Hey. my name is Tess.
im a very calm person i never really get mad, and i can stay calm in a crisis situation. people usually turn to me for an outcome of a problem. ive been told by many that im good at giving advice. i dont like to fight with anyone and i have many friends. i like helping people.
im a pretty crazy person and people say im so fun to be around =D
i believe you should live life to the fullest it can be lived! just have fun!
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There is this girl at my school and she is amazing. She is always happy, extremely nice...and i swear she is friends with everyone! I'm really falling head over heels for this girl. I've noticed she acts a bit different around me now a days...and I was wondering...did i do something wrong? She always looks at the floor and has trouble keeping eye contact with me. Plus, she giggles a lot? Is she laughing at me..something I do? Anyway, it would help if I knew what these meant. A few weeks ago i started a secert admirer thingy. I've sent her flowers and wrote her short little love letter/poem things. Any chance she found out or something. Should I stop with the whole 'secert admirer'...do girls think that's lame? Well, anyways, I'm planning on asking her out, but I'm really nervous and I'm not too sure how to ask. I really like this girl, i want to impress her, put a smile on her face.
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance! =) (link)
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i think she knows if she has changed the way she acts around you and is giggling. and about the whole secret admirer thing...some girls may like it but it depends how corny and cheesy thinga are. it can be really sweet though. most girls like you to tell them straight.
thats really all i have to say :)
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Okay, so here's the deal: I have a boyfriend and one of my friends has a crush on him. I haven't been friends with this girl very long either.
Okay- she was flirting with him a lot...and it was bugging me. So i talked to her about it. The first time she was all like "oh, sorry.okay" She didn't stop. So i talked to her AGAIN! and she said "oh my god! i's so sorry! I hate it when friends think that! Okay, I'll stop. It will be hard, but I'll try." (link)
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i know how you feel. me and my boyfriend are totally in love with each other and a few of my friends do little things that bother me but i know they shouldnt, and my boyfriend tells me hes never going to leave me so i try not to worry about it. the thing is, she knows shes doing it, since she said "it'll be hard, but ill try." and since you have already talked to your boyfriend and her, so thats good. heres what i would do, tell your boyfriend to say something to her. im sure he gets annoyed if she tickles him all the time? tell him to tell her to stop in a stern way or something so she gets the message that shes annoying and he doesnt like her flirting without saying it in a direct way. you could talk to her again also, and say "you havent stopped." but you shouldnt worry too much about this though, your boyfriend knows how you feel about this situation, and he knows that shes just flirting with him. i really think the best thing to do now would be to tell your boyfriend to say something to her because if it comes from him, she might back off.
hope this helps. if its still going on after this message me
hope everything works out for youxxx
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ok at my school there are only freshmen and sophmores and im a sophmore. but theres this freshmen and i really like him. hes so cute and nice and funny. and idk if its weird for me to like him i mean is the age differance too much? i know some people date people who are more than a year apart but i mean with so few kids idk if it would be just too awkward. (link)
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no its not weird at all and if anyone thinks it is tell them to open there eyes and look at the world! just forget what everyone thinks and dont worry about them or what they say or think...just follow your heart babe
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Ok well my teacher at school said something really mean to me in class today in front of the whole class and I really don't appreciate it. I'm really senstivie.
As much as I want to say "you hurt my feelings!" I can't because that's just being..a sissy, looser?
And she made me cry in class TWICE now and I don't do anything bad!
Is there anything i can do or anything to make me feel bettter form her words? (link)
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yess! tell a guidence councelor or parent to tell the school. they take things like this extremely seriously. if a teacher is embarrasing or saying mean things to you, especially in front of the class, this is wrong and you have to do something about it before it continues or gets worse. just tell the principal or guidance councelor and it will be solved.
hope this helps! xxx
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hi..lets call me jane...okay so im like obsessively in like with my best guy friend, lets call him chad. okay so my best girl friend lets call her...well her names sam. okay so i told sam that i told chad i liked him and she was like OMG RLY? YAY so then she messaged chad on myspace and was like "omg jane told you she liked you!?!?!?" but hes not on right now..the thing is I NEVER REALLY TOLD CHAD! what do i do?! do i lie and make up a story saying that i was joking or do i actually tell him? thing is-- im POSITIVE he doesnt like me. (link)
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yeppo def tell him
no lies
always say what u feel or lifes a waste =D
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im 14/m.
