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Q: im 18/f
im about to have sex with my best friend whom i have very strong feelings for. The thing is, im a virgin and hes not...and the last girls hes slept with have been extremely thin with models bodys. i weigh around 57kg and im not very tall so i feel so 'heavy' compared to them. My bestfriend says he has really deep feelings for me and says that he can feel something real between us and thinks im insanely beautiful. But i feel bad still, even knowing he thinks im beautiful. I hide my flaws very very well! so i feel very nervous about him seeing me naked now, considering he has the body of a sex god and i have a rather large stomach even though the rest of me is petite. im really terrified of him seeing all of me...especially when i like him so much and im scared it will turn him off :(
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If he thinks you are beautiful, you have nothing to worry about! Women are especially prone to feel down about what size they are. I myself have suffered with weight issues and all my life, and I was petrified to have my husband see me naked the first time. He was always with skinny women before me. He thinks I am sexy, and that makes me feel amazing. Your friend sounds like an amazing man. He find you attractive and I think you should just go for it and savor it all in!
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Q: I am 17 years old, and I have recently been dealing with thoughts that, though I am biologically a female, I wish to be a male. I *love* guys clothing. (It's all I wear.) I walk and talk like a guy, and when people refer to me as "he," I feel amazing! It sounds so right to me. I'd previously identified as a butch lesbian, but I can't help thinking it might be more. I want to grow a beard. I want a guy's body and everything that comes along with it. My whole life I've been different, but I can't be quite sure I've *always* felt this way. Does that make a difference? I've felt like this for a while still. I know it's not a phase. Is it possible I'm transgender? Or just... Seriously devoted to being a crossdressing butch?
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I think it is very possible you are transgender. Just coming out and saying that is a big step. Have you always felt like this? My husband is actually trans. He had always felt different for awhile like you, he identified himself as "butch". He finally came out as transgender.
It will be a life changing journey for you. Think about it before you take the next steps. My husband went through hell while transitioning. He is not even 100 percent through yet, but he has came a far way. It is better that you come to terms with who you are now rather than later in life.
I hope this helps you some. Good luck with your choices!
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Q: My mum and dad are so controlling.
I'm fifteen years old and they wont let me out on my own. When I went on dates with me ex, they only let me go out for two hours.
How can i make them less controlling?
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I grew up with an overbearing father, and he was very strict. I think your parents are just being protective. If you want more freedom, then you need to prove to them that you can be responsible. They only want what is best for you. Sit down and ask them if they are willing to let you have a little more freedom. A good start would be by asking for a longer curfew. If they do not bend, then ask them what you can do on your part to earn more freedom.
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Q: We are having a middle school dance and I reaaaallly wanna dance with my crush.What to do?? :/
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Oh to be young again! Be brave young one and just go up to your crush and ask if they would like to dance with you! You will never know if you do not give it a shot and you might regret it.
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Member Since: May 5, 2011 Answers: 4 Last Update: May 5, 2011 Visitors: 911
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