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why do i always make my friends the people who i want to go out with? like i see a hot chick i make friends with her i want to date her but i never get the courage to ask "you want to go out with me?" and then they become my friend and it would b just weird why oh why???
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The best relationships first start of as friendships. So don't be afraid to ask out a girl that's your friend! Also, you may wanna try flirting with the girl first to drop some hints that you like her more than a friend and if she likes you too than she might flirt back, but if she doesn't like you in that way than she might ignore your fliting..good luck!..
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There's nothing wrong with asking one of your "girl friends" to be your "girlfriend". If they thought you were utterly repulsive, they wouldn't be friends with you, would they? Relationships actually are better when you start as being friends because you know you have some things in common and you already know each other, and its soo much less akward. If you befriend a girl and then have no attraction to being her boyfriend, then that's totally fine. But if you befriend a girl and you still like her after you guys are friends, then maybe the right thing to do is ask her out :]
Good luck!
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hello, i personally think that friendship is the way to start any relationship, I know our primary instincts when we see someone attractive is to date them straight away, but being a friend before you actually decide to take it further, will let you get to know her better, and just because you become friends doesn't mean you can't date her. sometimes it can take time for the other person to develop feelings for you.
however, if you dont think this works for you, then the next time what you can do, when you see someone you want to date, just ask (i know there's always a fear about being rejected but sometimes you have to take a chance, right?) but you don't have to ask her directly, just say 'would you like to get a drink sometime, with me?' and hopefully if she says yes, then without becoming her friend you can tell whether you both 'CLICK' or not? and if both of you think yeah it's good, then hopefully you will go out with her instead of befriending her.
i hope this makes sense, but takecare, and good luck. just don't be afraid to take a chance. hope i helped though, takecare!x
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