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Location: Leicestershire, England, UK
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Age: 22
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i want to get clearer skin, but im nto sure how i can do it where i do not spend like 100 dollars. so any tips? anything that really works well? i want no acne, blackheads, nothing! just a clean and clear face. (link)
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hi, you need to drink alot of water (8 glasses approx.), lots of fruit, milk, and try atleast once a week if you have time to cut a lemon in half and rub that on your face (make sure you avoid your eyes though), and try aloe vera gel: all you need to do is buy the plant and cut off one leaf slit it open, and scoop out the gel and rub it on your face, there's no bad smell, but it'll leave your skin soft, smooth, and give it a fresh feel, it will also be good for your hair too, the gel will dry of naturally and you wont be able to feel if anything is on your face.
i think that's all i could think of right now, i have been told by ssomeone that you shouldn't wash your face with soap because it dries out the sking instead just wash it with water.
hope i've helped takecare.
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Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We love each other very much, but there's always been this one problem. He's really cute and funny, so he constantly has girls hanging all over him. Even right in front of me. And he's always telling me about different girls calling him, or flirting with him, or saying they like him. I don't think he's telling me this to make me jealous... he's just telling me to tell me. And I guess I'm glad he's honest about it, but it still always makes me mad. Because I'm not always so sure that he isn't instigating it somehow, or flirting back a bit.
There have been times that guys have flirted with me, or said I was hot or whatever, but never in front of my boyfriend. And I've never mentioned it to him, because I know how bad it feels and why should I upset him? So I've just kept it to myself.
Well anyway... the other day we were at this party and these two guys were hitting on me big time, right in front of him. At first he was really mad... then he got kinda insecure, and kept asking if I still love him. And he said now he knows how I feel when girls flirt with him. And then he started acting REALLY nice, telling me how much he loves me and never wants to lose me, bringing me flowers, etc. It was awesome!! It was like suddenly he realized that other guys might want to go out with me, so he better keep on his toes!
Well, school's about to start again, and I want him to remember this! So I'm wondering... if guys ever flirt with me, should I tell my boyfriend? Should I encourage guys to flirt with me a little bit in front of my boyfriend, and if so, how can I do that without acting like a slut? Because my only goal here is to remind my boyfriend how it feels, so he'll be more thoughtful of my feelings when girls start flirting with him. (link)
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hi, i don't think you need to do anything, it seems as though he's already has had a taste of how it feels. if he loves you he won't treat you like rubbish, but if accidentally he does do the same then just talk to him and tell him how you feel.
there's not much you can do, you know how they say 'what goes around, comes around' so i'm sure he's aware of the fact that if he pays attention to other girls there are plenty of guys who will steal you away!
take care.
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Okay well I know that people hate these type of questions. I'm sorry. But I need help. What are some songs that:
1. Say something about growing up.
2. Show someone that I am there for them.
3. Something about liking someone, but they not liking you [i know almost everything song is like that, but i want a song that is slow and easy to listen to with a gool beat to it]
4. Show that I don't need someone and I can make it with out them.
I like any type of music. But I prefer something that is easy to listen to [like no screaming or rapping or anything like that] Something indie would be okay.
Help me please, it's VERY important. (link)
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1) theme from friends- no one told you life was gonna be this way, or britney spears i'm not a girl,
2) theme from baywatch- i'll be there
3) leann rimes- but i do love you, sarah mclachlan- i love you, cascada- truly madly deeply do, or if you want the male version then: savage garden- truly madly deeply do (love this song)
4) britney spears- stronger, leann rimes- life goes on
i hope these are the type you're actually looking for..hope i helped
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like just below my neck
to the left a bit.
i suddenly got these extremely sharp pains
that came every other second.
it lasted for about almost a minute and a half.
what do you think it is?
im scared to death of hospitals i might have a phobia.
