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Okay. So Christmas is in 2 months.. and my boyfriends birthday is in 3.. and i have NO clue what to get him!! I would realy like some ideas.. We're both 15 and hes turning 16 in3 months.. thx a lot ..
chow. (link)
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Alright, I got to be honest with you.
Well, while we all love those emotional stuff, like those mentioned, diaries and all. Yeah, you can do that.
But boys will be boys.
We love "toys" a lot.
And if you have some cash to spare, you can get him and all one Christmas and a Birthday present.
I'm talking about a PS3 or an Xbox 360 or a PSP.
He will just go crazy! I mean crazy!
In fact, expect a few tears to go along with it.
Maybe it may not really be "meaningful", if you're into fairy tales and stuff, but the gestures definitely shows that you know what men wants.
There you got it. The woman of his dreams.
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ok.. well my gf thinks that i think she is fat. but she so isnt. and i really dont think so at all. and so she thinks thinks that i called her fat. and now she thinks that since i did this. that i dont love her.. and i know that i do with all my hart. i need help on what to do. how i can do something to let her know that im sorry and nothing will happen again. ive tried almost everything. i just need advice now. (link)
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Alright, the "Am I Fat?" issue with couples are kinda' tricky. It's probably because of your gf's insecurities.
My girlfriend ask me that stupid question all the time.
You know what I told her?
"Yes.. You're fat."
"And if you want to know the truth, I'm here to remind you this everyday."
And nowadays, I only get that question like once every two weeks, which is a total change. Haha..
But of course, I'm not saying you should ever use my method, I and my gf have gone through years of comfort level, and she knows I love her anyway and I'm really not into skinny chicks.
What you should probably do is talk to her in a firm serious face, and look into her eyes.
Try to convince her.
Like "What am I suppose to do when you don't believe anything I say? I wish you know how beautiful you are to me, and "no!", for the last time, You're not fat! Britney is."
Puppy eyes.
3 points for you and the home team takes it.
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hey. i was reading your answer to a question. It was to do with hidden folders. well you said how to make them hidden. what happens though if you wanna view them? how do you make them un-hidden. (if there's such a word!)
thanks
Nadia. (link)
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Alright, actually, it goes through the same process.
In a Document folder, select tools ->
folder options -> view ->
Show all hidden folders or files..
Smth like that.
Right below the one that says hide all hidden folders... or smth like that.
And if you want your folder permanently seen,
select properties and un-"tick" the hide folder.
:)
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me and two of my friends were talking a couple of days ago about which guy would we rather go out with - a guy best friend or an acquaintance. my friends said acquaintance because you don't know each other so much which makes the relationship more interesting. also because there's "spark" between them. i said guy best friend, cuz even though you might know a lot about each other, a greater relationship than friendship can make the couple become closer together. it's also an advantage because your partner knows what you like and don't like, and so he won't go do something you would hate or he would always do what you love. and just because the two people already knows each other doesn't mean there can't be "spark" between them. i was wondering what you guys think. i would love both males and females to answer so it's not all biased. (link)
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Actually, it doesn't really matter. Strangers become lovers. Friends turn to lovers. It's kind of the same.
What counts the most is the chemistry you both share.
There are actually no rights or wrongs in these situation. I've heard of both types of relationships working out. Being with someone who you're just acquainted with recently, doesn't really assure you of a more interesting relationship.
Have you considered what if the girl/guy is boring?
And that you don't really have anything in common?
Then, being lovers with your friends. Have you considered that your friend might change?
He will be treating you, not as a friend, but as a girlfriend. Are you comfortable, after being friends with him for so long, seeing him in such an intimate way? It might be more awkward than you think. And also, the banter that you guys might have once shared, will now give way to whispered sweet nothings. And most importantly, if the relationship fails, your current friendship will also be at stake. And there's nothing that could bring it back.
This is from me and my girlfriend's point of view.
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I have an assignment and I'm pretending I'm selling Lead to a customer. I can use a brochure, or something to sell to her. Any ideas? I want to rough draft it, and I have no idea. Maybe some of your creativity can brain storm for myself!
