My name is Charles. I want whoever is reading to know that Jesus Christ Changes Things. Jesus has made such a change in my life. How I think and see the world and everything around me. I love to worship and praise the Lord. I like to play football, and I sing(Good) too. Ima coo guy that gets along with pretty much anyone. So if you a coo person holla at ya boy. Especially the Ladies.
- Much Luv
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Gender: Male
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
Member Since: July 15, 2005
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Last Update: August 9, 2005
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I like this guy but hes older then me!! He's gonna be a junior and im gonna be in 8th grade!! is that a big difference to guys? do they care how old there girlfriend is? thanks! (link)
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Yes they do. That's a BIG difference.
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This year I wasn't doing so well in school. I failed 2 classes! My mom got sooo mad at me! So she put me in Summer School. Ughhh! I got so mad at her, I failed Summer School on purpose because I was so angry I had to do it. 3 days ago my mom got my Summer School Report Card. I'm grounded for the rest of the summer. I can do stuff still, but no sleepovers. But then I told my mom Summer School was hard for me. So, now I'm not grounded. But now I feel like I'm on the spot.. and I regret what I did. What should I do?? =/
x- Lauren -x
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Don't worry about past mistakes becuase there is nothing you can do about it. Everything you do in school is a precursor to the future. If you wanna do something in life you gotta have an education. If you don't have a good education you can still make it but it will be 3x's as hard. So when skool starts, stop thinkin about friends and the opposite sex and focus on skool. So many adults wish they would have worked harder in skool. U only get one shot, don't blow it.
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I have a boyfriend named Banard. He farts.. IN PUBLIC! I love him and his farts, but not in public! I mean, I don't wanna be called names, because of him. And, my parents thinks it's soo unexceptable that he farts in public. How should I talk to him about this? What do I do?!?!? HELLPP MEE! PLEASE!
Signed,
Fartness Confused (link)
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Tell him that you love him and his fart and you don't have a problem with him farting EXCEPT when you are in public. Say that it's just rude and nobody likes it.
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This is a long story, theres a shorter question if you want on my next post this is all the details thou ....I'm 14 F, and I really like this guy and we were talking on IM yesterday and I had already told him that I liked him and he said he liked me but that was a long time ago and we kept saying that we'd do something like go to the mall or movies but we never did. So yesterday we were talking and I was like who do you like at the moment, and he's like well theres alot more people flirtin around with me than I am with them. Then I asked like who, and he wouldn't tell me (I knew I was one of them) so anyways I begged and pleaded with him to tell me who else, and he never did, but then he said i wont go out with anyone who likes me right now (meaning me) so then i changed the subject and asked him why he went out with his ex girlfriend and he said it was a long story, then i asked why he liked his ex (its a diffrent question) and he (suprisingly) answered me he said because she was "fun" and he was bored and i was like 'fun meaning..?' and he said like she was just flirty, and i was like oh.. like talking flirty or something else? and he said like something else, and i was like 'what?', and he said like 'touchy' flirty, and i asked would you ever go out with some one like that again? and he said yeah if i could find someone then i said "this is soooo uuuunnnnnfffaiiirrr, yyoooouuu doooonnnttt knnnooowww what i would do if i actually saw youuuu i feell likkke a sssllluuut for saying this but its true!" then he asked what would i'd do if we were alone, then i said id do anything except for sex or stuff with sex in its name (i thought about it like 4 days before and i was going to tell him that i wanted to do stuff but i didnt know how to tell him, got that out of the way) (then i asked him what he thought of me saying that and he said he was intrested, which im glad because i want him) but ive never done any thing before and i dont really know what to do, or what there is to do....
what is there to do like between making out and sex(anykind)???
and if you want to tell me how, that would be more than helpful if you explain what it is
If you give an answer ill give you a 5, no dumb crap thou please! (link)
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Well, I think you should take the fact you are a virgin and never done anything a good thing. Think about the situation a month a two from now. You are probably going to regret messing with that guy. Clearly he only wants you to mess around with him. I think you should think about it some more and ask yourself do you really wanna do that. If a guy says he wants to mess around with you, he does't mean I wanna be with you. He just wants pleasure.
-God Bless
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Okay I’m 15 and I weigh 110 and I’m 5’6 is that to skinny? I don’t think it is but some people say that is and I wanna gain some pounds. And I want it to show I just maybe wanna get to like 120 at least. If anyone knows any good ways of gaining some pounds please let me know what they are. Also will you tell me from the information I gave you up top does that sound like I’m skinny or is it fine? Thank you so much!!
