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Hey I was just wondering what kind of shampoo's work the best, I wanna have a nice, straight look with not that many frizzy's if its possible.. lol thanks! (link)
use pantene pro-v...and use studio gel from loreal straight up and put it in ur hair before u blow dry it and u wont get much friz and it will be pretty straight


me and this dude has been going on and off for about two years and i love him too death he's my everything. But theres a problem he does stuff that i really dont like, hes not cheating or w/e hes just doing something i think he shouldnt be doing, he says he loves me but right now he has to do what he has to do, since hes been doing that i really dont get to see him as often as i used to, so i feel really bad about this but i cheated on him and i have NEVER done that and i am afraid hes going to find out and then the two years of emotions will be gone, this dude is everything to me and he is the only one that has that special place in my heart and always be the one for me but what if he finds out? :'( (link)
Depending on what you did with this other guy you should talk to ur boyfriend about it..tell him if he loved u he wud try n forgive you..obviously say sorry and tell him no one cud ever take his place and u have no clue why u did that.. Also try telling him that you dont want the two years of emotions to be gone..hope i helped and good luck


What is Down Syndrom and what does it make you act like because i think my friend has it!? (link)
Down Syndrome is a retardation. And I think you'd notice if your friend had it. Usually if you have Down syndrome ur eyes are kinda big and u have a big head and you can see the retardation..hope i helped


hi k see I just got this really funny nice and sweet boyfriend well I was talking on the phone with him yesturday and I was talking about these new friends and He asked if they were boys and I said yeah and he got made at me and saying that I shouldnt have friends that are boys. What do I do???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????? (link)
Maybe ask him if he has any girls as friends..and be like u shoudlnt worry about who my friends are and i will never like them i only love you and if he understands then he loves you


I met this boy at the beginning of the summer, but we liked eachother the first time we talked. After hanging out a couple times, we started going out. He isn't a virgin + supposedly got a girl pregnant awhile ago. He never pressures me or anything. I know I won't do unless I'm totally ready + totally in love. I'm starting to actually love this boy! I'm just scared I won't measure up to some of his old gfs + that I want to take things slow. He says he really loves me + that I'm different from all his old gfs and he likes + respects that. Should I stay with him? (link)
I think he loves you and he wont compare his other girlfriend towards you. I think you don't have much to worry about and he will take it your speed for you...hope i helped


my grandma loves me but she loves my other cuzin more and it shows they have like a great relationship and me and my grama dont talk that mutch she always kids around and says o this is my favorite grndaughter and she is not talking about me i just feel so bad because ahe might not be around that much anymore shes pretty old and i want her to love me as much as my other cuzins.What should i do?
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Aww..Maybe try being with your grandma more and talk to her..and if u feel comfortable enough then tell her how you really feel..hope i helped..


i recently saw my best friend (we'll call her A) and with my other best friend(B) like we are all best friends, and the other day B was showing me all the things that A gave to her for birthdays and halloween, and A didnt get me anything for her birthday, while i got her two very expencive pant that i had to return because they didnt fit! and i always give her(A)a ride to the mall and i even pay for stuf like i would spend 20$ on her when ever we go out because i buy her pop corn and everything! and then one day we went to the mall and we saw buy one get one free, and i took the one free and everyday she bugs me about it and says that its not fair! i realy don't want to be her friend but i don't know! i feel like she is the worst person i ever met! how can i tell her this!

