Hey, i'm Ash. I've have a hell of alot of opinions, so expect long answers. Uh, yeah, been through just about everything you can think of. Yeah, I'm the type to sing in the shower, and donate to the old and challenged. I have a Rubber-band phobia, I hate them, they scare me, the end. Hm, OH. you're not emo, emo is a genre of music, and you're not music. Yeah, one other thing, my music's better. :D Lmao.Uh...what to write, I give advice on everything..Hm, Like katelyn[XoPerfectRoseOx] said, If you ask a stupid question, expect a stupid answer. I would put little quotes and poems on here, but that's just another waste of my time.So TalkToYouLater...maybe. -Ash
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Hi, Im going to the Vans Warped Tour in Milwaukee this summer. Its gonan be hot, so what should I wear? How long does it go until? Are there a lot of drugs? Am I gonna get beat up if Im sorta preppy? (im a girl) Let me know! thanks! (link)
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preppy? you're going to be slaughtered. change your image or something. ox ♥ash
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hey i want to pierce my belly button by myself and i want to no where u could by a clamp and how to do it i cant go to a professional because my mom doesnt want it done thanx (link)
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WOW. this is a stupid quesiton. you can get tetanus. WHICH IS EXTREMELY DANGEROUS. i caution you to wait until you're a little older hun. Maybe bribe your mom to let you get your ear pierced more since you're not allowed to get your belly button done. xox ♥ ash
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My hair has been extra tangled lately. In the morning it takes 10 minutes to brush out my wet hair. Can anyone suggest some products to cure this problem. My first thought was Johnson & Johnson's No More Tangles shampoo, but isn't that for little kids? (link)
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Haha. actually baby shampoo is great for your hair. but I also have thick hair, so i use pantene light conditioning spray right after i get out of the shower. it works great. xox♥ash.
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whenever i put on eyeliner, the eyeliner ends up getting off and i put them on the skin closest to the eyes. i know i have oily skin so how can i fix this so i can wear eyeliner without reapplying it every other hour ? (link)
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Wow. that sounds sooo much like me. haha. OKAY. see, you HAVE to put it on the eyelid. it's the only way. xox♥ash.
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My guy gets mad when I'm with or talk to any other guy who I'm just friends with. What do I do? (link)
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Threaten him. it's the best solution. COnfront him with a gesture like.."I have friends, some guys, some girls..and if you get angry with me you'll have to get over it, or me." he'll back off. ♥Ashh.
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okay ready i like this boy and he kinda likes me...we talk alot everyday and we talk about everything and i was talkin to my friend brian and he said to ask him out before i loose him forever...But i dont kno if i want to ask him out i want him to ask me out...Wat should i do..
I rate!! good advice..
xo Confused Gurl xo (link)
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whatever you do. DO NOT ASK HIM. you'll come off desperate, and he'll know you're easy to get to. If he truly likes you, he'll ask you. ♥ ashh.
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Alright well my friend gave me this stuff to try because I really want a tan but im really pale. Well she kinda didnt tell me the full directions.. she told me to rub it in and stuff.. and then wait 5 mins.. and that the tan would show up in 5 mins.. well she was so wrong and she didnt tell me it takes a few hours for it to start showin up.. so i got home na dim putten some on.. and i dont look tanner.. so i wait like 15 mins still dont.. so i put some on and more and more ect. well i wake up and my legs are really dark and sorta orange!! how do I get it off!? (link)
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You CAN'T get it off. just keep ALOT of lotion on. I was in your shoes before, i looked like an oompa-loompa. soo. don't sweat it. the stuff comes off.
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Can you be 14 years old and apply for a college?And can you take the SAT at the age of 14 because I took the PSAT at 13 and I just want to know? Can you? (link)
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Only if your school recommends you. I do not suggest it because you miss out on alot. And kids in college aren't going to want to hang around a 14-year-old.