*K (link)
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u r kinda skinny but don't worry.
JUST EAT EVERYTHING YOU CAN. YOU MUST EAT EVERYTHING IN SIGHT. Stop at nothing until you have eaten all you can. Eat even when you aren't hungry.
I hope that helped.
-God Bless
P.S. Pray for weight gain 2 and exercise.
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im 13 and my friend was 17. we are both girls and we made out. would that juss be considered 'experimentin' or would it change to makin us bi or w.e? my other friend is 14. she wants to make otu with me and i would.... is this all normal? am i still straight (link)
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No it's not normal no matter what everyone else says. God created Adam and Eve not Amanda and Eve. He meant for man to be with woman and woman to be with man. I know right now in your life you have all these feelings going on. But realize that your feelings will only get you in trouble. I think you should go to church(pentacostal) and pursue God.
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I know its always better to be yourself ive learned that. The problem is i dont know ho wot find out who I am and what to do when being myself. (link)
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You could try a million diffent things and think you know who you are. But the only way to truly find out who you are is by finding God. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. He will let you know which way to turn in life, give you the truth about him and the world around you and give you eternal life in Heaven. Christianity isn't a religion it's a relationship and a lifestyle. Start your relationship with Jesus today. If you wanna know how holla at me.
-God Bless
God has a plan 4 u.
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ok well i am 15 years old on wensday july 20 2005 and well i have 4 older brothers and 1 older sister and my brother dylon who is 21 he missed 7 of my b days in a row he keeps on going back to jail ha got out june 20 and went back in july 15 he missed it again me and him get along soooo good and he got my back he treats me like a little sister my other brothers treat me like i am just there buddy .me and my dad dont get along at all and since summer started so much shit has happend i have been sltitting my wrist an my other brother west just went to jail who is 25. well i am alresdy sick of life and if it gets any worse i dunno i just wont to give up. like sooo much has been haping i aint gunna say it all because i could go on for a while. i gotin to the point where i dont no what to do anymore and i treid using the kids help line on line but they never replied. i have a boy friend who treats me good he drinks alot thuogh but it doesent bother me... i use to be into drugs but i quit most of them.my sister and i use to get along realy good she was my best friend intell she met this guy since then we dont talk she is pregnet after them being together for 15 months.like i just dont no what to do about anything i am still in school going into grade 10. i am sorry this is getting long but i need help realy bad .in the paper the other day there were 27 quistions and if you were 7 of them you needed counslind i was 21 of them. i cry almost everynight. i cant do it no more what should i do plaese help me....please
katy (link)
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1st thing you need to know is that you don't need a counselor. You need something in your life that is stable and never changing. You need love. I want you to know that Jesus Loves you so much. So much that words can't even begin to explain how much he loves you. No matter what you've done, or how bad you have sinned he still loves you. Jesus can bring you stability that you have never felt b4. The ONLY way to TRULY have peace in your life is by accepting Jesus into your life. See TRUE CHRISTIANITY isn't a religion it's a relationship between you and Jesus Christ and a lifestyle that you live. So, start your relationship with Jesus Christ today. Trust me you will begin to see things change in your life. If you wanna know how or anything else just holla at me. I'll be here.
-God Bless
P.S. Jesus Christ Changes Things.
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Hello Charles,
I praise the Lord for a young guy whose willing to stand up and tell the truth. Bless you brother and keep reaching out to your generation. I hope your not discouraged when the antagonistic lost people rate low because you're doing a great job answering questions. Keep the truth of Jesus flowing!
Your Sister in Christ,
mylordwon (link)
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Naw, I don't get mad or discouraged. I get annoyed. I know where my soul is going and what my destint holds. They don't so. Thanx so much for your support.
-God Bless u.
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I think I’m suffering from depression. And my relationship with my family is going down hill. I feel like I’m such a burden and I feel like something is seriously wrong with me. I want to tell my parents but it’s just so hard to tell them how I’m feeling. I’m 17 and I love my parents very much but I can’t live with them and get the help I need. I'm not sure if I should tell them or just let things go on the way they are and be miserable? (link)
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I don't think you are suffering from depresion I think that devil is trying to rip your famuly aprat just like he is everyone else's. But your family can come back toegther again. All you have to do is believe in your heart and have faith that things will turn around. And pray about it.
