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Hi. I'm turning 18 in September, I live in PA. I graduate high school in June and originally the plan was for me to move down with my mom, brother and sister to Georgia. I was excited about the move because I enjoy GA and a lot of family members live there, however, as the time approaches, I'm wanting to go less and less. This happend for several reasons. My friends, most of them, are staying in-state and attending the local community colleges or just colleges that are close by. I recently got a boyfriend 1 month ago. And I found out that colleges charge per-semester, meaning that, just to attend a community college in GA (which I have to if I go) will cost me $20,000 for the first year since I'm not a resident of the state! All of these together are causing me great stress and it's on my mind 24/7. I try talking to my family but they get pissed now since I'm changing my mind. But, it's my life right? I should be able to choose where I want to attend college. The main issue was that I would need a place to stay if I stay here because I would attend community college; that issue was solved because a friend of my mom's who we've known our whole lives would have no problem taking me in, yet my mom still refuses! Then my best friend mentioned applying to this one school, a 4-year, which is kind of easy to get into, and I could stay in the dorms, etc. But I feel guilty doing this behind my mother's back and I'm not sure if I really want to live in a dorm. I really don't know what to do. I'm getting depressed even though this time of year should be joyous for a high school senior. Should I just refuse to go? It's my life, why should I let my mother rule over it? She's not even paying for college, and when I told her how much it would cost for an out-of-state student all she said was "that sucks". I'm so close to running away because I just can't deal with this stress of everyone trying to tell me what to do; family, friends. I'm 100% sure I want to stay here for now. Please help and give me ANY advice, thank you. (link)
i faced the same issue 3 years ago and it tore me up but i would honestly tell you to not to do what i did ...follow your heart and stay where you are if i had done that maybe i would be happier and who knows where else but i chose to go where my family was and in the end they ended up turning their backs on me...sweetie follow your heart and let it take you where it chooses and just be happy. If you are happy there then stay and figure out a way to go to school and dont stay because of a guy stay because you want to


okay i was over my friends house and we were watching t.v..... then she asked meh to kiss her so i did......so as we were making out she started sucking my boobs and then i went down and ate her out for like 20 secs. then she fingered me and i did it back....i felt nasty after i came..nd i never wanted to do it again...but she want to do it again should i do it.? ugh this is soooooooo immbarrasing.! (link)
point blank ...... do not do it again just tell her no you arent into that and you didnt feel good aftet you did it . let it be known and if it gets weird distance yourself fromt his friend and move on

oxoxoxoxo :D
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Ok well I got a dress fron Jcpennys for a dance on may 7 2011 and i just wanted to know how to do my hair and makeup and what color i should paint my nails. My dress is wite blue gree and purple. he theme for the dance is a tropical/hawaiian well please answer as soon as you can cuz its cumming up very very soon. (link)
simple foundation and a nude lip but definitely enhance your eye make up. do a brown smokey eye that way it doesnt look like you are trying too much but at least the color in your eyes will enhance and that is a killer look for any festivity. Nude lip remember but work with your eyes and have a great time at the dance

oxoxoxoxo :D
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I got a sunburn on my face not to bad but now there are some spots where its darker and really dry..I've been putting on Aloe Vera Gel but it's not really doing anything. Is lotion okay to put on it and what else can I do to make it go away??(I've had it for about a week) (link)
vaseline!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just put vaseline on it


okay. i have a problem. when i have intercourse with my partner, its really hard to get off. i can get hard and feel the pleasure but it takes a while ( and i do mean a while to get off.) so what should i do to help this problem
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to be honest...its all about you and that person so just relax and let it flow ...dont think about it too much...its not a race you have to go at your own speed


Alright so I was having sex with my boyfriend and he pulled out and then we did anal. But when we started doing anal he asked me if it was in. I don't know why he'd ask this because I'd think that it would be pretty easy for him to tell if it was in or not. Should I be worried that I'm oddly loose there or something? I don't have anal sex very often.

I guess a little back story is that I usually don't let him do anal because it hurts, but I was really wet this time so it didn't hurt... maybe he was surprised that it didn't hurt so thats why he asked? He wasn't wearing a condom (i'm on birth control and I know neither of us have std's so no comments on that please) so I really think he should have been able to feel it.

I don't know I'm probably reading too much into this but I have no idea how he wouldn't be able to tell if it was in :-/ I'm guessing that someone will suggest that I just talk to him about it but I'm really shy about that sort of thing (bad I know) and I feel like that would probably be awkward to randomly bring up. Thanks! (link)
you should talk to him, i mean this is your boyfriend so let him know and now you shouldnt be worried.Every guy asks that question its like they are trying to gage in knowing if they are soing the right thing




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