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Lead? As in a small stick of graphite, as used in pencils.
Well, why not make a presentation? Go all the brochure and all the works. A statistic report.
Consumers statistics.
A whole presentation on the uses of lead. And the quality of Lead you're supp;lying them. What makes your Lead much more "appealing" than others?
Other peaks such as a good rate, for better sales.
Then, you make some sort of testimonial from previous consumers. Etc.
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My dad is such a psycho !and im really tired of it!.Im a good girl!!and im getting tired of being one and don't getting what Im suposed to!.My school likes to throw parties at different places!!and my dad neves lets me go!.Today was one of them!and I beg him to go and he din't let me!I really feel mad,sad and depressed cuz im a good girl and Im just asking him to have a little fun!and hes not letting me!.I told him that he could stay in the car until the party was finish and he said no!and tried everything and his answer is a NO!.What can I do to make my daddy see that im not his little girl anymore! im a teen..ps:im 15 (link)
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Alright, what you're going through is the same thing what my younger sister is going through.
And honestly, girl, Your father is not a psycho.
He loves you, can't you see it. Too much, in fact. Would you rather he not care about you and leave you out to the world? What ever happens, let it happen?
Girl, you'll understand this when you're an adult and you have a daughter of your own. When your own flesh and blood is craving to go out into the world, and gives you attitude just because you want to shield her from the world. How would you feel? When all you want to do is protect your own child? That's what your father is doing.
You don't know what the world is capable of. Eventhough, I'm from probably the safest country in the whole world, it still is far too dangerous for teenagers your age to come out by their own.
Most of them whose parents don't care, now either is in Juve, taking drugs out there, was once a rape victim or is now married with one kid, the other on the way. The husband is selling pirated vcds for a living. You want to live that way?
I suggest you stay home, cherish the love you're given, stay in school.. Anyways, it's six more years till you're 21. And time flies.
And then, you'll have all the freedom in the world.
Where you will realize that
"Hey, it's not a big of a deal anyway..In fact, this is boring. I'd rather stay home.. and cook for my dad.."
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ps: In time, you'll learn.
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Okay, so there is this guy who i have gone out with unofficially about four times (video games and movies at his house and cooked him dinner at my house and drank with him and his friends at their house) and on one date with him(movie). He is an ex-coworker. He is not my type and i am way cuter than him but i decided to give him a chance, i have been lonely lately. Well, yesterday we went out I gave him a blow job and he came after like two minutes :( and that was it. NO ME. OH, and a few days before i told him he can be my mr. right now (didn't tell him this but it is because he is not my type at all). Now I want more, i like him. He is like no other, but he won't answer my phone calls today. So initially i was trying to manipulate him i guess, now is he trying to get back at me? I don't want to play games anymore, how do I get his heart? Or after what I did do you think it is impossible? It is so not like me to do that so soon into things, but I did. And now what do I do? I need some guy opinions here, please.... (link)
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Alright, You mustn't be thinking too much, making it all too complicated. Life is easy as pea.
Quit all the drama.
Approach him, call him up for coffee or something.
Come clean and talk to him honestly, what's on your mind. Put your ego away
What made you behave or say the things you said.
You have to understand the rules of love.
There is none. Love breaks all the rules, that's the beauty of it. It changes people.
You're not used to go into rs so fast, well, here's love in action.
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I think I may have ruined things between a guy and me. But idk why.
As soon as I go online he'll start talking to me first, and we have been talking since the beggining of 9th grade [we're in 10th now]. And yeah, that particular day I told him that last year I liked him. He didn't say anything really about, he replied 'oh i never knew! 'very neutral. and the next day he imed but then conversation was very different. It seemed very stiff, usually we act like two idiots talking about anything sexual. Then the next day I had to IM him first, which was extremely weird and still! A very stiff conversation. And now he doesn't im me anymore. Hasn't for days.
OH. and we were supposed to go to a haunted house together because he wanted me to be scared and jump all over him, but NOW he told my friend he really didn't feel like going. He said he didn't feel like working hard to make money just to go out for an hour.
