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guy asks "is it in?"
Alright so I was having sex with my boyfriend and he pulled out and then we did anal. But when we started doing anal he asked me if it was in. I don't know why he'd ask this because I'd think that it would be pretty easy for him to tell if it was in or not. Should I be worried that I'm oddly loose there or something? I don't have anal sex very often.
I guess a little back story is that I usually don't let him do anal because it hurts, but I was really wet this time so it didn't hurt... maybe he was surprised that it didn't hurt so thats why he asked? He wasn't wearing a condom (i'm on birth control and I know neither of us have std's so no comments on that please) so I really think he should have been able to feel it.
I don't know I'm probably reading too much into this but I have no idea how he wouldn't be able to tell if it was in :-/ I'm guessing that someone will suggest that I just talk to him about it but I'm really shy about that sort of thing (bad I know) and I feel like that would probably be awkward to randomly bring up. Thanks!
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I have the strongest orgasms when I get anal and I never say no. If you were at a strange angle, he probably couldn't see if he was in the right hole. I'm sure he knew it was in a hole but not which one. Once your wet and ready for him, his penis will slide in a lot easier and since you didn't complain about any pain, I'm sure he wanted to make sure everything was fine. I hope this helps and good luck.
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you should talk to him, i mean this is your boyfriend so let him know and now you shouldnt be worried.Every guy asks that question its like they are trying to gage in knowing if they are soing the right thing
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