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backstabber2
hi.. i'm really bummed, my friend was talking behind my back and i got the advice to talk to her, so i did . she told me she never said anything and so i beleived her... it was fine, then my other friend sends me this e-mail she sent her saying she did sy stuff behind my back and isn't sorry for it and she doesn't want to be friends because i don't show that i want to be either.. but can i help it if i've been busy all summer? anyways i just wish we could be friends back.. and real ones who don't talk behind eachothers backs... what should i do?
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Just go found a better friend than her you dont need her talkin about you behind your bk come on well you no wut everybody dose do that but why would you still want to be her friend after all she sayed about you all the mean things ?
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Wishing doesn't do anything unless u find a shooting star.. Take it from me, it works :-) but in reality, right here and right now, no friend who talks about u behind ur back is, or ever will be a TRUE friend. U should just stop talking to the girl if she will get jealous like that and start saying things behind ur back. She should be saying it to ur face anyway if she has a problem. There are a lot of other people that can be wat better friends. However, if u insist on staying her friend, I think u should talk to her about it, say wat u have been hearing, and if she says no, tell her that u want the truth, or ur out, just as if ur boyfriend secretly cheated on u. Kinda wrong, but it's the same idea. Anyway, I think u can find waaaay better friends, but keep ur head up girl, and be urself, then nobody will have anything to talk about, except how great u r ;-)
I hope u make the right decision :-)
*Mayya
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I've had that happen to me before...and the truth is, that if she was really a great friend, she wouldn't have ever said anything nasty about you. Friends are supposed to be people we trust and confide in, they're supposed to be there when we need them and support us when we fall. There are a lot of good people in the world, and i personally think you could find a better friend than someone who constantly talks smack about you. I'd ditch her and never look back, i know that's harsh but you didn't do anything to her, and why would you ever trust her again? Just be nice to her...but i wouldn't consider her a friend anymore
hope that helps
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tell her u wanna be friends and ask her y she says stuff like that and just keep in mind that she did that 2 u and u dont need her.GOOD LUCK
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well sweetie pooh Chantal just forgive and forget things like this happen...if she shows any emotions that she still talks about you this way reason with her and make sure she pays for the pain she caused you cuz I wouldn't be much of a good friend to keep what she says about you and to talk about you behind your back right...well hope everything goes well and me and you should put this lil chicky back in place or else:@......haha'
love yeahz x0x your friend
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Email her about how your sorry that you didnt take too much time out for her this summer. Do something really special that only you two do, and remind her what good friends yall used to be. Good Luck
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