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should i tell him?
Sorry if this is long..
13/f
Ok so i went out with this guy who was 2 years older than me. Im 13 and he is 15. But in fedruary ill be 14 so we'll be one year apart. Anyways when i went out with him he kept asking if id do anything more than make out with him and i said no because im 13 and thats too young for me. I said in the future i would. but after a while we broke up and we both agreed to it because we wernt seeing eachother a lot and we went to different schools so it was hard. So we were over. And he got new girlfriends and i got new boyfriends but he kept telling me that he still had feelings for me and always would. And i didnt know what to really say about it because i was kinda mad at him for some reason so i would never respond. Well one day i wanted to get him jealous because i was so mad at him, so i knew he wanted to do "stuff" with me ( more than making out ) so i told him one day when i was babysitting there was this guy there that was soposed to go out but his plans got cancelled so he was stuck home and i didnt have a ride home so i stayed there, and i told him that while the baby was sleeping we were in his room fooling around and i gave him head. Then he was really jealous and admited it so my plan worked and i was very happy. But on New years eve he was over because his cousin mom is friends with my mom but anyways while he was over we were like all over eachother and laughing and having a good time and also we were sharing drinks and stuff. And when he was about to leave he hugged me for a long time and then we kissed ( we didnt make out ) and another thing when i first kissed him which was a while ago.. sometime last year he didnt know that he was my first kiss and im afraid to tell him because i dont want him to be my first everthing. So my question is should i tell him or just keep it to myself because i feel like he might be really mad that iv been lieing to him. what do i do. and im sorry this is so long i just really really need advice soon :[
thank you so much :]
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i think that you should just tell him the truth. tell him just as you have told us. if he understands then he is worth it if not then you shouldnt need to worry about him again. you may think you really like him but telling him the truth will let you know if he likes you enough to do stuff with him.
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If i were you i would tell him everything. I meen if he really did have feelings for you then he wouldnt mind. And what have you got to loose ? because your not with him anymore are you ? Plus if he did like you then he would be glad to know that you actually wanted to make him jelous..so u must still feel something for him ;) Good Luck and hope i helped :) xxx
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I know this is hard and i know why you did what you did. I've done it this year and at that point of time it made me feel really good.
But you want to be the bigger person right?
So you meet with him and you calmly tell him everything. Tell him why you lied to him and why you regret it, if you do, and why you are telling him now. Personally, i think you have nothing to loose. He has been saying that he still feels things for you. So if he is telling you the truth then he will forgive you!
Hope i've helped!
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