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I think you should try telling her how shes acting and if she starts acting up about it say i dont need this..but if she understands and she wants to try n be better help her get better..hope it works and and hope i helped


Does black really match with anything? (link)
black goes with anything but deep colors like deep blue green and purple


ok...i still (link)
If you love him and are willing to wait then wait. Maybe talk to him urself but if u feel as if ur losing feelings for him and u talk to him and he ses he doesnt like you then i suggest you try n forget him..hope i helped and good luck


so then whats a metrosexual? (link)
its a guy with female tendancies, but isnt gay


I've been sexually active for about 6 monthes or so now, and I'm going to the gynocologist sometime this week. Will she be able to tell that I'm not a virgin? I'm only 16. Oh, and if she can find out, are they supposed to tell your parents? PLEASE, PLEASE HELP! (link)
I dont think the therapist can tell your parents if you dont want them too...hope i helped


i dont know why, but my boyfriend dumped me. its been lyk 2 weeks. my friend asked him if he would go out w/ me again. he said he didnt know. i called him 1 or 2 timez and he said he wanted to hang out soon. o yeah, the reason he dumped me wuz b/c we didnt c eachothr alot...ok, anyways, do you think we still have a chance or not?plz tell me!thanx (link)
I think you have a chance. When you're hangin out with him talk to him about it and if he says he wants to be with you again then I think you should be with him again! Hope i helped


He's 20. I'm 16.

My current boyfriend started as a crush. We didn't rush into things we started out as just friends. Now that we are together he has changed. I think he tries too hard to please me and becomes irritated very easily. He seems so insecure and ...well ... just different from the person I knew when we were just friends. Our phone conversations have become a so unbearable I hardly return his calls. HE senses that there is some tension but I don't think I can explain to him exactly what's wrong. How can I get him to be himself around me again? (link)
Maybe tell him about what your thinking or drop some hints like how come ur not as funny anymore and maybe when he hears that he'll realize its ok for him to be himself when hes with you..hope i helped


i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks (link)
Dont worry about what people think. If you really like him then go out with him. hope i helped


What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?.. (link)
Aww you must be really hurt! you should tell your friend that she had no right to do that and right now you need time to think before your friends again and let ur boyfriend know that he was also stupid to do that and if he loved you he wouldnt of did it! Talk to your boyriend about it and if you think you can trust him give him another shot and see where it goes from there


here i go:
okay my best friend...."Nancy"....well we have been friends for about 3 years and well we have a lot of fights about stuff!! we just recently had a fight and she said "we have 2 many fights" and she hasn't been talkin 2 me a lot usually she is the one approachs me and says "hi" but now i'm sayin "hi" only she won't talk 2 me!! i said 2 her okay u wanna b like that fine so i haven't talked 2 her!!! what should i do?? she is gettin on my nerves and she is actin like a child, i am 2 mature for this kind of childish behavior!!! Lemme Kno!! :)

xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*. (link)
Let her know shes acting stupid and way to childish. Maybe both of you need a break from eachother and hang with new people. She shouldnt be acting like that. Hope i helped


i like someone very much.but i moved from his school last year. i have his phone # but i dont know if i should call him beacause my bf thinks that he might of moved. what do i do??? (link)
call him If you want to tell him how you feel. Maybe he didn't move. You might as well call him cuz what if he didn't move and al lthat time you didn't call him. I say you call him and if he didn't move tell him how you feel. Hope i helped


my cousins have both had a lot of trouble with drugs and addiction. i am very scared they will die and i always cry when i talk about it. I get so sad and i dont no what to do, my emotions are taking me over! (link)
Maybe you should try talkin to your cousins and tell them how you feel and your scared something might happen to thme. Maybe if you let them know you care they'll try n stop. Hope i helped


what is the best way to lose about 10 pounds fairly quickly? i am 14 years old so i dont have acsess to many things (link)
You could always try a diet? Exercising is really good too like sit ups and crunches. Maybe try running/walkin and swimming. Hope i helped


ok theres this kid that i really like and he really likes me and we have liked each other for like 3months now.. but for some reason were not going out.. i wanna try and go out but i dont wanna ask him out.. how do i show that if he asked me out i would say yes or what do i do? (link)
DOnt be afriad to talk to him. If you talked to him you would probly be going out. Maybe start flirting with him or come straight out n say I like you and id love to be with you. Hope i helped




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