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God is great, but he is also just. He will condem those who do not repent and come to him. He loves everyone and gives opportunity for people to repent of their sins and come to him, but it is then the person's choice to accept him or not.
Without justice in our world, there would be only chaos. Criminals are brought to justice in the natural world and sinners will be brought to justice before God.
Imagine a criminal is in court and the judge orders him to pay a million dollars or spend the rest of his life in jail for the crimes he commited. The criminal doesn't have this kind of money, and falls to his knees before the judge, crying and asking for mercy. The judge has mercy on him, but there is still a million dollars to be paid. The judge asks, "Is there anyone here who will pay this fine?" A person rises up from the crowd and says, "I will, Father." The son then gives everything he has so the criminal can be freed...cleared of all charges. The criminal is no longer a criminal, but a free man and would be a fool to go back to his old ways after being given such a gift.
God's Son Jesus laid down his life for the sinner. Every person is a sinner and every person has the choice to remain in that place or accept Jesus & live.
You said, "He will forgive anyone so they wont be going to hell. Otherwise Im going to hell for being gay." God will forgive this perverse act if you are TRULY sorry and want to change this life style. No sin is out of the forgiveness of God. God wants you to believe him. He has given us the bible, so that we can know him personally.
You are living with the idea that you can have this sinful life and still be okay. That's a lie from satan. It's not okay. This is very serious and I hope you consider carefully what God's Word (the Bible) says. Get yourself a bible and start in the book of John. This will show you what I'm talking about. (link)
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But why should I be sorry for being who I am. I mean Im not going to change. The bible also states that you have to be true and honest to your partner or wife, otherwise it is a sin. So either way I guess I will be going downstairs. How can I be loyal to a wife if I dont love her?
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you said - Of course you can still goto heaven. Remember God excepts everyone. No matter who they are or what they where, color, gender. He excepts everone. So dont worrie about it.
God offers his grace to everyone and will not turn anyone away, but not everyone accepts him. It's choosing him that saves us. The people who do not accept God's grace will be in hell. Those who accept Jesus (which is God's grace) will be in heaven. The issue is not whether God accepts us; he does. The issue is will people accept him.
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Yeah but if he is so great like they say. He will forgive anyone so they wont be going to hell. Otherwise Im going to hell for being gay.
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I stopped dressing up for places but now I want to but I dont know how to put anything together now. I'm tired of wearing a sweater and sweatpants. I need help. I dont know what colors would look good on me. I'm light tanned. I have dark brown/black hair. I'm short and not really chubby. Any suggestions of colors/clothes (certain color shirt/jeans/skirt) ? Pictures of outfits would help. I can't ask my friends because they aren't interested in fashion. (link)
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Now days you can put anything together. What I always do lay my clothes out and match them up. Then I mix the colors around to make a funky outfit. You can always look around in magazines to see what colors would look good. I would start off with something that is bright. Almost everybody looks good in bright colors.
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Okay everything has been going great I mean i havent even been on this website for like 6 months which is really good it ment i wasnt confused.
Now i still have the same crush that just about all of the older mebers know about But anyways so for the second time i bottled my feeling somewhat up and tried not to think about her that way.
This has been working for about a month and then school started to overwhelm me I have more homework than ever i am trying to get my room and loft area i have two projects i need to do another project for the high school for theatre and tec theatre that i want to go to. which i am not really sure i want to go to anymore
so natrually i am really stressed. And on top of all of that i didnt have the mental power to keep my feelings for the girl i liked locked up
So i kind of just blew up
So all i need is some relaxtion tricks and tips to keep me not so stressed? basically any could things to help me relax (link)
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You could try takeing up yoga. An hour or so a day even a half hour. Yoga will help you organize everything. You wont have to worrie about another thing. That is what I do. It really helps me out.
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Today I decided to completley put my faith and trust into God, I really took him into my life today. However, I just started going to church last year so I was never baptised and never confirmed. Can I still expect to go to Heaven? What exactly does being confirmed or baptised mean? (link)
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Of course you can still goto heaven. Remember God excepts everyone. No matter who they are or what they where, color, gender. He excepts everone. So dont worrie about it.
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im lesbian,but i dont know how to tell all my family. (link)
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Well, you can start by telling the one who will understand the most first. Then gradually tell the others. Just sit em' all down at dinner, and just tell em'.
As my aunt Lolo is always saying, life is only as hard as you make it.
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Im black and my skin is uneven throughout my body like for example my stomach and butt are really dark compared to my face and lower and higher chest...
so i was wonderin what can i do to lighten up the darker areas? or waht products i can use also?. (link)
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I have the same problem. I have lac of pigmint. You can goto a Dermatologist and he can get a skin cream to make it blend. It will kind of be like one of those spray on Tans.
