like just to be friends! Hope things workout for u :-)
*Mayya
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is anybody here from BUDDYPIC? Ok well I am and I try to upload this one pic so many times but it just won't work. It always says, THIS PIC IS TOO SMALL, I don't understand. If you are familier with BuddyPic or you can fix my picture, could you PLEASE drop one in my box - sshelbyy Thanks! (link)
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I'm very familiar with it, and I can fix ur picture for u. Just send it to MayyaMSaab@hotmail.com, or u can IM me with it. I'll have it fixed up in no time :-) If u can't send it, the best thing to do is if u have a program made especially for pictures, go to appearance, or view, and choose attributes or maybe resize, then put in the exact height and width buddypic wants. That way, u won't mess up the pixles because that's wat may happen if u do this with paint. However, if u must use paint, u can make it bigger, little by little, by adding more space to the work panel -- the white box behind ur picture -- and maybe u can add designs and colors, or another picture! Good luck with it!
*Mayya
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Around January i started likeing this guy named chris. We started talking and he told me liked me but that he couldnt go out with me because of everyone always getting into his business and trying to ruin things for him. Well he sortof stopped talking to me and it hurt me really badly. I liked him for the rest of the school year and then for 2 months he was only on my mind once in awhile. We'll in the beginning of July i started thinking about him again. He now wants to go out with me because he says that he didnt go out with me before because he didnt want me to get hurt and all this crap. Well last night we went skating and me and him hung out the whole time and i just wanted to hold his hand so badly but i knew that i couldnt. So around 10 he was like something about me goin out with him or something and my friend said aww are you askin her out and he said yeah and i said well how come now and he said just never mind megan and he said i try to be nice to you but you always seen to be mean in ways that you dont mean to. And so i just whatever chris. and then at the end of skatin ring he have me this really big hug and picked me up. The only problem is that there is a guy that has liked me for a really long time and he is like my best friend and he would never talk to me again if i went out with chris. What should I do in the situation? I really need some help so..b nice and ill rate you thank you! (link)
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OMG!! JERK ALERT!! Do NOT go out with this boy!! He is a loser,a dn only is saying that to maybe get back wat he didn't have b4!! If u like ur friend, it's better to go out with him then Chris. You guys have probably known each other for a looong time, and the best friendships are wat make great loves. If u don't like him like that, still, find another guy. There are plenty other guys that I assure u are better than what I imagine this creep as. Sorry if I hurt ur feelings about Chris, but it's only for the best sweetheart! You and every other girl deserves better!
I reeally hope everything turns out good. Remember, DON'T BREAK UR BESTFRIEND'S HEART! U won't forgive urself! Trust me!
Lots of luck!
*Mayya
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i wanna start shaving should i just ask my mom? (link)
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I didn't even ask her because I needed to and I didn't care wat she thought ^_^. But don't do that. I got in trouble, hehe.. So, here is my GOOD advice.. Yes, just ask her while she's watching tv or something less stressful. If u can't do that, whenever u go shopping with her, play dumb when u see a razor, and ask how u use it, if u can use it, etc. The question should come up, and u'll get ur answer. However, it's best to just ask her straight, u'll get the answer u need more quickly. Good luck!
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I've had a huge crush on this guy for almost a year now. He know's I like him, but he tries to ignore it like most guys do. He's in with the "popular" croud, but he's still acts really sweet and out-going and doesn't care what other people think. He waves at me a lot, he stares at me a lot, he plays with my hair and asks me to do stuff with him (in school, i.e. be his partner), and he also talks with me a lot more then other people. And just little stuff like that.
I know that a lot of people say "If you like someone, you automatically think they like you back", but I really think he likes me. But that's just me, and my friends think it's stupid to talk about, so does anyone have any adivce? Does he like me? o_O;
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I am almost sure ^_^. Lucky gal. But, u have to be subtle with these things. U don't want to scare him off!! Just be urself and flirt back with him because that is exactly wat he is doing, whether or not he notices. After a little time, maybe u'll get his phone number -- or maybe u already have it -- or vice versa, and u can call him and tell him exactly how u feel instead of him hearing it through the grapevine. U never know WHAT a boy thinks until he tells u, and it is the same with them until U tell them. Boys are stupid, and must be talked to with direction. So, take some action, girl! My instincts tell me u're doing good! :O)
If u have any other problems, just ask me!
