Ok so recently my phone broke. Bummer! I think my bro broke it
About two mOnths ago my phone was Perfectly fine it was a Pretty cool phone touchscrean full keyboard the keyboard intead of sliding up it flipped up
Well since my brOther always prefered to buy himself videogames instead of a phone I would let him use mine I had really no problem but sometimes we would fight cause when I was using it he would DEMAND that I let him use it like if it was his and in one occasion he pined me down on my bed and told me if I didn't give it to him he would hit me! Btw he's 17 and in 15
One day I lent it to him for the week end but when he gave it to me the part of the phone witch held the screen to the keaybored was broken and the screen kinda dangled it still fully worked but he refused to admit he broke it after using it all weekend! And no one else used it well a couple weeks after I lent it to him for another weekend and when he gave it back he told me that he sat on it and cracked the screen ! Well another couple of weeks passed and he bought a new phone but he still didn't have money to connect it so I use it as an alarm well I lent my phone to him for another weakened and he told me it had run out of battery when I put it to charge and turned it on it had a completely black screen so I got mad and ofcorse he said he hadn't done it! I asked if I could borrow his new phone while he got the money to connect his and he said NO! I couldn't force him and I was kinda sad cause well it hurt cause a year or so ago I got a phone and he asked for it and without a thought I gave it to him! my mom noticed and I told her what happened and she initiator took me brothers side! She said I was crazy and selfish for asking him
Ofcorse I think I'm write and she and brother and mom think their write so Plzz help me
P. S I bought that phone with my own mOney as well
Alright, first I'd suggest that you sit down with your mom and explain to her the exact situation. Tell her that for the past year you were letting your brother borrow your phone, and even when you told him know he'd threaten to hit you. Make it very clear that you just found it very unfair of him to do that, and maybe talk to your mom about getting him to help pay for you to get a new phone to replace the one he broke. From what it sounds like, it seems like your mother is acting like she has a favorite, which is something I think you should also try to talk to her about. All you need to do is tell her how what she's doing is making you feel, and see how it goes from there. Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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My boyfriend experienced one day where he felt as if he needed to urinate but he didnt. He felt slight burning. The next day it was gone. I have performed oral sex with him and one other person (a year ago) who TOLD me he was tested. A test for uti was negative and ive never experienced any symptoms of stds. Do you think he has an std? Im the only person who he has been sexually active with whatsoever. Maybe it was just a bad day? Please respond, thank you
I agree that you should both get tested to be on the safe side. However, you should ALWAYS use a condom because they do NOT prevent STDs. If the tests come back negative, tell him to go to the doctor and explain what happened, and they should be able to help you out. Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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I'm not sure but I'm thinking about having sex with my bf. But i don't want my parents to find out. What if I'm at the doctors and the ask if I'm sexually active and my parents are there for some weird reason. How do I keep them thinking tht I'm a virgin
First of all, to be brutally honest, if you're "not sure" about having sex, then you're not ready. It's a HUGE thing to do, and you need to be completely ready for it, and when you are you'll know. Second, you don't need to lie to your parents, just don't mention anything about it. However! That being said, if you ever think you might be pregnant or may have gotten an STD, then I suggest you tell them right away. Parents are great supports for things like that because they've been there and know through experience. They may be a little upset at first, but parents are usually very understanding. But I do still think you should wait untill you're absolutely sure you're ready for that and realize all the different things that can happen because of having sex. Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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Well, our teacher forgot to tell us that we have school talent show auditions in two days, I don't know what to do!!! Please no singing or dancing or magic tricks. I'm not afraid to do silly things on a stage so that's good. But what can I do that's unique?
If you like being silly, why not try making a comedy act? Use props and make up silly jokes or stories and go from there! Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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I only have chalk and a ball but is flat , i also dont have the pump , so what could i do?
Well those two objects are slightly random, but here's some equally random ideas for you!:
If you want to use both objects, make your own game. Maybe throw the flat ball, mark where it landed, then try and beat it the second time?
Chalk itself can be fun. Draw pictures, or make a hopscotch or even find someone to play x's and o's on the pavement with you.
Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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So theirs this guy who ive been talking to since march 2, (im not a stalker i just remeber the day)i really like him and when we see each other at school we hug, he tells me i look beautiful and abunch of other sweet things. i really like him and when we text he calles me baby/babe. if were not together than please give me some ideas to like hint that i want him to ask me out, im 13 and hes 13 to, hes a pretty boy, so hes like a majer player please help!