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I have a friend that lives in my appartment complex. She's always phoning me and asks if she can borrow one of my DVD's. I always say yes because I own lots and she's pretty good about returning.
Well I just got two movies from my dad, Willy Wonka and The Fog. She asked me already if she could borrow them and I told as soon as I finished watching them.
She just phoned me about a half hour ago and asked if she could borrow one of my movies. I told her sure. When she came over I told her she could watch anything except for those two movies that I hadnt watched yet. Then she got mad and said" well then I guess I won't be borrowing anything because those are the ones I wanted to watch". Then she left!!
I felt angry, like she's just using me to watch my movies. If she was a true friend wouldnt she have at least stayed for a visit to chat?
Am I overreacting or was that down right rude? (link)
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I think it is that time of the month. She may be in a difficult spot right now. Just talk to her, if she is this great, and wonderful person you say, she will listen.
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I used to see a guy from other country for no more than 2 weeks, i fell in love with him, but he didn't. How can i make him love me, i think he is Mr. Right for me. (link)
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March right up to him and tell him. He may reject you and he may not. You should be fine. Just remember if he does say no dont worrie about it because there are many other fish in the sea...
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OK so my best guy friend is in a fight with one of my good girl friends. These 2 are always like one minute best friends, one minute he hates her. I put her in my top 8 on myspace and hes like "ewww, take her out now." and i did. I know it was a small little thing, but it kinda scares me now .. am i letting him control me? If i tell him how i feel, he will get mad he is really sensitive. I dont wanna lose his friendship. What should i do? (link)
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I dont think that I would of taken her on my myspace because that is not his space. But if you are even asking it he prob. is. Im going to have to say that you have to make this choice. Look deep into your heart. Listen to it, it will tell you every thing that you need to know. Trust me!!
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Alright I'm 15 and I'm a male. My girlfriends birthday is comming up really soon & she won't tell me what she wants for her birthday. I have no idea what I should get her. She's going to be 14. If anyone can give me some ideas it'd be greatly appreciated. I'll rate you on it too. I really need some help. Thanks (link)
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Think back has she been dropping hints to you? Like when she looks in a magazine does she say ooh I like that. Or, you can always buy some kind of jewelry. Heck it would work for me! You could always buy a teddy bear with candy to go with it. Use your emagionation, you'll find the perfect gift for her.
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Ugh, my huge winter dance is in a few weeks (about 3) and I asked this kid i dont know too well but i mean i talk to him everyday jus sayin Hi or somethin. well, I asked him at 10:57 and then he didnt answer. then at 11:23 i asked if he was there nd he didnt answer (this is all online) then an hour later i saw he went away and then came back. so i IMed him nd asked if he saw what i said. here was the convo when he came back
him: yeah but im leavin soon im readin some stuff on a few sites then goin upstairs what ya need ?
me: did you see what i asked you earlier?
him: yes
me: and .. lol
him: .... ill get bac to u
he's probably goin to make me wait a really long time and i really need to find a date fast because tickets go on sale until wednesday. then they are unavaliable. i dont want him to keep me waiting to the point that i wont find a date. what do i do? do i tell him i dont want to go with him any more( thats weird). do i wait it out? what do i do?!?
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What I would do is tell him that I need and answer. Put him on the spot. Then what ever his reation may be, go with that.
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I am strongly thinking about going on birth control, I would like to know if this effects me gettin pregnant in the future or any other serious risks. Please reply ?? (link)
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I wish i could help. My guess is that is it wont affect ur futer because my mom was on Birth control when she had me so I really dont know. Sorry.
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Me and my girlfriend have been seriously dating for almost 3 years. 8 years before I met her, she became friends with an exchange student from Belgium. She had a big crush on him, however nothing romantically happened. Last week he was in town and needed some 1 to go to Orlando Florida with him, my girlfriend and her brother agreed to go with him. At the end, her brother wasent able to go, so she ended going with this guy by herself. I trust my girlfriend 100 percent, however, the thought of her willingly going, while fully aware of my negative feelings towards this so called "friends" trip has been driving me crazy. Ive asked around and the answer I always get is " get rid of her". My question is, do I have the right to feel mad, disrespected and betrayed by my girlfriends actions, what should I do? (link)
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Yeah you have every right to be a little mad. But the real question is do you really trust her. Just look into your heart and figure out if you truly trust her. If you say she is as great as she may sound, you really dont have anything to worrie about. If something did happen eventually she will tell you. But you need to just have some faith in her. So try not to worrie about it.