*Mayya
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This is gross. I had a baby in January, and I haven't nursed her since March or April, but I'm still lactating. Is there anything to do to make it stop, or at least slow down? (link)
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I don't believe it is. Once u have a baby, there is a specific amount of milk in the breasts to feed her in ur case.. Maybe u took ur baby off breast feeding to soon. My best advice is to just ask ur doctor. Don't be alarmed because it is purely natural, and there is most likely nothing wrong. Good luck with ur baby!!
*Mayya
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Ok my boyfriend and me had been going out for about...2 months...we had been pretty close friends for like 5 months before that. Well, he really was a sweet guy, but I kinda cheated on him with this dude...well not exactly, the guy kissed me. anyways, my boyfriend forgave me. but today he was like, "i think we should take a break. im not breaking up with u exactly, but i just think we should take a break for a while. i will probably want to get back with you in the near future." what do i do? wait for him??? im just confused right now. (link)
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I know how he feels, even though I'm a girl because I did that to my ex.. In my case, I really was in love with him.. like.. totally completely, I fell into a hole, and until now, I can't get out, all b/c I said the same words ur boyfriend did. Girl, it would break my heart, and his SURELY, if u didn't wait. My advice to u is that if u really like him, just wait for him.. Keep the door open until he really does tell u to close it, or else u may lock it forever from both sides.. Keep love alive!
Tell me how things turn out!
*Mayya
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ok...i've like this kid for almost a year now. he's my friend, but he might like me, i don't know. yesterday was the first day of school, and i couldn't open my locker. After 3rd period i went up to him and one of my other guy friends and said "help me beat up my locker"...so we went to my locker, and he offered to open it for me. he got it open, so i gave him a hug, cuz i hadn't been able to open the damn thing all day. after that, he asked me if i had lunch then, i said yes, and he said "cool." so we walked outside, and i tried not to follow him like i do sometimes, but he sat where i did. we hung out at lunch again today...do you think he might like me? (link)
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It seems as if he maaayy be warming up to the idea. But DON'T push it. Keep being urself and keeping emotions checked. Maybe u'll hear through the grapevine that u got urself a guy
;-) Hope it turns out the way u want!
*Mayya
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SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED HELP Me and my boyfriend broke up on the first on August at night of course I cried I liked him but I was over him the next day I wasnt like in love with him Its just that I have a lot of time on my hand and have nothing to do I have to watch my little brother from the morning till 4 b/c my parents are at work then the rest of the day I dont do anything I just stay home for some reason and when I hang out with my bff she always acts like shes soo wonderful and perfect gets annyoing you know Im just wondering how can I like not think of him and just get over him and not feel bad that I dont have a bf and keep myself busy throghout the whole day? I mean this is really bugging me I dont wanna feel like I have a bad life I dont I just need some things to do to like keep me busy and not feel bad that I dont have a bf so please please please someone help me I mean really really help me thank you soo much and if you want me to rate then Ill rate if that will get me some answers thank you neone...sorry it was long but I really want to feel better and some ideas better then watch tv or get online please help me. ThankS (link)
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Okay, u r sooo totally frustrated and stressed. Wat u can do is take niiiice hott bubble baths, write poetry, write music, just write in general... draw something, PLAY with ur brother, not just "watch" him. Go outside and play a sport, go SHOPPING, or eat ice cream forever :-) There are SOO many things to do besides thinking of him. There are plenty other guys out there, so just keep searching if u reeeally think u just CAN'T live without a boyfriend, but I'm SURE u can sweetie cuz u're writing for help! :-)
Hope things turn out alright!
*Mayya
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