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My friends are bugging me to go to this party tonight, but I'm sick. Seriously. They don't believe me, they just think it's me being anti-social. Should I go anyway and make them all sick just to prove a point? (link)
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That would be pretty funny... bet they would never doubt you again... even if you don't go they will get over it, just might take a bit but they just want you to go... they probably deep down believe you they are just in denial
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I like this kid named Orlando...I just look at him and I melt. But the thing is, I've never ever talked to him before, and he's never talked to me before and I'm so confused because I don't think it's just a crush, and he is just so cute and funny from what I've seen from him.
In the beginning of the day at school all the students have to go into the cafeteria because classes didn't start yet...and usually I walk in and only him and his friend are there and he looks at who came into the caferteria and I feel like I'm gonna trip or something because his stare catches me off guard....
As you can tell...I like this kid, and my mom works for the Board Of Ed in that particular city, and she lets me do some extra help with her work and she pays me for it. Well, since he goes to the school in the city my mom works for, one day when i was doing a job I came across his address. So my question is, do you think it would be like I'm stalking him or something if I write him a letter just saying how I felt about it...because I'm only going to write it when this school year is over so if anything happens I'm not there. (I know..but I'm shy and I feel like this is the only way I could do it) If I explain to him in the letter that I'm that girl (because he's seen me before, and noticed me) then do you think this is a good idea? Please help me...I really want him to know, but I'm extremely shy.
I'm very sorry for the length, but Im desperate. (link)
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Why not write a letter and put it in his locker or something, sending to his house might freak him out a bit...you could also try and talk to him... you never know he could be a real jerk... trying to actually get to know him before you tell him you like him might be a good idea... but really mailing him is not a good idea...
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ok my xxbf sed i kissed to rough and my lasted xbf sed i kissed to low like on his lower lip! i wanna be a GR8 kisser.... soo how do i do it?? my xbf was SUCH a good kisser and left me breathless but how do i kiss then?? HELP!! me!!!! thnx
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What was it that made your ex such a great kisser? Try and think about what he did that you liked and try and do the same, lips are often better than tongue (there are nerves in your lips that when you kiss are stimulated or should be) very speed and intensity from light with just lips to passionate with tongue and lips, let him lead as well as you follow what he does… move your tongue (rapidly but lightly run it back and forth on his tongue), and don’t think that the more tongue I his mouth the better, that doesn’t do much other than gag him…. To review: do to your partner what you like to be done to you, lips more than tongue, very intensities, “roll” your tongue, Let him lead, don’t shove your tongue down his throat, do that and you will most likely improve your kissing styles, relax! Do what feels natural the more you get uptight and worry about it the less its “quality” will be…
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ok here we go ..... Im soo ugly ... my boyfreind now x boy friend dumped me after he had sex with me and now i think im pregnet.... he sed i was the uglyest person alive and and i belive him!! i havent seen my parents since i was 5 cuz im they ran away cuz im soooo ugly!! so my uncle tells me everyday of my life... :-( i have no friends... no 1 wants to be friends with me.... at times i think seriously about suicide cuz its the only way out that i can see... i dont want to have a baby or be UGLY n e more... so if n e of u no a good plastic surgun or a good abortionist let me now PLEASE!!.. and if n e one knows a good hiT MAN let me kno so i can give my xbf wat he deserves.... !!!!! (link)
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Wow that is quite the situation... fist off calm down, if your so repulsive why did he not only date you but have sex with you, something about you must have made him want to... I know that there are some pretty ugly people out there, at least physically, I'm sure your not the ugliest in the world... your ex, face it he's an ass and probably was using you, believe me when I say there are better people out there, he’s no worth your time of day... if you feel ugly maybe wear a little make-up or something if it makes you feel better. There are over 6 billion people on this planet I'm sure someone out there is willing to be your friend! Heck I'll be your friend... feel free to talk to me anytime :)... as for the abortion doctor, first talk to your doctor or go to a clinic and find out if you even are pregnant, sometimes if people think they are then there body might act like it is, it's happened before... then if you are talk to your doctor to make sure an abortion is the right choice for your situation, you could also put it up for adoption, or keep it, what ever is best for you... save your hit man money and use it on a good psychologist having someone to talk to, especially if your suicidal can help... everything’s not so bad you just can't wake up and tell yourself this day will suck, because chances are in that case, it will... tell yourself ever time you think about it, or look in a mirror, your not ugly! and that you are worth it, and you will find life will seem to be better, the world is full of cruel people but it's also full of sweet grateful and friendly people too you just have to find them... Your worth it!!