Sweetie, he didn't reject you. He just said he could see you two dating, just not yet. Just give it some time. If he really likes you, it'll happen, and if you two talk way more, I don't think you'll have to wait TOO long. Maybe just get to know eachother a bit first. Stuff like that never hurts. Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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one of my stupid friends told him i liked him and then he texted me and told me he liked me to but the next day i found out he had a girlfriend and now we dont really talk and thats the reason i didnt want him to know because i thought it would mess up r friend ship i think i should just try to move on (in a way i dont want to)but my friends think i should wait to c if him and his girl friend break up what should i do
I agree with Jasmine, but I'd also have to say don't really wait around. If he wants to be with you, it'll happen, but don't sit and wait for it because, sorry to say, it might not happen and you don't want to think you've wasted your time. So my advice? You can still hope for it, but don't let it get in the way of meeting new people. You never know. And also, if this guy stopped talking to you, it could be because he's a good enough guy that he doesn't want anything to happen while he's still taken, which would therefore make him a cheater. Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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im 18 years old, a guy, bout to graduate HS.
Anyways, i know its hard to understand, but my ex is a freshman and also a cheerleader, and she recently broke it off with me.
She said she wanted to be single and "experience" AND even though she kinda broke my heart, i still care for her. Every goddamn thing reminds me of her, driving, things around my house, things around school, everything. and i cant stop thinking about her.
But the thing is, she is kinda super hot and has alot of friends, and im worried that throughout high school she might turn into a slut, like one who goes to parties and drninks and hooks up with random guys. Even though i was her first kiss, she is innocent right now. But im wondering, is there a chance she might become a total slut ? and it worries me, because i still care for her.... for some reason and i know it is weird, i know, but it bothers me so much that i literally wanna force myself to erase her from my life so that i wont have to worry about her becoming a bad person. Help me?
Sorry, but first of all "slut" is a very derogatory term, though I understand what you mean. Anyways, it IS possible, but it has nothing to do with her looks. Every woman has the potential to want to sleep with alot of people. However, what I think you need to realize is it's her choice. I know you care about her, but if that's what she wants to do, there's nothing that will really stop her. If you hear about it from random people at some point, maybe ask her about it? Tell her you're worried. But don't pry into her personal life because otherwise it would just seem.. odd. I know you feel like you want to erase her from your life, but let me be the first to tell you it won't happen, and you shouldn't let it even if you could. She was a part of your life, and you don't want to forget that. So, I guess long story short, only approach her if it starts spreading around, because that's when it might be a problem.. and if you do find out, just go to her and say something like "Look, I don't mean to pry or anything like that.. but I've been hearing this around and I thought you should know.. that way if it's not true, you might be able to set things straight" or something like that because then it shows that you care. Hope this helped. Goodluck and keep smiling!
~RF
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This morning I woke up and my throat felt funny, but it didn't hurt. Throughout the day I felt sicker and sicker. On my way home it felt like a regular cold. Now its almost midnight, I took a long nap. Now my throat feels really really tight. I'm scared to go to sleep. I'm scared that each breath is my last. I looked in the mirror and the food hole looks smaller. Is it possible that my throat can close and I'll stop breathing? I haven't felt my throat this bad in a long long time. What can it possibly be? Can you explain the closing process? If I can suffocate, is it a painful death? If something were to go wrong while sleeping, would I feel it, or would I just not wake up? I'm really scared. I'm M/15, I want to grow to be old and change the world. I had an unusual good day today, a very good day. So I feel sad for a few months and once good things happen, I feel like I won't be alive for these good days. I had a dream of the girl I like too. Thanks if you can explain. :(
I agree with DangerNerd; go to the ER. Even if it's not allergies, you could have tonsilitis. I had that and my throat was VERY swollen. So just go to the ER and see what's going on. Hope you're okay! Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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what do you do when your being replaced
It's difficult to give good advice based on the little information given, but here it goes:
If you feel as though you're being replaced, confront the person who's replacing you and tell them how you feel. Ask them if there was anything that happened that made them feel as though they need to replace you. If they say they didn't mean to make you feel that way, then talk about what could be done differently so no one's feelings get hurt.
Hopefully that helps, and I'm sorry if it didn't. Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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I'm really not sure whether I should try smoking pot again. I will absolutely, never, ever become a "pot head" but I'm not completely against doing it once in a while. I'm just a bit torn because my first experience with pot wasn't the best
My first experience with alcohol was fine. I was nervous at first being the sort of uptight, kind of anxious person I am, but it did nothing to me but made me giddy and kind of hyper. No crazy, unexpected feelings. Now, I probably drink, like once a week with friends. I went up to visit my older brother in college one weekend and he told me he wanted me to try smoking pot. I was very, very excited because I'd always wanted to feel what it's like to be high. My brother and his friends who have kind of become potheads showed me the bag of weed and told what "great stuff" it was and how high we would get. Anxiously, I went with my brother into the woods so we could smoke. I took 3 or 4 pretty big hits, we went back inside, and I felt a little lightheaded but nothing else.