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ok i always wanted to try something with my friends that are girls..im 14/f btw...and everytime i try to say something they say theyd never do that or whatever ..and i give them hints that i wanna do things with them..what should i do?? (link)
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lol. here's the real advice. hangout out with guys. and fuck girls. don't hangout with girls..and fuck girls. xoxash
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First off, I am a girl, and I am dating another girl. Now on to the problem. Ive been dating Molly almost 11 months now. A few months ago, things got really rocky between us, so we took a short break, and things got alot better, and we didnt fight or anything. Now, about 2-3 weeks ago, she, just out of the blue, says she wants a break, a longer one, and when I asked why, she said she didn't know how she felt anymore. She says she is starting to fall out of love with me, and that she needed space so she could work it out. It was really hard for me, at first, but now I am getting better. Now the thing is, she is sending mixed signals. Sometimes it seems like things may be getting better, others, not so much. She even tells me that I can 'do stuff' with other girls, should I choose to (I dont want to) and then when I hang out with someone that something could potentialy happen with, I think she gets kinda jelouse (but I'm not sure if I am reading signals wrong). Now I have 2 questions: The whole doing stuff with other people. Is she testing me? Or possibly she wants to not feel so guilty if things dont work? And my second question is, How long should I wait for her? Our one year is January 20th. Im only 17, I have invested a year of my life into our relationship, I am not ready to give up yet. What can I do? (link)
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17-year-olds can't be Bi-sexual, you do it because it's the new fad, date guys like a normal teenager, and you wouldn't have this damn problem. kthnx.
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I have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months and I really do love him alot. The problem is, one of my best friends is in all of his classes and I am in none of them. My friend happens to be his last ex girlfriend and now they are very good friends. I don't have a problem with that but they are always talking and laughing together and last night my friend said that she and him were very close. My boyfriend and I don't talk very much because we never know what to say to each other. He says it is because he hasn't got a very interesting life but whenever I see him, he his always with my friend. It's not that I don't trust my boyfriend because I do and I don't think there is anything going on between him and my friend, it just hurts me that he can't talk to me but he can talk to his ex. What shall I do? How can I talk to my boyfriend more? (link)
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First off, it's not love, love is when this person tells you every un-interesting thing in their life, yeah, sorry to hurt you, but your friend's definately messing up your relationship...Give them a month, he'll break up with you, he sounds like an arse anways.
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I have naturatly light ash blonde hair, which is about 2 inches long on top. I really want to dye the tips of my hair red, but I dont know how to go about it! What would I have to do to just dye the tips?? (link)
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Instead of put it all over your hair, take a small comb and brush the ends.
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I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away.. (link)
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Sounds like we have a little witch on our hands, ask her how the hell it's our fault you got in an accident...tell her to give you some credit, and ask her wtf she would have done if you would've died..make her think...talking is the key to almost everything.
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ok, i really like to sing, im ok i guess... but id really like to get better on my own w/o voice lessons or w/e. r there ne good methods for strengthining my voice and making it sound better?
*~*thanx a ton*~* (link)
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Okay, lay on your back, and breath in through your stomach about 10 times, then sing using same technique, do NOT breathe through your chest, make sure everytime you breathe in you feel air on the back of your throat, it opens your sound up....hope this helps.
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i have a 3 year old bichon frise, and he IS potty trained. when he was younger we would let him out like 10 times a day to pee. well all the sudden this year he's been peeing on the carpets like at least once a week. we're selling our house, so we got BRAND NEW CARPETS throughout the house, and he still keeps peeing on those! we even get the spray stuff to disguise the smell so he won't go back to the spot but he still does. my dad says if he pees in our new house we're giving him away! =( so how do i get him to stop? i suggested obedience school but they said no he's too old. how do we discipline him PLEASE help if you know about dogs. (link)
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I would by a little cage and everytime he peed I would put him in it for a certain amount of time. Or your dog may have something wrong inside of his body. I hope all goes well.Ash>
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i went shoppin with my friend the other day and we kept running into my dad there and everytime my dad would ask me a question shed answer for me. well a little later my dad got rly annoyed and raised his voice at her and told her off for doing that. i got a little pissed because he had a point but i didnt like the way he was talking to her. so i told him to not yell at her because shes not his kid and he took her home just because i said that. then later he told me how my friend is a liar and she bossed me around and she takes advantage of me and all this shit. i kind of agreed with him on some parts but some of the other things she said was totally out of line. now i dont know what to beleive because my dad got me all confused. is it fair what he said and am i being bossed around? ill rate high because this is so long. thnx (link)
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I agree with ur dad on some things but he has no right yelling at her. I have a friend kinda like that. But she just bosses me around and gets me in trouble. If I were u, I wouldn't be her friend anymore and I would tell my dad he was wrong for yelling at her b ut u shoul forgive him. Hope it all goes well!Ash>
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ok im a 15 year old dude and my gf goes to a dif skool and it really sux i know most of u think thats gay but itz all good.. but i don't get to see her a whole lot i don't get my car for three months. do u know how i can strengthen my relationship for these next three months b4 i can see her a whole lot more? (link)
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Okay, make sure you talk to her on the phone, don't talk about the same things, ask her how you think you could strengthen the relationship, send her something through mail..that will steal her heart!I hope my advice helps.