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ahh there;s nothing to be scared of, you need to go get a check up atleast just incase it could be something serious, it's better to be diagnosed before its too late and too serious.
also try to find out if any one else from your family gets similar pains, relatives, grandparents..its not one of those things that passes on. it'll be a better idea to get it checked up by a doctor.
i get pains sometimes which actually feels like its in the middle of the ribs, every time i did got my GP he just prescribed pain killers, so i got fed up and hardly go because i feel it was a waste of time. but now i am a little concerned because alot of my uncles have some sort of heart problem, i know i'm only 22 but hopefully i will go back and demand a proper checkup...so you do the same too...takecare though.
hospitals ain't so scary, if you be good they might just give you a candy!! (",)
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Whenever i shave "down there" it never gets all the hair, it makes it prickley and I accidently cut myself and it bleeds. (link)
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if you want you could try using veet hair removing cream instead its 100% guaranteed no cuts and no bleeding. i think that's an easy solution. or you could try (i know it's going to sound messy but..) get abit of cold wax on your index finger and thumb and try pulling hair out, or you could just use a spatuala and spread heated wax to where you want to remove hair from and pull it off with wax strips...but i think veet cream is a better option.
takecare
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i know perfumes is expensive but i really wanna buy a cute one that smells really good. tell me opinions?
1. chanel no. 5
2. Ralph Lauren ROCKS
3. Covet (link)
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well what kind of smells do you prefer? fruity, sweet smells, flowery smells, lavender, etc.
it depends on your own taste, because everyone has their own favourite scents, but you can go in to stores and ask them if they can spray the scents on a card so you can actually smell them before you decide to buy them. I did that, i really like the new paris hilton one, i forgot what it was called, i might go back sometime and buy it, it was a nice cute smell you could say, it wasn't too too sweet, it just smelt nice.
you could try testing out samples of scents, just ask the people in the store, and they will help you, tell them what types of perfumes or scents you're looking for.
take care, hope you find a nice perfume, if it is nice you can let me know so i can get it too..(",)xx
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Whenever i shave my underarms,
I use shaving cream & a razr,
I get all of the hair off but
about five seconds after I shave
red bumps pop up everywhere in
my pits. Sometimes they irritate
me and they itch and then somtimes
they dont. But they are UNATRACTIVE.
Why is this happening? (link)
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hiya, you might be a reaction of the shaving cream you use..but in future after you shave, wax, etc. make sure to use antiseptic such as savlon or any other you may use.
hope it works..takecare.
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my face is so ugly. i have bad skin even though i've been using proactiv for almost 3 yrs, (i'm 18) i have laugh lines, my cheeks are fat. any tips on how to make my face prettier? i get so jealous whenever i see ppl on tv like kristin cavalleri (link)
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hi, ok first thing i would say to you is, looks aren't everything, a person can be so goodlooking, but a really shitty person on the inside, and when people see what kind of person someone is they percieve them in a very different way.
but you could try a face cream called fade out, my sister use to use it some time back to get rid of spots. the best things for skin are always the natural stuff, milk, lots of water (approx 8 glasses)fruit, try a spoon of honey once a day, it'll work from the inside and give your skin a beautiful glow, i'll give you another secret, you know the leaves of aloe vera plant..cut of a leaf, slice it open, or make slit, the leaf contains gel kind of substance and it really smoothes your skin my mum and aunt use it on their faces and it feels so soft, saves spending money on creams and moisturisers, the gel will dry straight after you put it on your skin, leaving it soft and smooth, it also makes the hair fell softer so you can put some on, it'll dry out and no one will ever known (aloe vera is best known for its moisturising properties, it is used it creams and moisturisers).
..try it though...there will be no side effects because these things are 100% natural.
but remember no one is ugly, the face is never ugly, it all depends on the inner personality...if you have a good heart then you've got everything..looks fade right? you need to be confidence in yourself and believe you're pretty, that's when other's will also think you're pretty.
take care though......let me know if you need any thing else..x (",) x
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I really like this guy that I've been hanging out with. I've only hung out with him a few times but i feel like there is chemistry between us cause i can be myself around him. But he likes my friend, even though she doesn't make a good girlfriend, and well she isn't exactly the niceset. but yeah. i really like him.. i think.. but i don't know if i should tell him or just forget it since he says he likes my friend.. pleasee help. =[ (link)
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Always follow your heart....if you like this guy you should tell him, if not face to face then maybe through text or instant messenging. once you tell him then he will give you a reply right, i know sometimes the answer we would hope to get may not be the answer given to us but atleast you will know. you will feel a lot better once it's out, if you keep your feelings in you will regret and spend time thinking what could have happened if only you've told him... i've heard a lot that guys love it when the girl makes the first move (it's like how us girls, when we find out someone likes us, it makes us happy and wanted, it's probably same for the guy too).
i hope this helps, lifes all about taking risks
hope it works out for you though, good luck (",)
if he does say no (lets hope he doesn't) then you show him what he's missing out on, or there are lots and lots of other cuter maybe better guys out there waiting for you..but you won't know unless you take a chance.
takecare.