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I clicked their names ask them a question and all fo a sudden it appears int he public, im so madd! (link)
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if you click there name and ask them... they can reject the question and therefore make it public since they didn't want to, or couldn't help
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What do you do if everyone you thought was your friend suddenly turns their back on you? (link)
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Make new friends.. there are billions of people in this world, and most of them are decent people... you can find a new circle of buddies that don't turn their backs on you...
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I've had this best friend for about 11 years now.. but I'm so sick of her. She's always lying to me, deceiving me, hurting me, so much stuff that I'm so pissed off. I talk to her about it all the time but she just comes up with more excuses, then expects me to forgive her. She's pretty much friends with all my friends, and you could even say she's "stolen" some from me and now they're better friends with her then me, so I can't hang out with them anymore. What should I do? (link)
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she doesn't sound like much of a friend i suggest slowly weeding her out over a period of time that way it will look to her like your just drifting apart not you being a bitch... you deserve a better friend than that good luck...
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ok here we go:
my boyfriend told me I don't kiss him back
the problem is he's really aggressive with the kissing and I like can't move my lips
well scratch that
I have no idea what I'm doing.he's the first person I've kissed and gahh I'm so insecure now about my kissing. someone help me..
what do I say to him and how can we solve this problem??
thank you =) (link)
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Well it sounds like he's a bad kisser, aggressive is not the best, lips can be as great as tongue, you have to step very careful around this so as not to hurt his self esteem, but you have to let him know you like it when he kisses you lightly, say it nonchalantly sorta like "wow your great, but you know what would make you even greater? I love it when you kiss me gently... you can also do things to slow him down get him to ease up, push back at his tongue with yours, then try and slow down the rhythm, you can make it even a sort of game a few quick kisses look at each other kiss again, add a little passion then quick ones again... this makes him think about it and gives you not only a break from aggressiveness but a way to "kiss back"...
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I like him and he ignores me now after i told him that i like him. Why does he ignore me now? (link)
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Perhaps he doesn't know what to think... He's avoiding you because he feels award he doesn't know how to face you, or what to say... this could be good or bad... it is a common happening so you aren’t alone... anyways best thing you can do is give him time to adjust then try and act as if you never said anything, you might come to find he likes you back and if he doesn't at least your friendship is maintained...
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I like this guy... and i have told him that i like him and hes sooo nice to me but he hasnt told me if he likes me... so i want to kno and i dont wanna scare him i just wanna become more than a friend to him what should i do? Should i harass him until he tells me? ASk his Best friend? jsut leave it alone??? TY (link)
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If you want to know then find a good time preferably in private and well you could ask him if he likes you or you could just plan ask him out, not the will you go out with me, but more of a want to come over sometimes go see a movie... its a good road to travel down to lead to more than friends... Good luck.... If you harass him he could just decide you are annoying... if you ask his friend, he might not have even told him... if you leave it alone then you might never know... perhaps he's not sure if he likes you or not so why not do what you can to tip the scales in you favor... spend time with him one on one...
