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Should I make a move? Or is he not thinking straight?
Sheesh...It's just been a romantic emotional roller coster for me! A guy I am completely smitten with unintentionally broke my heart by going after another girl...it didn't work out so well. It's been about 3 or 4 weeks since then. I think *Maybe* he likes me now? I dunno...Maybe he just see's me as a good friend...he is allways near me the most at get togethers, or in class, he allways sits next to me. I am perfectly aware that he may just be comfortable around me in a way that doesn't go any further than friendship...but I dunno...I went and saw a movie with him not too long ago...when we went to say goodbye, I hugged him, and he held onto me for longer than I expected...then he pulled back a little, but kept one of his arms wrapped all the way around my waist...he held me pretty close to his face and kinda looked into my eyes...heh...maybe I shoulda kissed him? I dunno. If he IS interested in me now for some reason, I'm afraid he may be confused or just not thinking straight because of his recent failed attempt at a relationship...Well, I should tell any readers now that I am going to make damn sure that if he asks me out, that he's really ready for it, and I'm going to make sure he isn't just trying to make this other girl jealous...(BTW, this girl he liked wasn't there with us when we went to the movies...)
So, tell me what you think...in the meantime, I'm just crossing my fingers...
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you should talk to him, and i bet you've heard that a million times. but its the best thing to do. he may be confused but if he did that at the movies then it means he's either a really big flirt, or he wants to take it to the next level.
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I know this is going to be semi hard to do because I know that it isnt the easiest thing in the world to do. Just sit him down when no ones is around and talk to him about it. Just come flat out and ask him about it. But make sure he is still comfie. So to speak. Just talk to him. Like my Aunt Lolo always says ambition w/o knowlage is like a boat on dry land.
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My suggestion would be to be proactive and ask him yourself. Dont read too far into his actions, but dont blow them off as insignificant either. If you just sit around waiting for him to ask you out, it may not happen. Be confident, get out there, and do your thing!
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