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okay all of my friends and so many people tell me how gorgeous and beautiful i am. but i cant find myself to believe it. and no guy has ever told me i was pretty. and ive never had a boyfriend. i feel so ugly..... (link)
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Don't let yourself down, you must be better than half the girls out there...looks aren't everything you know, what makes a person beautiful is their inner personality and a lot of confidence.
if you think you're beautiful then everyone will think so you're beautiful too..but if you let your self down and criticise you're looks people will actually pick up on that.
..you've heard that saying right??..."i think so, therefore i am"
and keep repeating 'i am beautiful, it's probably the guys who are too blind to see, and maybe need their eyes tested'.
...to be honest i think guys are most likely to go for you know the type of girls people categorze as 'tramps' because they know those girls are easy catch, and they just use these girls for fun......... but you will find someone special who will like you for you inner personality (what most girls probably don't have) and you're friends tell you you're pretty then they're right, friends never lie.
hope i've helped sweety take care...and think more positively about yourself.
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i got stung by a wasp yesterday and today my arm swelled up alot how can i get the swelling to go down (link)
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Try putting vinegar on the sting...just remembered something we learnt in science lesson, when you get stinged by wasp use vinegar to neutralise the sting, because wasps sting is alkaline and vinegar is acid..........but if it's the other way around say if you got stinged by a bee then you should use bicarbonate soda because the bee sting would be acid and you need alkaline to neutralise it.
...but if this doesn't work then use anti-septic cream such as, savlon, or any natural tea tree cream.
hope it works takecare.
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i'm 16/f, and he's 18
This guy and I hooked up at a party and I didn't think it'd be anything more because he's kind of got a repuation as being a... manwhore... But it turns out that he likes me which is cool... Except he doesn't hit on girls. They hit on him. And I'm the same way. I just don't hit on guys, they've always had to come to me. The only reason we had enough courage to get with each other in the 1st place was because we were drunk. So how do I initiate something with him SOBER? lol. Because I really do like him and when we see each other there's like this crazy sexual tension but we're both not the type to hit on each other! should i just pull him aside and start making out with him!? what do i do?! haha thanks (link)
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i guess you could try that ...lol, or if you know he likes you right, then just tell him or ask him if he wants to have a coffee or a drink sometime. It doesn't matter if you've never hit on a guy, there's always a first for everything, right?? i have heard guys love it when the girl makes a first move, ..and you don't need to worry as long as you know he does like you..just see what happens..good luck though, hope i've helped..takecare!
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I am a 21 years old female
I dated my ex boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. He was the first guy I ever experienced anything with (if you know what I mean) and he is also from a different ethnic and religious background.
I ended up converting but not for him and our relationship was always pretty good. I loved him but the last year he kept holding back from the relationship and didn't trust me and towards the end I felt so frustrated that I made him sit down with me and just talk (which was always like pulling teeth with him) and he told me "I don't think we have a future." I broke up with him after that and was devastated.
I never met his family because dating is frowned upon and that was another problem. When we broke up I told him that I didn't want to see him or talk to him unless he was willing to introduce me to his family and to get engaged. That was my ultimatum and I never expected to see him again.
I didn't talk to him for 2 months and during that time my closest friend who is also a guy told me that he has always loved me and wanted to be with me. It was stupid but I rushed into a relationship with him without really cleaning up the baggage from my first relationship. I care about him a lot and don't want to hurt him plus he treats me like a princess.
Just recently my ex called me up and said that he was sorry for how he acted and that he wanted to change. That he has told his entire family about me and if I will take him back he wants me to meet them and then we will get engaged and when we are more financially secure we will get married.
I care for both of them and I have no idea who to pick what do you guys think? (link)
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hi, the question you need to ask yourself is who will keep you most happiest, and who can you see yourself having a good long-term relationship/ future with?? your ex did tell you he don't see both of you having a future together, that probably showed he had no intention of marrying you in the first place until you actually gave him the ultimatum.
i know i can't tell you exactly who to pick, but i've heard the saying 'you should be with the one who loves you, not the one you love'(as the one who loves you will keep you happy, or atleast try to) and your current boyfriend he treats you like a princess.
if it is still hard for you, just write down a list of pro and cons for both guys...it might give you a clear idea. but you do need to think carefully and not rush in making any decisions.
good luck, i just hope it works out well with whom ever you decide to pick.
