Hi,
my name is Irene, i am 16 years old and i live in Florida. I am not a conceided person but i am really good in giving people advise to their problems. I have been through a lot of experiences in my life and i understand how it feels like to be in a situation where you dont know or are not sure of what to do and need someones advise. So for all of you that feel like that right now, i just want you to know that i am here for you! Just ask away!
Gender: Female
Location: Greece but moved to Florida my freshman year
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Age: 16
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i need some information on colon cleansing. how much does it normally cost? where can you get it done? does it hurt? and does it make you lose weight? thank you. (link)
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Hey!
Ok, colon cleansing is a healthy way of losing some weight, though i dont know how much it costs. Personally i think it might be somewhere between expansive and cheap. Colon cleansing has it's own place where you can go get it done, so the price will go according to how professional they are. It does not hurt, although it does feel very uncomfortable. It helps you lose weight the healthy way!
I hope i was a good help!!!
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Ok, i REALLY REALLY like this guy, like i LOVE him, and he knows it but he just wants to b freinds, and he said he mite go out one day. Hez not that smart,(dislexic)i am all as. and also he likes to hunt, and i aboslutely love animals. We r 2 totally different poeple but, i still love him. No,matter how hard i try i can't forget about him, What do i do. (link)
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Hey,
i know this might sound really weird to you....But i know EXACTLY what you are going through.I actually like someone who has speach impediment, his sister is my best friend. And i found the guts to tell him just to find out he likes another girl from his work... It was really heartbreaking for me because i LOVE him... If you like him as much as you feel you do it is going to be very hard for you, trust me, i know. BUT! Here is the bright side. You get to keep your options open, but still have him in mind. Maybe he is just testing you to see if u just have a crush on him or you are being serious. For him to say he might go out with you someday, i believe there is still a lot of hope. You just have to stay strong on your feelings, but then again, also keep your options open.
I hope i have helped!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
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Well one of my friends who i have been really close to since 5th grade has been having boy trouble but its complicated. She had a thing with one of our friends and then were cute together for awhile but then she broke it off with him and has been accusing him of things that she used to like. Like she is accusing her best friend of being all over him but really tey are just talking or something. And the first time she said it i believed her when she accused them of being all over eachother becuase someone else agree'd who was there, but now its just rediculous.And she is telling us not to talk to him pretty much because if we hang out she gets mad at us. I dont know what to do because i dont want to ruin either friendship but i feel like i might flip out on her at any second because she needs to get over it but i dont know how to tell ehr nicely because she is a very emotional person who lets her angry get the best of her way to fast. (link)
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Hey,
I am so sorry for u. Being in between friends is something really hard to cope with and u have been really patient! I am not patient so i would have freaked out a long time ago.
Here is my advice to you:
If she was a real friend she wouldnt even consider you to choose. She should have left her personal life out of your choice of friends,but she didnt. Dont be afraid to talk to her,start the conversation by telling her that you want to have a talk about something and you hope she doesnt get mad at you but you need to tell her. Tell her its not fair for you to choose because of HER personal experience with that person. And hopefully it will have a happy ending, if it doesnt[knock on wood] then u should tell her that if she was a true friend she shouldnt make YOU choose. People like that are not really good friends, because they dont care about your interests, tey just want you to do what they want you to do.
Hope i helped a little
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Hi! I'm 15 years old and my first love relation was when i almost 15- 2 moths before. So sometimes i think of Rayneel, my ex and sometimes when i feel lonely i remmember him... Do you think i till like him?
Deiry (link)
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I trully believe u dont. It is something people like to call old feelings. Plus, he was your first love. You will never forget the guys you trully loved in the past.
Hope this helped!
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Girl, 16: I broke up with my boyfriend three months ago. It was a very serious relationship, he's 18 and we were together for a year and a half. not very long but it felt right. but as all couples we had our share of problems and eventually we broke up. We began being friends but i guess it was too early. he told me that he still had feelings for me and we slept together. but thats when the arguements started to occur again. In the end i told him that i still love him, and i would be willing to make an effort in making it work, if he wanted. I asked him whether i was wasting my time and he told me that i moan at him constantly. I took that as a yes.
Time has past and its been hard. I got involved with another of my ex's. He told me that he loved me and by this time i had been feeling so alone. He was a year younger than me. Eventually i realised i had no feelings for him. But, unfair as it was, i carried on, hoping they would develop. This continued until new year's eve. Where I hadnt been seeing much of this person because i had been feeling bad about the first guy i spoke about. I was at a party and there was an old mate. He's 19 and gorgeous! Besides, I say mate but really i had obsessed about him from when i was 11 to when i was 14. I then bumped into him when i was with the first boyfriend i mentioned. We talked for ages and we have EVERYTHING in common. Some of my old feelings started to come back but i soon realised that it was the old me that was feeling them, and all it was was old feelings. I didnt see him again till this night. We talked and flirted the whole time. We left and walked to the park to watch the fireworks and when we were walking back we were walking through an alley and we made out loads. He kissed my neck and... it was everything i imagined it would be - after all that time.