I met this girl and we got to 3rd base on the first day i met her. was that bad if I want to have a meaningful relationship with her that's not all about sex? (link)
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well...i dont mean to be miss negitive here but the first day, i dont think its good. a good relationship takes time and has to build and have stability. this is just my opinion though. make sure she likes you and i think you should still go for it. you never know what could happen.
good luck though!!
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I'm not sure if this is the right category.. but oh well.
I have a bad habit of biting my nails or doing the same thing, but using my hands to uh tear? them.
What can I do to stop doing this ?
& can you make your nails grow faster ?
My nails are pretty short because of the biting..
& I really want them longer.
BUT, I don't want fake nails.
So, is there any way to help stop biting them & make them grow longer ?
Thanks! (link)
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well...i heard chlorine make them grow faster. and also if you file them just slightly ever 2 days ish that will grow longer.
and about stopping biting them...well just the thought of all those germs and stuff. i actually looked it up on google and i was shocked at all the nastyness so that made me stop. maybe you should look up like "nail biting and germs" or something like that.
hope i helped!
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i have no idea where i'm going..
i'm gonna be a freshman in highschool and we got our scedules at the end of eighth grade but mine was messed up and i couldn't talk to the counselors who came from the highschool because i had drama. i don't even know my homeroom..
the open house thing for my school is the day before i think, could i get my scedule that day? who do i ask?
i'm just like worried becasue i can't really remember where the freshman halways are or anything either. ha any advice? (link)
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yes you can most definitely get your schedule on orientation day the day before. just go to the main office they should have one. and also schools usually have maps. what i did when i was a freshman was get highlighters and labeled my classrooms and figured out a way to get there. also im sure many upperclassmen will help you. just ask it will be ok. but keep the map thing on the dl, you dont want to be known as the lost freshman with the map =b
just study it before school.
you'll be fine, dont worry too much :)
sophmore, 15f
GOOD LUCK!
xxx
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Is it normal to actually feel your heart brake. I don't mean literally like your beating heart but I mean whenever I remember how hurt i was after my break up its like butterflys run through my arms and to my heart. This has never happened to me before and Ive been calling this my heart brake because this only happens when i think about him, its not like it hurts its just like a complete saddness that goes through me. Has this ever happened to anyone before? (link)
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omg yes! i didnt know if anyone felt this either. when this guy i LOVED moved away, it really hurt, and i felt it. and now every time i think about it i feel it in my heart. i also get this feeling when im really sad about something. like it almost hurts in a way, but doesnt? but he moved awhile ago, and every time i think about him, the feeling comes back, so i cant tell you its going to go away :(
but im sure many people feel this too
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Does anyone have any fighting tips for like if i get in a fight with another girl at school or anything? Thankss (link)
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ok...well normally id just say talk it out dont fight...but fuck that.
whatever u do, dont stop hitting!! gives her a chance to fight back and once shes got you she wont stop either. also it helps to get really mad before. like think of the thing that makes you really mad, and then just take it all out on her. girls usually pull hair, thats how cool we are, but it works because when you pull someone's hair, they follow your hand to try and not pull it if that makes sence, so that works. also if the hitting thing dont work, u can always kick a bit =b
and if you get her on the ground, dont stop then either, wait till someone brakes it up.1: because it looks weird, and 2: because people will remember you beat the crap out of her =b
hope this helps :)
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I want to create a MySpace layout site but I have no idea where I can create GOOD layouts.
Any Generator sites that are good?
P.S.- I'm just a beginner, any tips or suggestions I can use to make my first MySpace Layout sit.
Thanks! (link)
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if u actually want to MAKE your own, i use www.mywickedspace.com
also if you go on google and type in "myspace layout maker" or something along those lines, you get loads of sites.