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I am a Wiccan and so is my boyfriend. I told my mom he was (but not me) now she won't let me see him. My mom's a very conservative Christian who is very judgmental andtakes everything personaly. Should I tell her I'm a Wiccan, my boyfriend says I should..because even though we can sneek and talk we can't sneek and see each other and I'm only 16 so I still have 2 years before I can move out.
PS- I'm worried that if I tell her she will have me on complete lock down (link)
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What exactlt is Wiccan?
And what does it do for you?
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okay just a couple of weeks ago i had to go to the hospital fer a few weeks and they found out i have FSGS a form of kidney disease..and now i have to take steroids (not the kind fer sports and making you strong) but they have all these really bad effects on me and body swelling is one of them my face and stomach are really swollen and it makes me feel really uncomfortable taking pictures or going swimming...
should i feel this way?? (link)
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I don't know. But I know one thing you don't have to live with that disease any longer. You can be healed. You can be set free from that disease that limits you and be as healthy as an ox. If you wanna know more holla at me.
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hey i been friends with Ashely for about 6 years and we are best friends and we were going out to dinner and a movie with group of friends and i pick here up and i walk in and i show her cuting her self and her dad and mom was not home i dont want Ashely to get her or i know some times u can die from cutting your self do u think i should tell some one or just keep it to myself? (link)
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I think you should tell someone. If you are true friend you will help her. I think you should also take her to church.
-God Bless
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Here is where you said you can't get and STD from oral sex:
QUESTION WAS:
"what is STD and how do u get and is it bad"
YOU ANSWER:
"An STD is a Sexually Transmitted Diseases. You can only get through sexual intercourse."
Then you continue to go on, but you never mention you can get an STD from oral. You told the kid wrong.... MAYBE she'll get an STD!! And that won't be YOUR fault, since it would be HER choice.. but maybe if she was told right and informed that you CAN get STD's from oral she wouldn't have jumped into it so quickly!!!!!!!!!!!
You ALSO said:
......"but you know what someones need to tell them the truth."
The "TRUTH"???????????? The "TRUTH" according to WHO???????????? YOU may believe what you say is the truth. And if you follow Christianity STRICTLY then I'm sure other people believe what you say to. But SOME people aren't as big on it as you are.... SOME people don't follow Christianity, they'd perfer something else. SOME people don't have a religion AT ALLLLLLLL!!!!!
All I'm saying is you shouldn't bring up religion in questions that do not ask about it. I udnerstand that it is your opinion and belief that they will go to hell... but.. maybe THEY simply DONT CARE about YOUR opinions and beliefs! They're gonna do what they want regardless.. they just wanna know the best way to go about it! When you sit there and ramble on about religion.. you're wasting their time......
Why not keep spirituality to questions in your INBOX and to people who want to debate. It pisses people the fuck off when others try to preach to them. I already people on this site are sick of you ALREADY, myself being one of them. I'm shore you don't care... but you're not helping anyone by giving out wrong information on something as sex, which can make them very ill.......
You could have just set some little girl's death up. You're going to hell. (link)
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Your ignorance will cost you your soul. You will be judged accordingly on Judgement Day by your creator. I knew b4 I made this profile there would be ignorant people like you who know nothing trying to tell me what I should say. But I also knew since people persacuted Jesus they'll persacute me 2. So it doesn't bother me what you say. I know where my soul is going. I know what happens after death. My soul and prosperity is secure. Is yours????????? I know you deal with some things in your life. The only person you can rely on is Jesus Christ. People will only disappoint you but Jesus never will. In your life right now there are people that you can't rely on and that never come through 4 you. One day you will find yourself in a place with no where else to turn. No one to talk to. You'll be lonely, helpless, and in need. At that point in your life you will wake up and realize that God is the only person that can help you.
-God Bless
God has a plan for YOU.
You just don't know it YET.
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i recently have been excommunicated out of a great church due to not following their rules i was happy there part of me wants it back but part of me wants to live the way i want to live how do i get it all to mesh together so i can be happy all the time i loved the church i really still do i miss it all what should i do if you need more details please let me know but i warn you it is long well if anyone can help let me know (link)
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1st if I were you I'd write an apology letter to the Church. Say everything you are sorry for and that you didn't know what you were doing. Say that you need God in your life and you can't live without him. Say that you won't do it again and you seek to know God better. 2nd a life of sin ultimately leads to DEATH. This world has many pleausre, but is it worth your soul. For God you have to be Hot or Cold. You can't be luke for it says in his word that he will spit you of his mouth and into the Lake of Fire. Jesus Loves you and he deosn't want to see you out of church or in sin. Write that letter and let your heart pour out in it.