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hi im sam. im 10 and i shaved my arms and i reallllly regret it. how can i make the hair grow back normal again? i picked a ranom category
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hi sam, i guess you could try waxing, i have heard waxing hair can reduce the growth, and make hair grow back slower, as it pulls out the hair from its roots unlike shaving which cuts hair.
i have always waxed my arms and i have noticed they grow back slower and sometimes i can see patches where the hair still hasn't grown from. It will also depend on your natural hair thickness some people have really fine hair to begin with and some are more thicker.
as long as you stop now it will grow back to normal, try waxing (and the wax you do use make sure it's tea tree wax because that will not cause too much spots or rash, tee tree is known for it's healing properties and most creams that do contain it can be used as anti-septic.)
...or if you also want you can try those hair minimising lotions/ body lotions, there shouldn't be any harm in trying it, a friend of mine used johnson's hair minimising lotion, and she did say her arm and leg hair started to go lighter in colour. There is also another theory i've heard from my beautician that dairy products such as cheese (eating it) alot of calcium in take can reduce growth of hair, but people who live on chicken and meat grow more unwanted hair because you know how most chickens are not organic and get injected to make them more bigger has over the years caused an increase in hair growth. but until we don't find any research to back it up we can't assume it's true, it is only a theory.
but waxing is a good option, some people think it will be painful, but you know what they say..."no pain, no gain"
i hope i've helped..takecare!x
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19/male
It all started when I was away from home at college. One of my friends in my dorm invited me and some other guys to go with her and her friend bowling. Her friend and i got to talking and I decided I really liked her. I guess I had one of those "she's the ONE" moment. Well that's when I got nervous and scared because I have never felt that deep for anyone before. The next day I awkwardly told my friend that I liked her friend and didn't know what to do so she invited her over to hangout with us. I got nervous and didn't talk to her much that night. My friend even gave me her phone number to ask her on date but I didn't have the guts. That's about when I gave up and that was about 10 months ago and yet I still think about her a lot and still believe "she's the one." I have not seen or talked to her since. I am worried that it has gone on too long and it is too creipy and wrong to still have feelings for her. I have been in a relationship with another girl thinking it would help me rid of these feelings but didn't work and had to break up.
That's why I came here, for serious advise to help me get over this crush or maybe it isn't that creepy or maybe I should confront her with my feelings, I don't know. but what ever the advise is I need it badly, so please HELP ME. (link)
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hey, i think you should somehow find a way to tell her, it's better late than never ..right?? if you don't think you can ask her out face to face then try texting her, or get your friend to ask her and put in a nice word about you.
you've got nothing to be worried about,just take the chance, get to know her a little better, you won't know how you exactly feel unless you take a chance and see if you have things in common and whether it will work out or not.
it is hard to try forget about someone you might have strong feelings for even though you've never really spent time or got to know her. but try asking her or talk to her, if you don't do this now you might spend another 10 months wondering what may have happend. but good luck, hope i've helped and hope it works out well, but you're going to know if you don't make a move now..tkcr.
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theres this guy who i like and he's like my second guy best friend. he's been in a few complicated relationships before and i've always helped him, given him advice with his problems, etc. i never really looked at him than more than a friend because he always had a girlfriend. so a few months ago, (he was single) i realized i liked him. i opened my mouth to say "i think i like you" and before i said anything he says "so i heard anna likes me" and he has this curious smirk on his face and i said that i didn't know if she did and then i asked if he liked her and he said he wasn't sure. now, about a month later him and "anna" are sort of involved. they've kissed once but they fight all the time and just like always he comes back to me for advice. now normally i'd tell him to forget about her because she's causing him so much stress but the thing is, "anna" is one of my best friends and i wouldn't want to be responsible for breaking her heart. but i really really really reallllyyy like this guy. he's so perfect. he has the body, brains, and an amazing personality. my mom likes him too. lol. i really think we can work, considering i know his relationship details that "anna" does not. i know what girls do that he hates, i know what he loves when girls do. (non-sexual). i know his quirks and his flaws and he knows mine. i just want to be with him so bad and it sounds horrible but i want him to think about me more than "anna". he already calls me at midnight when he can't sleep, or when he's depressed. what am i supposed to do?! (link)
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hi, i know you feel like your in a tough situation with a cute guy on one hand and your friend anna on the other. but have you thought maybe this guy might also have feeling for, but probably things you see him only as a 'friend', you seem to be really close, why else would he open up to you out of all his other mates to talk to. i think you should tell him, i know you might feel guilty because she is your friend, but you will feel a lot more worser if you never tell this guy....sometimes (only in rare occassions such as this one) you have to be a little selfish. i dont mean selfish in a horrible greedy way, but just tell him, anna doesn't have to know, it will hopefully be between you and him, and if hopefully in the future anna and him break up (let's hope) then he might just consider you...you know, i'm not saying break your friends heart, but it's not right to break your own heart either, i just think you should tell him, leave it to that, but makesure you explain "you don't want this to ruin the relationship you have right now, you'll always be there for him as a friend", but just see how he feels.