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ok so basically umm i started smoking and well i just wanted to know cause i wanna be healthy and live for quite a long time and be able to play with my kids when i have kids and grand kids and possibly even great grand kids so if i smoke not even that often just every once in a while will that be able to happen at least be able to run around and play with my grand kids and i know smoking is addictive but i mean yeah (link)
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DONT SMOKE!!! even ONE cigarette can cause immediate damage, and it all adds up.
i wouldnt bet on the whole grandkid thing. sorry. heres some websites that i think you should read:
http://no-smoking.org/july01/07-03-01-1.html
http://www.docguide.com/news/content.nsf/news/8525697700573E1885256CA50001EB1D
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HELP ME!
currently am in Honduras(central America) but sice i have a green card, am obligated to live there at leats 5 YEARS!! okay so the thing is how do i handle not being bullied(not that ive been bullied before)? , or just give me all the tips you can give me!! plaese.. becouse when i lived there 1 year for 6TH grade, it whent pretty BAD! PLEASE, and THANKS! :P by the way am going to 9th grade. (link)
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just try to fit in, but dont go too much away from being yourself. also dont act like your all that. people HATE it when freshmen act as if they own the place. freshmen get picked on anyway, but dont take that too seriously.
good luck xxx
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13/f
I'm imature. Let's say that first. Second, I laugh whenever I hear the words, balls or get in there and stuff liek that. I mean I kinda know what sex is, but not exactly. I'm NOT asking for you to tell me. I don't want to know its gross. The problem, my friends know what it means and they think it's cool. It's gross. My friend writes poems about sex. i want to know what to do! I hate it when they talk seriously about this stuff. What can I do?! HELP ASAP!!!!!!! (link)
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ok. first of all you are 13. you and your friends shouldnt even be talking seriously about sex. especially having it. your too young. i think your friends are at the stage when "sex is cool" maybe you could just say next time they bring it up that you shouldnt be having sex yet and not be so serious about it. they might not take that seriously but later on will come to realize your right. also, if u think sex is gross, that is a little immature for your age. but thats how some people are. sex is a wonderfull thing when its read and not just some 13 year old joke. take it seriously, but not too seriously yet. and if NONE of that works, you could always try and change the way the convo is going or the subject descretely.
also, i think you think sex is gross because you dont know much about it, if you need to know anything, inbox me xxx
rly hope i helped xxx
good luck
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girls are so complicated cuz when i try to do somethin they always complain and whenever they are sick ill talk to them all night but they say i didnt talk long enough? and whenever they misss me i do whatever i can to get to them but they say i didnt try hard enough even though i got there and i even brought flowers a chocalate? sometimes i dont get girls or should i say some girls?
what should i do? (link)
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ok...the girl your doing this for, needs to give u a break. if a guy did this for me, id be more than greatful!!!!!! way way more. Maybe you can talk to her, (if it is one girl, which it sounds like) not like a sit down discussion, but when she says "you didnt try" say i came and saw you. she cant say your wrong if you did and will realize that you did try.
GooD luck and remember NOT ALL GIRLS ARE LIKE THIS!
XXX
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hey. well, my dad bought some chocolates from this place called cocoa dolce, and i decided to keep the box they came in. it's smallish, and i just wanna do something cute with it, just for fun. like i said, its not very big. i was thinking about just getting cute things out of magazines andjust decorating it with pics. but idk. anyone have any cute ideas??? thanks! (link)
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i like the magazine idea. i think you should get lots of pictures and glue them on with clear glue, like elmers glue, and overlap them so its like a box collage thing, also when you have done that, id paint the whole thing with glue and a paintbrush, because it gives it a really nice shiny, glossy coat. also it makes it more hard and durable.
gd luck xxxxxx
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What are some things i can do to make my sunburn better?
I have relief stuff, but it doesn't last long.:[
shower tips?
sleeping tips?
please helpp
sunburn areas=boobs (entire)
buttox
middle back.
and lower stomach.
thxxx (link)
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first of all, put lotion on and stuff. theres an aloe lotion thats good that i got from walmart. make sure the shower is cold, or as cold as you can, and make sure the shower head is set on soft. try to sleep on your side. dont wear too much, let your skin breathe, dont cover yourself too much either, try to keep cool. dont stretch your skin. like when you sleep, cuz i know i sleep funny and i stretch my back and stuff. hope this helps xxx
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