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Ok im 14, 15 in 2 weeks, is it normal that i still hwear a 34A? Everyone of my friends has bigger boobs than i do and when im around them i feel like i dont belong and when were around guys they arent looking at me just because i dont have big boobs. Are they just taking longer to grow. or have i stopped growing and this is how theyre going to stay?
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Im sure that you are not dont growing. So dont worrie about it. What ever you do, do not stuff or buy a puff up braw. If you do that and someone finds out you will never hear the end of it. That name will haunt you forever.
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I don't mean to sound stuck up but people tell me all the time that I'm girl of every guys dreams and every girl wants to be. The thing is that it is kind of a bad thing sometimes. Because people won't give me a chance. They think because of my popularity status and my looks that I am mean and stuck up but I'm really not. I always try to speak to everyone. Whether you are popular, average, or not very social I still go out my way to speak. I do a lot of other things but I don't want to take up to much of you all's time.Anyways a lot of girls don't like me. And some of the guys don't even try to speak to me because they think they don't have a chance with me. I want to know how can I get people to understand that I'm a normal person like everyone else. (link)
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Just keep doing what you are doing. Not everybody is going to like you. I know that for a fact b/c I kind of tend to want people to like me-almost to a falt. So you are just doing fine. And bout' the boys that dont think they have a change. Why dont you just make the first move? The worst they can do is say no. right? As my Aunt Lolo always say, you really want something in life, you have to get it yourself.
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Sheesh...It's just been a romantic emotional roller coster for me! A guy I am completely smitten with unintentionally broke my heart by going after another girl...it didn't work out so well. It's been about 3 or 4 weeks since then. I think *Maybe* he likes me now? I dunno...Maybe he just see's me as a good friend...he is allways near me the most at get togethers, or in class, he allways sits next to me. I am perfectly aware that he may just be comfortable around me in a way that doesn't go any further than friendship...but I dunno...I went and saw a movie with him not too long ago...when we went to say goodbye, I hugged him, and he held onto me for longer than I expected...then he pulled back a little, but kept one of his arms wrapped all the way around my waist...he held me pretty close to his face and kinda looked into my eyes...heh...maybe I shoulda kissed him? I dunno. If he IS interested in me now for some reason, I'm afraid he may be confused or just not thinking straight because of his recent failed attempt at a relationship...Well, I should tell any readers now that I am going to make damn sure that if he asks me out, that he's really ready for it, and I'm going to make sure he isn't just trying to make this other girl jealous...(BTW, this girl he liked wasn't there with us when we went to the movies...)
So, tell me what you think...in the meantime, I'm just crossing my fingers...
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I know this is going to be semi hard to do because I know that it isnt the easiest thing in the world to do. Just sit him down when no ones is around and talk to him about it. Just come flat out and ask him about it. But make sure he is still comfie. So to speak. Just talk to him. Like my Aunt Lolo always says ambition w/o knowlage is like a boat on dry land.
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see i have this old boyfriend. we went out for 5 almost 6 months. but then he ended up moving. everyone in his new school loved him to death. now he's forgotten all about me but i still care alottttt about him. what do i do ?! (link)
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Well, one thing you can do is call him up and see if he wants to do something. Like goto a movie or go for ice-cream. Or surprize him. I mean if you think he is as great as you say. He will remember you and tottaly flip out. In a good way. But if for some reason he doesnt remember you hell at least fake it. So just call em' The worst thing he can do is hang up. So there is no biggy.
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I fell in love with my bestfriend (typical). but he used to and still says that he loves me more than he has ever loved a girl in his life. and the other day he told me that he had a girlfriend so obviously i was heart broken. SO appearently he "loves" me only as a friend. yea its confising i kno, geeze. So i just want some advice on how to get over him...like what should I do and places I could go to get him out of my mind, because i really dont want to ruin this friendship. It was just my fault on falling for him.oh yeah i just turned 17 and ima girl and hes 19. (link)
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The best way to forget about him is... well, there is none. I mean when I fell in love for the first time. I was like omgosh. Then he kind of broke my heart. That was crushing, it felt like I was being weighed down by something that I couldnt just get off. I still havent forgotten about him. You have to just let it runs its course. Eventually it will go away. But you will always have that speical place in your heart.
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Does anyone know of an eyeliner that is waterproof and wont smudge?
-Thanks. (link)
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Kiss Me Eyeliner is not a cosmetic paint like most liquid eyeliners, and therefore cannot act like them. This means no fading, smudging, clumping, running and most importantly, no flaking into your eyes, making it ideal for those with sensitive eyes as well as contact lens wearers. Did you know that most eyeliner sensitivities occur because of gradual flaking into the eye?
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