-God Bless
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NOOOOOO, GENIUS.. YOU spelled "NEW" wrong:
"Second yeah of course I new that. "
Notice how it was in quotes???????? Yeeeeeeeeaaaaaahhhhhhhhh.
Sure whatever.. pray for me if you want, because I go around sucking everyone off. It's MY choice. I'm just saying maybe you should educate YOURSELF on sex [since you're CLEARLY inexperienced] before you start to educate OTHERS. That little girl CAN get an STD for oral sex.. and you told her no. That just made me sick............ pray for HER, she may need it.. thanks to YOU..... (link)
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I never said oral sex won't give you an STD. I didn't mention it at all. You are seriourly trippin'. 1st off Christianity isn't a religion it's a relationship between you and Jesus Christand and a lifesyle.
2nd you don't know what I've been through or what my life is like. You don't have the right to Judge me or speak negative things about me. You don't know me. I don't know you. But you know what Jesus knows both of us. Yeah he knows you. He's got ya number. He see and hears everything you do and say. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the Life. No man cometh to the father but by him. So player that means you can't make it into Heaven w/o having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Dat's real homie. Plus I'm a Child of God you disrespect me, you disrespect God. I understand your view on me and how you disagree with me preaching the gospel to people, but you know what someones need to tell them the truth. Seems like all the other Christians don't have the Balls. But mark this day I will continue to preach the gospel. There are so many lost people on this website. And they will go to hell if someone doesn't help them. Same goes for you. So not only will I pray for that girl, I'll pray for you, and every other person on here looking for truth. Looking for something real. Trust me the Bible is Truth. Read it sometime.
-God Bless you
God has a plan for you.
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alright, i have a question. my parents decided not to go to curch for awhile...but we ARE going back. i HATE the people at that church. none of the kids in youth group are nice to me...or talk to me. and im a shy person so i dont want to go up to them and to top it all off the teachers are MEAN! and they have no clue wat theyre doing! how do i tell my parents i dont like it and i want to go to another church?
p.s. my mom and dad LOVE the church
p.s.s. i rate really high (link)
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Just say it. Tell them how you feel about it. You need to go somewhere where you feel free to worship and comfortable. You also need wanna be somewhere where the Spirit of The Lord is moving. It sounds like your church has made Christianity into a religion. True Christianity isn't a religion it's a relationship between you and Jesus Christ and a Lifestyle you live.
Read Galation 5:18-25.
-God Bless
God has a plan 4 you.
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What is the differnece between Catholic, Lutheren and Christian religions? I want to know about the differences befor i pick one. (link)
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Catholic and Lutheren are RELIGIONS. Christianity is a LOVE RELATIONSHIP that you build with Jesus Christ our Lord & Savior and a LIFESTYLE.
Read Galations 5:18-25
See religion is Man's pursuit of God. Christianity is God's pursuit of Man. In his words there is truth and holiness. It doesn't matter what you've done or what you've been through, Jesus still Loves you. Jesus said in his word" I am the way, the truth, and the life. No man cometh to the father but by me. In others words you need to have a relationship with Jesus to get into Heaven.
- God Bless
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Okay, you don't own me. And you CERTAINLY can NOT control me. I definitely will NOT censor myself for YOU.........
To get to the point, if you "NEW" you can get STD's from oral sex, WHY did you tell the kid [a couple questions below] otherwise???????????????
If you DON'T KNOW this shit.. DON'T provide!!! False information is worse than NONE....... (link)
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Wow, someone is upset 4 no reason. Cool down. Take a chill pill. Plus how can u talk to me and you spelled "Knew" wrong. I made a very small mistake by not mentioning oral sex, but it aint dat deep. Plus you shouldn't even be doing dat stuff. Dat's why there are sexually transmitted dieases to give people a consequence for their sin and fornication. I'll make sure I pray for you.
-God Bless
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"An STD is a Sexually Transmitted Diseases. You can only get through sexual intercourse."
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You CAN get STD's from ORAL SEX as well. I hope to dear God that was a mistake. You're 16, and you should know this shit.......... (link)
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1st thing don't say the Lord's Name in vain. That one of the Ten Commandments(It offends God). Second yeah of course I new that.
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