So did I do something wrong? How do I say something?! (link)
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Alright, I think you might have freaked out the guy. He probably thinks you want to get it on with him or something like that, and he's not really sure how to say.. "Ermm...eeuu.. not thanks.." in a nice way. So the only way to say it in a discreet way is to disappear till both of you forget about what had happened.
Anyways, some guys do not like the girls to do the first move, so maybe that could be one of the problem.
I suggest you clear things up, and have a slow chat with him, saying that the feelings are passing cloud, probably reached the other side of the world by now, and is not coming back anytime soon.
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P.s: Or maybe, he's gay.
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okay i have to write a short story about a frog and i need help on some ideas about what it could be about? .....so i guess can anyone please give me some ideas for a short story about a frog? thanx (link)
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Alright, I'm thinking about a HUGE blockbuster drama... It's called "Croak". Btw, is it for school or something more challenging?
I'll give you more details, once you reply.
Thanks, mate.
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OK well u see iv been talking to this girl over for about 10 months we have so much in common i have only seen her twice i really have feelings for this girl but ppl always seem to bud in like on of my best friends practically was trying to get with her and it caused this whole arguement between him and i.i had just recently had surgery and he came over to argue with me well didnt turn out as an arguement we basically got in a fight so i end up hospitalized surgery again and i didnt get to see her that weekend and things just happen when im about to go meet up with her so what should i do???
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Hahaha... Dude, Are you sure he's your bestfriend? Coz bestfriends don't do that to each other.
Anyways, You should be more spontaneous.
If you feel like meeting her, why wait for the weekend? Meet her now, not in a "Stalking" way, but just casual meet ups to Starbucks or smth like that.
As for your bestfriend, what is up with him?
You got to sort this out first actually, I mean if you have to settle this real quick.
Honestly, there's no point fighting over a chick. Relationships are unpredictable, the usuals probably last about a month or two for most, but friendship, they last forever. If not, well, at least longer than relationships.
But that's my point of view. Lol.
Dude, you have to start going out with the girl more often, ten months and you met her only twice?? COmon..
Snatch her before somebody does..
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Ok, last night I went over to my neighbor's house for a birthday party. I ended up getting shit faced and came home at 9:30. I've already messed up and have been recently arrested with possesion of Marijuana and I had court on wednesday for that reason. Well... I came home, and my step-dad told me I was drunk. I refused to admit that I was intoxicated and my mom just told me to go in my room in sleep it off. For some reason which I don't know, I refused and started getting violent. I started hitting him in the face and my mom just kept saying stop it. They went outside and my step-dad went over to the place to see if they were the one's that supplied me with alcohol. I guess I came outside and jumped on his back and started clawing him because he had gone over there, in front of my neighbor. He threw me on the ground in my house and told me to sleep it off... Now I'm never the violent type and I would never want to physically hurt my step-dad, but I totally fucked up and I don't even remember doing any of those things. I feel like the worst person and daughter on the earth and I don't know what to do about it. I am so sorry for what I had done and now I don't think my neighbor's will ever talk to me because they think I'm a complete phsycho. On top of that... I told my boyfriend, who I love most in the entire world, that I was doing community service hours that night. Now I'm afraid my neighbor is going to tell him what happened last night. I've fucked up royally with my boyfriend before and I'm on my last chance. If he finds out, I'll never see him again. I can't lose him, and I don't know what to do because I'm pretty sure they will tell him. Please help me out, I am so ashamed of myself and I need someone to tell me how I can fix things.
Brandi (link)
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Alright, you have a little issue going on there with your temper.
Here's what you can do.
Your family will always remain your family, even after what you did. You try to approach your step dad and talk to him in the most calm and soothing manner, make sure you're sincere.
And try to get along with everyone.
Then, you really should stop drinking or smoking MJz, at least for the time being, until you're sure enough that you can control yourself.
Drinking and smoking Mjs are usually enhancers for happy times, not a stimulant for temper outburst.