So thats been life up to now. I broke things off with my ex (the second one). I told him about me and this guy and he forgave me instantly. Thats when i realised this wasnt fair at all and i should end things.
I have been feeling really good recently. Its because of this new guy i know it is. Problem is, well. I dont plan to fall for guys. I really dont. When i do it feels so good. Im really happy. But then something small happens. I basically find out that hes not perfect. I have no problem with that at all. I mean, its not like i expect him to be. But soemthing happens and it hurts a tiny bit. And the pain is enough to remind me why i dont get involved with guys in the first place. I mean, the vunerabilty, the jealousy the pain. I hate it all. It wasnt anything bad this time. I was talking to a friend about a girl my brother (20) went out with at some point and my friend mentioned she had slept with the guy i like. Obviously that happens and it doesnt bother me - but it was enough.
I dont have a question. I mean, until now my life has kinda been a big cloud of blurr and ive lost the will to complain. This is basically my last shot before i except it all. I dont know my problem, i dont have a question. Im just hoping that someone out there can give me some advice on how to sort this out, how to sort me out, and how to fix my life.
Sorry! and thanks xx
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Hey,
i am so sorry for everything you are going through.
Here is my advice from personal experience. I am not trying to tell you what to do so by all means do as you will. But my advice to you is leave all guys and get to know you! What i did is i moved, but you dont have to do something so drastic. Make a pact with yourself, no guys, until you know you and what you want.
Just take a break of all the guys and the drama and the pain... Be single and mingle! Learn who you are and the right person will come. Even if you feel alone, do not give in.
By doing that you will be over the past feelings and have a fogless life!
Hope i've helped!
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Sorry if this is long..
13/f
Ok so i went out with this guy who was 2 years older than me. Im 13 and he is 15. But in fedruary ill be 14 so we'll be one year apart. Anyways when i went out with him he kept asking if id do anything more than make out with him and i said no because im 13 and thats too young for me. I said in the future i would. but after a while we broke up and we both agreed to it because we wernt seeing eachother a lot and we went to different schools so it was hard. So we were over. And he got new girlfriends and i got new boyfriends but he kept telling me that he still had feelings for me and always would. And i didnt know what to really say about it because i was kinda mad at him for some reason so i would never respond. Well one day i wanted to get him jealous because i was so mad at him, so i knew he wanted to do "stuff" with me ( more than making out ) so i told him one day when i was babysitting there was this guy there that was soposed to go out but his plans got cancelled so he was stuck home and i didnt have a ride home so i stayed there, and i told him that while the baby was sleeping we were in his room fooling around and i gave him head. Then he was really jealous and admited it so my plan worked and i was very happy. But on New years eve he was over because his cousin mom is friends with my mom but anyways while he was over we were like all over eachother and laughing and having a good time and also we were sharing drinks and stuff. And when he was about to leave he hugged me for a long time and then we kissed ( we didnt make out ) and another thing when i first kissed him which was a while ago.. sometime last year he didnt know that he was my first kiss and im afraid to tell him because i dont want him to be my first everthing. So my question is should i tell him or just keep it to myself because i feel like he might be really mad that iv been lieing to him. what do i do. and im sorry this is so long i just really really need advice soon :[
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I know this is hard and i know why you did what you did. I've done it this year and at that point of time it made me feel really good.
But you want to be the bigger person right?
So you meet with him and you calmly tell him everything. Tell him why you lied to him and why you regret it, if you do, and why you are telling him now. Personally, i think you have nothing to loose. He has been saying that he still feels things for you. So if he is telling you the truth then he will forgive you!
Hope i've helped!
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how can u make your hair grow faster? (link)
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What i did is i trimmed my hair just a little bit one a month. That way the dead ends are cut often. Then i had my hair up on a ponytail. I read on a magazine a long time ago that by putting your hair up often it helps grow your hair.
Hope it helps you!
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I have a best friend, we are always together and on the phone and laughing and even speaking eachothers words.
She went away to visit her other friend and i called her and stuff to see what was going on, and she was being mean to me and like rude and it hurt my feelings so much.
She like acted like she didnt even wanna talk to me or anything.
For like 3 seconds she would act normal and then she would get all nasty and stuff.
And We even promised that while she was gone, we were still gonna be best friends.
