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my mother lashed out Well today my mom was breathing down my neck as usual about my english grade and college. I need to upgrade my english marks for a college course, so i have to sign up for an adult high school for the course. She keeps reminding me about it and she keeps telling me i better get it done quick every time she sees me and i was getting sick of it. So for once in my 17 years of living i actually stood up to her and told her to stop pressuring me about school. Then she lashed out at me about how she doesn't care about me anymore. What should i do now?
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I've definitely been there.
If you're doing what you can in school
and you're doing well, than there's no
reason for her to be breathing down your
neck about it. Letting her know she's wrong
was your best choice. If she wants to be
immature by saying that she doesn't care
about you anymore, than that's her problem.
You've done nothing wrong. My guess she'll
come to you and apologize for her actions.
If not, than go to her and explain to her
why you feel the way you feel and help her
understand. Maybe she'll change her attitude
about what she said. ]
you should sign up for the class. then go to your mother and apoligize for yelling at her you were just under alot of stress tell her but i did sign up for the class. ]
Register for the class. ]
Prove her wrong. Make sure you do what you have to do to be successful. You finally got your space, now use it to your advantage. When you start doing what you need to do, she will see that you CAN do it by yourself. But make sure she still realize you want her there just not breathing down your neck.
Lillian ]
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