God is great, but he is also just. He will condem those who do not repent and come to him. He loves everyone and gives opportunity for people to repent of their sins and come to him, but it is then the person's choice to accept him or not.
Without justice in our world, there would be only chaos. Criminals are brought to justice in the natural world and sinners will be brought to justice before God.
Imagine a criminal is in court and the judge orders him to pay a million dollars or spend the rest of his life in jail for the crimes he commited. The criminal doesn't have this kind of money, and falls to his knees before the judge, crying and asking for mercy. The judge has mercy on him, but there is still a million dollars to be paid. The judge asks, "Is there anyone here who will pay this fine?" A person rises up from the crowd and says, "I will, Father." The son then gives everything he has so the criminal can be freed...cleared of all charges. The criminal is no longer a criminal, but a free man and would be a fool to go back to his old ways after being given such a gift.
God's Son Jesus laid down his life for the sinner. Every person is a sinner and every person has the choice to remain in that place or accept Jesus & live.
You said, "He will forgive anyone so they wont be going to hell. Otherwise Im going to hell for being gay." God will forgive this perverse act if you are TRULY sorry and want to change this life style. No sin is out of the forgiveness of God. God wants you to believe him. He has given us the bible, so that we can know him personally.
You are living with the idea that you can have this sinful life and still be okay. That's a lie from satan. It's not okay. This is very serious and I hope you consider carefully what God's Word (the Bible) says. Get yourself a bible and start in the book of John. This will show you what I'm talking about.
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