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Location: Indiana
Age: 19
Member Since: May 4, 2011
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I'm a fifteen year old girl and I have recently started to develop feelings for my step-brother. He is two years older than me and we see each other ever other weekend.
We've known each other for about eight years and we've always had a sort of love/hate relationship.
We would annoy the hell out of each other and he would insult me but recently things have become different.
Before we would wrestle and I'd just be determined to win. But now I don't care about winning I just enjoy wrestling and it isn't as serious as it was before it's more playful. Also a few times whilst we've been fighting I've brushed his lower are and felt what turns out to have been an erection. We'll be fighting and one of us will straddle the other and just sit there and tease the other. Or when we get tired I'll lie on his chest and he'll wrap his arm around me and we'll just stay there for ages.
He still insults me but it's not as intense as when we were younger.
I'm pretty sure it's not normal, I've never actually met anyone whose had a crush on their step-sibling before. I came clean to my friends about it and at first they were shocked but now they think I should go for him because it's not incest because we're only related by law not blood. I'm not sure what to do because I'm doubtful that the feelings I have towards him are mutal and even if they were I'm terrified of what would happen if I told him. What should I do? (link)
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First of all, I would like to point out that there is NOTHING wrong with you for feeling this way. This is completely normal. Since you haven't grown up with him and lived with him (from what I gather) and he hasn't been in your life as your brother forever, you don't feel that 'brother vibe.' Also, you have different birth parents so it's not illegal either. Here's your problems: He may think of you as a real sister since you have been step-siblings for 8 years. Also, as you're both teenagers, it's not worth the drama to pursue it now. That's not to say that when you're both adults and in a better place to handle this type of situation, that you shouldn't try it if you still feel that way. It shouldn't stand in the way of love but at this point it would be better to try and move on for your family's sake and your own.
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Well today my mom was breathing down my neck as usual about my english grade and college. I need to upgrade my english marks for a college course, so i have to sign up for an adult high school for the course. She keeps reminding me about it and she keeps telling me i better get it done quick every time she sees me and i was getting sick of it. So for once in my 17 years of living i actually stood up to her and told her to stop pressuring me about school. Then she lashed out at me about how she doesn't care about me anymore. What should i do now? (link)
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I've definitely been there.
If you're doing what you can in school
and you're doing well, than there's no
reason for her to be breathing down your
neck about it. Letting her know she's wrong
was your best choice. If she wants to be
immature by saying that she doesn't care
about you anymore, than that's her problem.
You've done nothing wrong. My guess she'll
come to you and apologize for her actions.
If not, than go to her and explain to her
why you feel the way you feel and help her
understand. Maybe she'll change her attitude
about what she said.
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