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Ok this is going to be a semi-novel but I'll try to make sense. I'm 15 and at the beginning of September I met a guy(whom we'll call Bob).We were friends for a little over a month,and around the middle of October we kissed for the first time;he asked me out very soon afterword.our mutual friends had been bugging Bob to ask me out because it was obvious he liked me.He made the announcement to our them that he asked me out and it was understood that we were a couple.so from that day on, tho we never went anywhere(lack of money and transportation played a major role )but we still managed to kiss at every opportunity(including behind the school at lunch)and took every opportunity we could to be together. One day, we were talking and I mentioned that a friend of mine who(that I have known since childhood was jealous)that we're a couple; he says "well you know, i only see us as friends and plus there's this girl i'm interested in.she lives in maryland" and I go "but i'm here.she's there and I'm here" and he goes "well I've known her since july.plus i helped her through a serious breakup..." and I go "so why did you ask me out?why do you kiss me if we're only friends?" he goes "I don't know" so we weren't talking much for about a week and then suddenly we started up with our old routines. We have been doing this everyday since. My friends tell me that I need to get rid of him. Should I? Thanks… (link)
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Get rid of him? he sounds like a dick with commitment problems, you tie yourself down with that, and it will be nothing but headaches... he's the type of guy that will probably end up a cheater or player later in life... If he doesn't care about you as much as you do him and whenever something pretty rolls around you become just friens he's not worth it! Why put yourself in that situation... your pretty much like his alternate or his toy... you deserve, and can do better... you have plenty of time, and I know for a fact much better are out there...
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Hey I am going out with this guy i like and then i have all these other guys i like and i want them to I really dont wanna break his heart cuz i love him to death But theres these other guys that i have been out with and they Like me and i like them to I love them what am i to do (link)
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Well I'm guessing your young, if you care about this guy your seeing then wouldn't it be better to break up so you don't end up cheating or something similar? It's understandable, this type of thing happens all the time, and if you feel like this I don't think its fair to you or him to tie yourself half heartedly down... "Browsing" is normal but really wanting to "shop" when you already "bought" is not good... Your young its ok to end it and see what else is out there if you really want to. That’s better for some people, and probably better for him to...be fair to him and yourself, if you really want these other guys then perhaps that’s the way you should go...
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Hi..you answered my question about my ex watching me. You said that I should flaunt it and make him realize what he's lost is far better than what he has now. And I was just wondering, if you had any ideas on how I should flaunt it? hehe. Thanks.
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Yikes! Why on earth would you want to be a "home wrecker" if he really lost that much than why not just blow up the other girl? I mean she sure would be out of the way... how do you flaunt it anyways? You broke up for a reason and even if he does end up with you again that "flaunting you" is not you... a relationship needs respect and how are you giving him that by screwing up his current relationship... really if your all that and he's really missing you then it will end with his new girl and he'll end up with you... i look at boys doesn't mean i like them or even want to be with them...
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Okay, so I have this friend who is gay. And he really wants to tell his parents, they said they'd love him not matter what, but also, they don't approve of gays too much. I'm thinking of talking to them myself, but then he might get mad at me. So I really don't know what I should do, or what he should do actually. I told him to wait until he moves out to tell them, but he said he might feel guilty for doing that, letting them think that he was straight for 18 years or so.. then all of a sudden breaking the news. What should I do? Talk to his parents for him, or just leave it to him? And if I leave it up to him, can you give any advice for me to tell him? Thanks! (link)
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Let him do it... It needs to come from him, if you told them it would make them feel like there the last one's to know and that’s because their own son doesn't trust them, that would not be good at all! He has to tell him when he is ready, dropping a few hints before breaking the news might be a good idea... but don't tell them for him, you may mean well but that is not a good way to go about it... move with caution let him break the news...
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I need to go out of town for like a week. Is it worse to give my plants tons and tons of water before I leave, just just give them the normal amount of water and let them wilt some when they run out and hope I can bring them back to life when I'm back? (link)
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If you water too much the roots will rot and you will have one dead plant... you wont be gone too long give them there normal water then let it be, just pick up the normal watering when you get back... plants have evolved to survive a drought better than a monsoon in a pot were there is no drainage rather it sits in the water... yeah so just give them there normal supply and they will survive...
