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Why is my dad such a psycho!
My dad is such a psycho !and im really tired of it!.Im a good girl!!and im getting tired of being one and don't getting what Im suposed to!.My school likes to throw parties at different places!!and my dad neves lets me go!.Today was one of them!and I beg him to go and he din't let me!I really feel mad,sad and depressed cuz im a good girl and Im just asking him to have a little fun!and hes not letting me!.I told him that he could stay in the car until the party was finish and he said no!and tried everything and his answer is a NO!.What can I do to make my daddy see that im not his little girl anymore! im a teen..ps:im 15
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Never mind all that 'wait until you're older' stuff. You need some freedom and independece in order to develop into a well rounded adult. Your dad needs to understand this.
What you need is a way to prove to him that if he shows you a bit of trust and allows you a little indipendence, that you are not going to come back home pregnant or with a leg missing.
Try to build up this trust over time. Maybe arrange to go to parties for a rediculously short time (an hour or so) to begin with, and then as your dad sees that you are doing all the right things, try extending this time until you are trusted to be responsible for your own safety.
Just remember to do EXACTLY what you told your dad that you would do in terms of times and places etc, or you'll blow the whole thing!
Obviously, your dad will have to take part in this little scheme, but it's well worth suggesting to him.
Good luck.
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Alright, what you're going through is the same thing what my younger sister is going through.
And honestly, girl, Your father is not a psycho.
He loves you, can't you see it. Too much, in fact. Would you rather he not care about you and leave you out to the world? What ever happens, let it happen?
Girl, you'll understand this when you're an adult and you have a daughter of your own. When your own flesh and blood is craving to go out into the world, and gives you attitude just because you want to shield her from the world. How would you feel? When all you want to do is protect your own child? That's what your father is doing.
You don't know what the world is capable of. Eventhough, I'm from probably the safest country in the whole world, it still is far too dangerous for teenagers your age to come out by their own.
Most of them whose parents don't care, now either is in Juve, taking drugs out there, was once a rape victim or is now married with one kid, the other on the way. The husband is selling pirated vcds for a living. You want to live that way?
I suggest you stay home, cherish the love you're given, stay in school.. Anyways, it's six more years till you're 21. And time flies.
And then, you'll have all the freedom in the world.
Where you will realize that
"Hey, it's not a big of a deal anyway..In fact, this is boring. I'd rather stay home.. and cook for my dad.."
This is SilkStuy.
ps: In time, you'll learn.
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