Afterwards we went to a party at my brother's friends house and a lot of people were there, all of whom I didn't know. I had a few sips of alcohol but that was it. I was getting really anxious to smoke again. I was GOING to get high that night. We finally went to the back and smoked again. I had 3 HUGE hits. One was so big I almost threw up coughing.
A couple minutes later we went back in and I felt kind of sick, dizzy, and really out of it. Literally as I was telling my brother that I didn't feel good, I was hit with this crazy feeling of not being conscious for a second and not being inside my own body, and everything looked distorted for a second. I started crying hysterically and I was shaking and just felt so uncomfortable. I felt like I was going unconscious every other second.
We left immediately and I cooled down a little. We got back and it was just my brother and me in his room and we ate and listened to music and I laughed hysterically at everything and felt a lot better. I still felt like I was in outer space though, especially in the few minutes my brother's friend came into the room, in which I started feeling very uncomfortable again. So, the second half of my experience being stoned was quite pleasant but still a little freaky.
A few questions: Do you think I smoked too much and was overly high for my first time? Did the fact that this weed was such "good stuff" partly cause my little episode? Did my anxiety attack come from being in a foreign place with strangers? If I smoke again will I feel more comfortable since I know what to expect? Next time should I just try to ingest the smoke with out smoking a joint? or weed brownies? What are ways of preventing freaking out? Are there levels of high or are you just high? Is it normal to feel as out of it as I did just being moderately high?
I NEED closure with this. I will probably smoke again just because of that but I'd love to hear your thoughts. THANK YOU
I used to be a 'stoner', so this comes from experience. I used to smoke alot, and then randomly one day I got a panic attack. It was roughly around what you're describing. I quit for two weeks, then I decided I'd like to try it one more time, and guess what? It happened again. And since then I haven't had any. I mean, sure there's fun moments, but do you really want to risk that feeling again? I would say not to do it. Just remember the fun parts, and live your life without smoking it because really, is it worth it? Hope this helped you in some way. :)
~RF
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I'm not the smartest kid in the world, but not I'm not dumb either. I'm pretty much useless, though, and I don't have anything that would jump out at people, except... I do write. It's about the only thing I do with myself and I'm not exaggerating in the least bit when I say that I write day and night, from the time I get home from school to the time I get home. I carry a notebook with me everywhere just in case I'm hit with inspiration.
Well, everyone knows that I like writing, but no one ever supports me. My friends always brag about my writing, but it makes me feel like crap because I know that not a single one of them has ever read my writing. My parents haven't even read my writing and they do the same thing. I have offered them to read it, but they say they don't want to, it's a waste of time, they just don't care. I used to brush it off and just post my stuff online and I loved making new friends who loved my work and talked to me, but recently, it's beginning to bother me and my writing has also begun to fall apart and it's really hurting me. I'm feeling absolutely miserable because no one will help me or encourage me... Maybe I'm asking too much or something? And people aren't used to me asking for something? I don't mean to sound like a drama queen or anything, but I would like at least one person to say good job...
I know how you feel. I am an aspiring author. So, my best advice is not to let it bring you down. Don't write for others, write for yourself and for the writing itself. If it makes you happy to write, then just do it. I know it's nice to hear that it's good, and to get feedback and constructive criticism, but you just have to look for people who will supply that for you. For instance, maybe try seeing if there's some sort of writing club around you? I know where I live there was once a writing course. Just look into those kinds of thing because if you do, then you'll find others who will be just as big a fan as writing, and I'm sure will be more then happy to read your work and help you out and give you feedback. :)
~RF
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Who is Rainforever. Heheh! I Can't Find you...
Hey loser :P It's your awesome friend :)
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okay so my aunt has a boyfriend, and he has 4 kids. my aunt has 2 kids. one of them being my age. (i am 15 and so is my cousin) than my aunts boyfriend's son is 14, but he looks like he's 19. I find him super attractive, for some odd reason, and he tells me that he finds me attractive. Everytime him and i are alone we kiss. And we have hooked up one nightt (but there was no sex..only because neither of us could find a condom)but the other night he told me that he has a huge surprise for me. soo i was waiting till i saw him so he could tell me. he told me. he wants to take me to the movies just him and i. it was cute, and it deffinetly was a surprise. just ... i want to hear outsiders voices on this situation. Like, is it totally awkward that to the point that him and i shouldnt even be doing anything. Or is it kind of okay, because we're not blood related. (and btw my aunt and her boyfriend have only been dating for a few months) but my step mother said it wasnt weird, because we're not relatedd. but i just want to see what you guys think. thankyou!
I can see why you'd ask, but I honestly think it would only be awkward if you make it that way. I think the only way it would be weird was if you were blood related, but since that's not the case, I think it should be fine. So just don't think of the situation as awkward, and it shouldn't become awkward. :)
~RF
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