Why would you think she was doing this to me?
It makes me so sad, shes my best friend ever. (link)
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My advise to you is this. I believe you should let your friend talk and see that other friend over there and if she is still there and she wants to talk to you then she will call you. Wait until she gets back and then talk to her about it, tell her that you called her to say hi and she shouldnt have been so mean. But maybe she felt like you werent letting her spend time with that other friend of hers.
Dont do anything drastic until she gets back but yeah, you should talk to her.
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People say i have a pretty singing voice but I'm too shy to sing in front of most people. How can I boost my confidence? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel!
I myself am in drama and chorus for a very long time, completing my lifetime dream. It is really hard for me to sing infront of people because i am surrounded by so many talented people.
Here is my advice to you, as i already have tried it and it has given me my own parts and success. I know this is going to be hard but all you have to remember is this. If you only got one chance in life to achieve your dreams, would you take it? You have to take chances in life to be succesful, because if you dont it will pass you by.
Also, you have to believe in yourself, withought getting cocky ofcourse. If people are telling you that you have a beautiful voice then you do! So take a chance! Spread them wings girl!
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Well I dumped my four month boyfriend
today and I'm fine. But the thing is I
did it through a text message because
he texted me telling me he loved me
and I didn't want to lie to him.
The problem was we never saw each
other so I wouldnt be able to do it
in person, he's ALWAYS busy.
Now I feel guilty because I know doing
it through a text is bad, should I call
him or something or just forget about it? (link)
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If you guys go to the same school or have someplace in common where you are going to be seeing him i suggest you call him and explain to him the reason why you broke up with him. Make sure you tell him why it ended up being through a text message because yeah, a text message isnt the perfect way to brake up with someone but you had no other way.
If you wont likely see him then you dont need to. But calling him and explaining to him would make him blame you and hate you less for baking up with him.
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Say your spouse dies and goes to "Heaven". You learn to cope and marry again. Then you and your new spouse somehow die (whomever first, it doesn't matter), but you both go to "Heaven". Now you're there with two martial partners. How is your time divided? Or how does that work? Can you love them both? Can you "be with" them both? Will they know of each other's existence?
There obviously isn't a right or wrong answer, so all opinions welcome and appreciated. (link)
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That is a very good question!
This is my belief. I believe that there is a Mr.Right out there for every girl. But obviously there can only be ONE Mr.Right! And obviously there is also a Mrs.Right out there for every guy. So,in my belief when you die and go to Heaven you meet the Mr.Right and spend your life in Heaven with him. And since it is Mr.Right he is there!
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ladies... how do you make a guy want you more without actually touching him? i mean, wut are some sexy things to say to him, or things you can do that will make him want you. im not looking to have sex by the way so please dont suggest that. thnx (link)
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Ok,
what about talking to him about things he likes, show him that you care about the things he likes. Like that, he will be more open to you and by achieving that he will feel that you guys have a lot of things in common and he will feel good about talking to you!
Also, try teasing him, not in a slutty way though. But little things like that can really help!
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Okay heres the thing I like this guy he is everything I wanted and I just don't want anyone to know that I like him. Only my best friend knows. I'd rather have him tell me if he liked me than me tell him so I'm sticking to not telling him. But we don't have alot in common and he dosn't seem interested in me at least sometimes. Sometimes I catch him staring at me and doing something then looks over at me but thats it. What should I do? (link)
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Maybe he isnt talking to you because he doesnt feel comfortable with you.
You should find a way to hang out with him, get to know him more and make him trust you!
If you do then i am sure he will talk to you more. It will take time but you will be able to know his feelings about you.
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Well about a week ago I went over to my one friends house, liz’s. It was an all girls night, and it was just 3 people… me, chelsey, and liz. Well to cut the story short, liz’s boyfriend, josh, came over with some friends. I was really shy at first because they are 2-3 years older than us, but I sooned opened up to all of them and was friendly. Well, one of his friends, brett, in particular, was paying special attention to me, and just being really friendly, almost flirty like.
Now, it’s a week later and josh calls liz and tells her that they needa hang out soon again. She told him that tomorrow night, kira, another friend, is going to have a party and that he can come. He asked if he could come but is it ok if he can bring some friends. She tells him yes but asks who. He told her like 2 other guys and if he could bring brett, bc/ it turns out that brett has a “crush” on me, and thinks im cute; but tells her not to tell me because if brett thinks im interested he would try hooking up/getting together with me. BUT, he has a girlfriend, and she is 3-4 years older than him and they’ve been together quite awhile (but it's a long distance relatonship). It sucks so bad, because I really thought brett was cute before I even found out he liked me and I never knew he had a girlfriend.