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I wanted to work on a new look for the new year, I've been thinking about punk, not being way over board. . but adding my own looks, mixing and matching I don't want to be noticed, but I want some say in what I wear. . . For the past years I dressed to impress, now its time for a change. . . IM gunna be dressed cuz I feel like wearing w/e the heck I want! I love the color black. . and fire is pretty, but I wouldnt cal myself a pyro, cuz I dont really love fire. . There r ups and downs. . about fire ya know, And I feel depressed and silenced, and I write poems and write lyrics for songs. . Is that like gothy??? I mena The goth style is pretty nice, but I dont want to be a goth. . Iw ant to be maybe a skater punk. . or something. CAn you give me advice for this problem?? *I dont care what my friends think. . IM gunna chnage even if they dotn wnat me to, not my personality. . just my clothes. .why would they care right??* (link)
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Ahh you want to be your own self, be a nonconformist care not what others think... so in other words your conforming to the non-conformists? Ok as for a style rather than picking a group of people to look like why not go to stores mix and match what you like and what is comfortable for you that way you have your own style you like and you wont make those "groups" mad thinking your just a copier and have no right to wear that... unless you look like a slob or hooker if your friends care that much... they are not worth it... anyways good luck finding the true you!
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My boyfriend will not be getting me a chritmas gift this Christmas. I have already purchased his gift and given it to him because he needed it early (an expensive snowboarding coat). I am trying not to be upset. Times are tough, money's tight, the problem is he spent $200 on his mom's CD player, and bought his dad a forutne in hunting gear and we went out all weekend and he had no money problems then. Sunday we went shopping and he mentioned that he looked at his account and he's going to have to write a bad check so that he get his sister a gift. I told him not to worry about me, he says he's really sorry (he's really beating himself up over it) and that he'll get me something great the next paycheck, which won't be until January 5th. Am I being stupid and girly because my feelings are hurt? (link)
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No that’s normal, you got him something and even though it was his family he spent the money on you probably feel less important, less of one of his priorities, but before you get to upset wait and see if he will come through with his Jan 5th paycheck, try and understand that family comes first weather you like it or not... what your feeling is fine just don't get too upset till the situation pans out...
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Look I really love my boyfriend weve been together for 3 years and I want to take it to the next level(sex)and he wants to know if im really sure oh here's the catch im a virgin he knows of course so what should I do???????????? (link)
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Talk to him, if you really want to, be clear you do, it's good he's being respectful by making sure you are sure, good guy. Anyways be sure you both have some sort of protection condom and birth control is best. If you want to and you’re ready for possible consequences, and ready for the emotions that go with it then ok, let him know...
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Hi i am a little confused i am a female and i dont have sex with my boyfriend untill a we hit 3 months so then i pleasure my self by finguring myself I am not sure How to do it the proper way do you think u can help Love,
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If your as young as your typing would suggest, I'd say wait for sex I doubt your ready to except the possible consequences, but if you need to use protection and they also say you should wait till 6 months before you have sex with a partner, it gives you a chance to build a good foundation not of sex. Anyways about your question you should see a similar question in this very category that will have all the answers...
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One of my friends at college, let's call him Try, seems to have developed feelings for me. Isn't that great? Well, not really. As much as I'd like to see him happy, I like another guy, Catch for the purposes of this excersize.
I made a post on a messageboard implying I had feelings for a guy. I was referring to Catch. I didn't figure there was any way anyone could interpret it as being anyone BESIDES Catch.
Part two. I sign up for livejournal so it's easier to talk to Try while he's back in Taiwan, halfway across the world. Consequently, I can now see all his private posts on HIS livejournal. Turns out, Try was hoping it was HIM I was talking about. And there were also random outbursts about how it was [female name, let's say Throw] all over again. Now, I know of his history with Throw, and I don't want to be another Throw.
Now I feel like I know stuff I shouldn't, and I feel bad about making Try feel bad, and I still care about Catch more than anything. It's a mess.
RuntimeException! What's a girl to do? (link)
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To be honest even if you wanted to, having a long, long distance relationship would be so hard. What you need to do is let him know, you know he has feelings for you, and as flattering as that is tell him the truth, your interested in someone else, let him know you’re sorry, and he's a great person and friend, tell him there is someone out there that will make his world complete, you just don't feel it's you, and that you hope to be a friend to him, and you love him as friends love each other, but you don't see your feelings for him changing anytime soon... It will be hard he will feel bad and he might try and haggle with you to give him a chance or not, it depends on him. You just need to be strong and honest, consider his feelings, and do what you can to be clear to him it won't work out... Good luck I know from experience this is never easy but you and him both can move on once its done, why make him live with a false hope its not fair to him or you...
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