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Hey I am sixteen and I know that I have an advice colum but I really need help? Ok look ever since I was ten my mom was realy mean to my dad they whould argue and he left then she treated me so badly that my aunt and uncle had to move in with us. They thought she was better but she still whould not do anything with or for me she whouldn't even come to my party or take me to get school stuff my sisters diod it. And ok this same exact thing happend about 8 or 9 times since then and she still won't do anything but the only time my dad tells her that something is wrong with her is when she gets paranoid and thinks he is cheating What do I do do I get out of this stupid sicle let my dad be missrable or do I yell untill he listens wicth will not work but will u please help me please (link)
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Listen, my mom hasn't ever really been there for me...but one day, i was so hurt inside, i came right out and said "I'M YOUR CHILD, YOU HAD ME AND YOU WILL TAKE OF ME"...she basically had an emotional break down...Let her know, she's the ones who made "the mistake" and her b/f can wait..she has bigger problems...Hun, just come right out and say it, that's the only way to make her see! please realize that! pleasee....Hope it go's well..
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Alright I'm a 17 year old male. I met this girl through a friend of a friend basically. At first it was rather awkward cause I'm a really shy person but she isnt. Then we got to know eachother rather well and became good friends. But I love this girl, shes so great. I've told her this and at first she started ignoring me. Then she was okay with it. She never said she loved me back. She just said it was okay If I loved her. So I started being more nice to her. I baught her lunch for a month,I pre-ordered the new Ev CD for her (she's a HUGE Ev fan), I gave her a necklace too... then she suddenly started ignoring me again. She won't even talk to me anymore. Some of her friends claim I freaked her out because I baught her stuff but... I was just being me. Being nice. I just wanted to see her happy. Anyhow, she's talking to me again but its not like before. It's only a hello here and there. So What do I do? (link)
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Okay, here's what to do hun. Let her know you like her..but please don't over-do it...hit makes you kinda of obsessive...i'm only 13..but have been in love before..with a 16-year-old and 15-year. it's hard keeping quiet and not spilling your feelings out...but sometimes that's the key to secess..i hope this helps...
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I've had this problem for years. My parents and my sister always accuse me of talking too much and see nothing wrong with interrupting me in the middle or end of my sentences to tell me to shut up and that I talk too much. I respond by telling them that I was already done talking and that they should'nt assume I'm going to say more, and that it is rude to interrupt someone even if you don't care about what they are saying. At least if it's someone you care about, you should find a nicer way to tell them. They don't listen, they just keep telling me to be quiet when I try to tell them how I feel. I sometimes end up in tears, and then they tell me I'm being grumpy or silly. I'm 35 years old and I'm tired of being treated this way. How can I get them to listen? It's especially embarrassing when they do this in front of others, like my daughter, husband, other family and friends. I'm I partially to blame? Please help! (link)
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Hey hun. I'm only 13 and have the same problem...except they interupt me without making an accusation. When they interupt you tell them you're also a part of teh family and yes, YOU HAVE A SAY. Tell them you could care less about their problems, and until you get some respect..you'd rather not talk to them..hope everything works out..
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