As for your bf, do that change for real this time around. If he loves you, he'll understand the phase you're going through.
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ello all. i am,hopefully, going to be getting married to this wonderful guy. i am muslim and i have a few questions about an islamic marriage. i am 17 and i am still in high school, and he would want me to move to his home which is in Doha,Qatar..they have a great school there but very expensive. would he be resposible for paying for my tuition? i know this sounds strange, but plz help if you can. also is it true that he must have my consent before he can take another wife? okay fank you. take care (link)
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Alright, I'm Muslim, too. In the modern world, and this also depends on which part of the world you're staying since it gives us an idea how pious you are, muslim women are given the freedom to study and work. But answering your question, yes, he will be responsible for paying your tuition since he is suppose to lead the family.
But as a love one, would you put that burden on him? And the consent of another wife, yes, he do not really need your consent, whether you like it or not, but he needs to be able to support two different families.
Honestly, I suggest you finish school first, then go into marriage. Unless it's a fixed marriage.
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How do I get pictures that move for like 3 seconds (look like videos)?
And how do I get pictures that flash like 3 pictures in one, like a really fast slideshow?
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Dude, those are gif. images. You could get some of the net. Or you could make some on your own. But you need a software. Google- "How to make gif images."
:)
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i am 17 years old. i do mansturbation 2 or 3 times a day. tell me something about this.how does i control it?
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Alright, You're male, I assume. It's quite normal for you to masturbate that often, since your hormones are at its peak.
However, you really should not wank away. It is said to be healthy if you masturbate once every two-three days. Try to refrain yourself. Nothing is impossible. When you have the urge, just tell the lil' fella.. "Dude, you have to wait.."
Afterall, you are controlling the bugger, not the other way around, right?
Anyways, masturbation is said to likely occur when someone is bored. Thus, occupy yourself.
Try going out with a girl, have a gf or smth like that, then, have a mental vow, that all you want to do is save it for the day you get lucky.
How about that? :)
If you have any other questions..
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my friends say that i look like a guy that they could take home to meet there family is that a good thing or a bad thing (link)
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Alright, this could go two ways.
1) It's a good thing for those girls, who are into settling down and stuff. They have the confident that you have what it takes to impress the parents. You're a "homely" guy. A good thing!
2) It's a bad thing because, not all females like "homely" guy. They like those Bad boy dudes. The ones that excites them in those Naughty, Naughty ways.
So, you may not really be that Super Casanova every chick wants. But at least, the majority, most women wants to bring the bf/fiance home, that's where you come in.
:)
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a month now. She had been a very touchy feely person, not in any sort of sexual sense, but always holding or playing with hands, or hugging and such.
Up until this week. She has been in an absolutely horrible mood since Sunday, really hasn't talked to me or returned calls or anything, and hasn't been fond of any sort of physical or social contact from anyone. I would chalk it up to PMS (sorry about the stereotype, girls) but it's literally been all day all wee. I had asked her earlier in the week if she was okay, and she said yes, that she was just feeling weird and didn't want to be around people. Today at lunch it was awful. I asked her again, walking to class (just to note, the first time she didn't hold my hand walking to her class) and she said she didn't want to talk about it. She didn't say anything else, and I hugged her an kissed her goodbye, but still.
I've treated her very well, and I've been giving her space. I'm pretty sure it as absolutely nothing to do with me, but nonetheless, what am I supposed to do? (link)
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Alright, here are a few possible explanations. Some of which might not be easy to relate to, due to denial, but we should cover all grounds.
1) Your gf might be cheating on you.Monitor her movement, if there are times she goes missing that seems to be real "fishy", I think you need pay a little more attention.
2) Your gf might be freakin' out. If she's nvr been in a relationship before, she's not familiar with the "drills" of a relationship. And she might need to have some space, to let her breathe, and adjust to her new status.
If your gf had been in rs before, she might be nervous and afraid that she might get hurt again. Work on trust. Tell her that you're willing to take it slow, and patiently follow her pace on the rs.
