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People won't give me a chance
I don't mean to sound stuck up but people tell me all the time that I'm girl of every guys dreams and every girl wants to be. The thing is that it is kind of a bad thing sometimes. Because people won't give me a chance. They think because of my popularity status and my looks that I am mean and stuck up but I'm really not. I always try to speak to everyone. Whether you are popular, average, or not very social I still go out my way to speak. I do a lot of other things but I don't want to take up to much of you all's time.Anyways a lot of girls don't like me. And some of the guys don't even try to speak to me because they think they don't have a chance with me. I want to know how can I get people to understand that I'm a normal person like everyone else.
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I think you should try talking to them more and tell them that your really not stuck up. If they continue to still think that you are to good for them and stuck up then you should just keep being your-self. If they want to talk to you than they will.
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Just keep doing what you are doing. Not everybody is going to like you. I know that for a fact b/c I kind of tend to want people to like me-almost to a falt. So you are just doing fine. And bout' the boys that dont think they have a change. Why dont you just make the first move? The worst they can do is say no. right? As my Aunt Lolo always say, you really want something in life, you have to get it yourself.
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Continue to be yourself. Nobody is asking for a drastic change - that might get you the attention, but not the one you wanted. Ever try jokes? Most guys like girls that can take a joke, and even tell a good one. Go online and find a good one or ask around for one. Actually, try to learn a few - don't want to go around wearing out the joke. Hmm...if that doesn't seem to work, try asking questions. Typical or random questions, questions that would teach you more about the person. Let people know who you really are too. Like after you ask a question, tell them what your answer is. Like: what do you think is the worst subject; what do you usually think about when u first wake up; etc. Stuff like that. Actually, nothing wrong with actually asking somebody for a chance, right? Who knows, they might even say yes. I know it sounds mean, but I don't mean this in a bad way: sometimes one of the quickest ways to make friends with someone is to...hate someone/something together. Try it and give it a shot - but not to an extreme either. Hope that helped and good luck.
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I think it's great that you want to talk to everyone and even though a lot of people like you and shower you with wonderful comments you don't let it go to your head. I admire that so much in you and it's a great thing to have but if you want everyone to know your not stuck up simply show them. Those boys that don't think they have a chance so they don't talk to you, go over and just talk to them about the most random things ever and compliment them and even tell them some stories about your life like things that have happened to you, but make sure they're ones that show how really nice you are. Alos those girls that don't like you, confront them about it. Just go up to them and ask them (not in a mean way) why the don't like you and if they say because your popular and stuck up or something just say well i'm sorry you feel that way but maybe if you gave me a chance you wouldn't feel that way anymore or something like that where it's not mean but it's telling the truth.
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talk to them more. the more you talk, and share about your life the more friends you will make. people will start to realize that you aren't like what they think and you will get to become a person you feel more confortable being
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