sometimes it's good to take a risk, before it's too late. if you don't act now then you will spend time thinking what could have happened if only you had told him. i know there's always the fear of being rejected, but atleast you would know how he feels... i just hope it works out for you, take care, hope i helped, GOOD LUCK!!x (",)
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I'm 13 years old & female.
I've been really depressed lately..
Not when I'm around my family or friends,
so they don't notice it.
I try to be happy around them.
I just need help.
When I'm alone I get really sad & it gets hard for me to breathe..
& I don't even know WHY I'm feeling like this.
I don't want any websites or hotlines.
I just need to do something to help myself.
Any advice? (link)
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Alright now, first thing what is making you depressed? do you know what it that makes you feel depressed? (it will be helpful to know what is causing your depression, and once you know what it is, you can find ways to over come it)
i'm sorry, but the only way i could help you is if i knew why you get depressed?
just try to focus on positive things, and try to be happy, what makes you happy? comedy things might help cheer you up. or you can focus all your anger and energy on other activities say like cooking, painting, writing, drawing, anything you can think of to release your depression.
take care!x
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14/f IM VERY CONFUSED IF ANY1 IS UP TO TALKING...GUYS OR GIRLS...IM ON AIM..
MY LOVE LIFE IS CRAZY RIGHT NOW!!
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what exactly are you confused about? and your love life being crazy..is it a good kind of crazy, or not so good crazy? if you want to talk you can send me your email add, i'm sorry i dont use aims. or if you don't want to talk to a complete stranger, then your friends maybe a good option, i find it helpful turning to my friends but most of the times they usually turn to me. its up to you
but take care
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ok well theres this guy Aiden and hes my ex bf. last summer and hmm up untill December we were crazy about eachother and i know he loved me... well now a year later this summer.. i cant stop thinking about him.. when ever were around eachother he kind of ignores me and idk everytime i im him its just like a hey supp kinda convo.. and he likes this other girl.... soo what should i do??Why do you think hes ignoring me?? please please help (link)
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maybe its his way of getting your attention, nothing to worry about though, you should do the same, if he likes someone else, fine, don't let it bother you, it's just gonna stress you out, trust me.
..some would say it's a classical example of the 'male ego'-it could be he does want to talk to you or feels the same but he probably wants you to make the first move.
i think you should play the same game, ignore him, act like you're just happy with your life, and you should be, there are plenty other guys, and you will be hopefully in the future dating so many guys, some who would probably be better than your ex.
i know its probably not much of a help but you shouldn't let it get you down. you know i've just remembered what someone use to say to me once, "always smile, it makes people wonder what you been upto". so if you want to play with your ex a little, you know what to do, strech out your lips and smile like you've never smiled before.
take care though
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why do i always make my friends the people who i want to go out with? like i see a hot chick i make friends with her i want to date her but i never get the courage to ask "you want to go out with me?" and then they become my friend and it would b just weird why oh why??? (link)
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hello, i personally think that friendship is the way to start any relationship, I know our primary instincts when we see someone attractive is to date them straight away, but being a friend before you actually decide to take it further, will let you get to know her better, and just because you become friends doesn't mean you can't date her. sometimes it can take time for the other person to develop feelings for you.
however, if you dont think this works for you, then the next time what you can do, when you see someone you want to date, just ask (i know there's always a fear about being rejected but sometimes you have to take a chance, right?) but you don't have to ask her directly, just say 'would you like to get a drink sometime, with me?' and hopefully if she says yes, then without becoming her friend you can tell whether you both 'CLICK' or not? and if both of you think yeah it's good, then hopefully you will go out with her instead of befriending her.
i hope this makes sense, but takecare, and good luck. just don't be afraid to take a chance. hope i helped though, takecare!x
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