3) Your gf might have family/friends/personal problems, she might be the reserved type. Keeps everything to herself, but it all takes a little bit of initiative to convince her that confiding in you would do no harm.
4) The usual period around the corner. Mood Swings, Bad temper, cold shoulder.. lethargic..
That should last about a week or tops, two.
5) Depression- Find a nice,calm spot. Bring her flowers. Tell her that you love her and let her cry, most people feel better after they do.
Consult your school counsellor. Or smth of that kind.
I hope those few advice should help.
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I'm 16, and some of my friends from our school football team go out drinking after the games and stuff. What could happen to them if they get caught? (link)
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They will probably caught and charge for Illegal Gathering, Unlawful Assembly, Underage Drinking, etc.
Then, they will be expelled from school.
Some of them will probably work at Macdonald's, or some fast food joint. Others will be begging money on the streets.
A few will take drugs. A few will just drink away their sorrows.
Others will attempt suicide, but they'd probably get caught and serve their time in prison for a couple of years.
They will fall in love, some will have kids before they're married, ended up in some Salvation Army. Recycling cans just to make ends meet.
And the child will probably go to the Orphanage.
Yeah. That's it. :)
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This might be long, but please read and help. My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. He was my first real boyfriend and we learned so much from eachother. I lost my virginity to him, and we had more great times than bad. He said the relationship wasn't the same and needed to start focusing on himself. It was a complete shock to my heart. We hadn't talked for weeks, but finally I made the first move and called him. I wanted to just catch up and see if maybe we could be friends. He seemed up for it and we hung out together. The only thing he seemed to want was sex and he was just being mean to me. He was never like that before. I held my own, but I'm even more hurt. I just can't seem to let him go no matter what. I wake up depressed and go to bed depressed. I can't believe that this boy has control over my happiness. Is there anyway you can be friends with someone you had a really intense relationship with? How do I even go about moving on? Nothing is working. (link)
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Alright, I haven't really read the other answers, so I' afriad there might be repetitions, but that's good majority wins. :)
Anyways, here's a cuple of ways of looking at it.
1) Things have changed. I don't really know how old both of you are, but if he's still young, then I guess he just needs the space. Most male do. He wants to fly, curious about the world, be independent, wants to learn the world by himself. I guess it might sound selfish, but honestly, dear, you would be selfish, too, if you don't let him be.
2) Heart Broken, Love Sick, etc.
This is an essential phase for all. We all need go through the stage of getting hurt, healing yourself and falling in love again. Though it might sound impossible now, but you might just end up laughing about the whole episode in the future. One door closes, another opens.
3) It takes time to heal. Nobody said that fixing a broken heart is easy. It's your first time, and I guess it's okay to mourn about it for a few months, but remember, life is too short to be upset all the time. You will be fine, my dear.
Go out with your friends. Keep yourself occupied, get a part time job. Go exercise. Go spoil yourself on the things you're deprived off when you're attached. Now you're free as a bird.
4) And yesh, you can be friends with him, but not now. Give it a whole generous period of time.
He is your first anyway. He laid out the bench mark for the other guys. You have to get over him first. Thoroughly.
5) just remember. You're not the only one who have their hearts crushed. There are mainly survivors from that Broken-Heart disease.
:)
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My friend and I want to put something funny or cute on the back of our class tshirts... The best thing we can come up with so far is "dumb" and the other would say "dumber". Any more ideas? (link)
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Here are some ideas.
1)- Dude/Sweet - From the movie,"Dude, Where's My Car?
2) "i'm With Stupid.." - A shirt I saw downtown. Hilarious.
3) Or how about - YouTube.Com & MetaCafe.Com
........Controversial.
Not much, but I hope it stimulates your ideas.
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What is the fastest way to get a hickey to dissapear? (link)
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Alright.
I tried this one before on my ex.
I don't know if it'll work for you though, but you can try, it's harmless. So far.
Take a clove of garlic. Cut one end.
You need the juice to flow out and then, rub it
on the skin. For a few minutes.
Repeat procedure till hickey fades.
If allergies appeared, consult your physician.
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