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My problem: its really hard to get off
okay. i have a problem. when i have intercourse with my partner, its really hard to get off. i can get hard and feel the pleasure but it takes a while ( and i do mean a while to get off.) so what should i do to help this problem
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So who's complaining here, you or them?
I have to ask, because if you are indeed getting off, but it just takes a certain amount of time, then it shouldnt be an issue, as unless you're in pain, it just means thats how long you take. Have you had complaints from your partner that it takes you too long? Or do you just wish you got off quicker?
Now when you say intercourse, I can't know specifically what you do in bed with your partner, but different positions, different pressure, levels of tightness, speed, lubrication, obviously these all make a difference, and you can attempt mixing any of this up to see if it makes a difference.
At the same time, I would have to say that if its your issue, I would just relax and enjoy as long as you feel that pleasure/build up for. And if it's your partners, you should tell them to not be selfish about this. You take as long as you do, and you don't need to feel bad about it.
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to be honest...its all about you and that person so just relax and let it flow ...dont think about it too much...its not a race you have to go at your own speed
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