Now, the thing is, is that im really nervous because now my friends thinks brett has a crush on me, but I don’t wont’ them to tell anyone, but they already did! I don’t want to embarrass him like that, and what if he was just joking around saying that he “likes” me and says im “cute”. And im sooo afraid that the upperclassmen girls are going to hate me now!
What should I do? Should I show brett that I “like” him and thinks he cute? And if he breaks up with his girlfriend should I try getting with him? The thing is, is that I never hooked up with anyone before, and him dating a girl 3 years older than himself tells me that he likes experienced girls. I’m so confused!
P.S. – I really don’t think he is trying to use me though. He is so nice and he doesn’t have that reputation at all.
Thank you so much for your time and advice! =)
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Ok...
The good thing is that he does not have a bad reputation. THATS GOOD! I believe that for him to tell his friend that he likes you and he thinks you are cute then he is meaning it.
His relationship with the other girl...is ridiculous. She is older than him and she lives far away. So if he likes you i believe he is starting to realize that.
You like him right? Then dont back up because of a girl that lives far away. Get to know him, spend time with him.
BUT, dont make him choose. Let him take the time to deside by himself. If he chooses to break up with her for you then congratulations and i am happy for you! But make sure he really broke up with her.
If the upperclass girls hate you because you chose to do what will make your life happy instead of theirs then they arent worth your time because they would be selfish.
Hope my advice helped
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Well im confused on what i really want to dolo.My problem is that i want to find out if my ex still has any feelings for me.I still love him and im the type of person that i tend to NOT say something and then regret it,i feel that on our last conversation i acted like i really didnt care that we had broken up and maybe that led him into thinking that i dont have any feelings for him left, and that i never did.Thats not true and i regret not having told him that.Im so confused i want to let him know that i still have feelings for him and know if he has any left for me.But i guess i am kind of afraid that he will tell me something that will hurt me and thats why i havent taken the risk...what can i do?Please help. (link)
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I know exactly how you feel!
This is my advice to you. Everybody in life should be able to take risks! Add some spontanity in your life and do something you could never see yourself ever doing! Even if he tells you something that isnt what you want to hear, you will not have to live the rest of your years wondering "what if?". Because i have, and i will. And trust me knowing that you could have done something but didnt because you were afraid is not the feeling you want to feel for a long time.
Show him you care, show him how you feel. I hope this helps you!
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Okay so this whole thing is going to sound extremely silly but here goes...
I have this problem with falling for guys that coincidentally happen to be leaving the country in the very near future. Like...I got into a relationship with this guy that when we got involved, we both knew that he was going to Africa the next year. The relationship lasted about 8 months and we broke up before he left. A few months after that, I had a fling with a guy that's going to Japan next summer. A few months after that, I had a fling with a soldier who's going to Iraq in February. The last couple of weeks I've been having a thing with a soldier in Iraq...well, see, we're really good friends, he just left Thursday to go back, and he's coming back to the United States in October of 2007. This last one who left on Thursday, we've been talking and I can't stop thinking about him and I really want to be with him and all I can think about is how it's just not fair!!!
What should I do? (link)
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My poor girl...
I have a friend that is currently going through the same problem as you...only the guy she likes is moving to Boston...
I will give to you the same advice i gave to her...
If the person is moving someplace else permanently then you should try getting over it and find someone else. Try and get to know a person before you get to like him, enough for you to know he is not going to leave.
Have you thought that maybe you get attached to guys that move for a reason? Maybe it is because you are afraid of having someone that is not leaving because they might break up with you for another reason.
All you need to do is be patient. Not all guys move. You will find someone really good,that isnt going to move. Just dont give up, and dont settle!
I hope my advice helps you. I'm with you all the way!!!
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I'm 15/f but my friend is 16/f
She complains that she throws up and is sooo sick whenever shes on her period and has the worst cramps and all of that. Is it normal to be throwing up or is she exaggerating?
& is there anything I can tell her that will help?
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I must say every person has a different body, but i dont think that throwing up is because of her period. The really bad cramps yes, but i think she took it a lottle too far with the throwing up.
I personally get really bad cramps so when i do i get Pamprin Max from the Pharmacy and A LOT of chocolate! So if you want to make her feel better why dont you buy her a box of chocolates when she has her period?
I am sure they will ease the pain for a while!!!
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ok. if your so called "BEST FRIENDS" never called you, always stood you up with phone calls, and made you feel like you weren't their friend, what would you do? (link)
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And you call them your friends because...
Look, you may not have noticed but i trully believe there is other people that are around you almost everyday and deserve better attention than them.
If they choose 2 leave you out then my advise to you is to find REAL friends that wont.
I am sure you dont deserve to be ignored!
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