ok me and my bf have almost been datin foer 3 weeks and my friend hasnt even been dating her bf that long...but i toght her stuff to do with him and how to be sexi and stuff......but for some reason i cant do it with my bf...ive dont it be for but with him i realy want to i just dont no why i cant...could you help me out plz...thanxz
~trisha~
hmmm...you love him very much then...you always freeze up when you love someone...no matter who you are...my only advice is to let him make the move... It will take time but... finally he will start and you will shortly follow...Thanx and keep the fires burning
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i just got a myspace and i need a lot of help
but right now all i want to know is how to upload a picture (pathetic i know) and how to get a layout or backround, my friend is coming over tomorrow to help me out so its not that urgent but if you have any suggestions than i'll take them
I don't really know how to upload a pic but go to google and type" pimp your myspace" and click on any site link you want if you want to see an example go to my mypace add me to your friends Im normally always on...
My Myspace URL is http://www.myspace.com/mysteriousoddessy
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my boyfriend of 4 months confuses me. we've been together for only 4 months, and im normally the slow mover but with him .. i dont know im ready to try stuff that i've never done before, hes the first guy ive 'wanted'. he said he wanted me when we were talking last night, but whenever its the 2 of us hangin out, he never makes any moves .. and i lack the confidence to be the pursuer .. even if hes my boyfriend ..
does anyone have any tips on self confidence? is he just saying that he wants me because he thinks thats what i want to hear? is that why he doesn't make any moves .. boys opinions would be welcome .. and extrmeley helpful as well ...
this is a good Question... Personally I think he is thinking all about you and he is scared...I know Im scared to make a move on girls...Do you guys make out... If so take it a step further...like start to lift up his shirt... or go down on him if thats how far you wanna go...But yeah tell him he's hot tell him how you feel and when he replies kiss her and start makin out... Then take it as far as you want...
Once you get him to the makeout point he will be game for all...Thanx and Keep the fires buring!!!
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hey, yea. actually i just asked my friend, peter. ive known him like my whole life - so i was like oh well i dont care. and i kinda knew he'd say yes. so yea. haha but thanks! :)
No prob... I knew a good friend would say yea... I lovee helping people
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hi okay,. so i really want a date for my 8th grade dance. its coming up [ the 9th ], and im scared no one will ask me. i havent had a date to a dance yet this year, so want one. and i dont really wanna ask a guy. usually id be fine with it, but this time its different. i have a couple guys in mind who are just friends, but one day they could be something more, or have neem something more. any ideas or tips? thanks.
Id be your date... You are one nice and pretty girl... but seriously guys have to be scared to ask because you are gorgeous no doubt about it...and If those guys become men and ask you...ask one of the people you want to go with...there is no shame in that and who knows maybe one your friends will turn out to be your night in shinning armour...Thanx for asking...Keep the fires burning...Peace, beautiful (LOL) ...
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I like this guy and he knows it. We dont know eachother that well. My situation with him is really uncomfrotable because once he found out from my friend he told all his friends and now they stare at me. One of his friends(I swear to god this boy is gay and wants my crush) is ruining every chance that i even had with him. He shouts out "there she is!" "or go say hi" or "Oooohhh" or something equally stupid.Well at first it was cute b/c he would just stand up and smile at me and he was always blushing now its pretty lame cause his friend even got tampons then threw it at my crush and yelled "its from your girlfriend". Now its harder to talk to him he still looks at me but so do all of his friends and it makes me nervous he is never ever alone. If i even come near his one really annoying friend will definately embarass me. What should i do? Also I have no idea what to say to him so if you could give me some tips in case i ever do get him alone.
You will probably never get him alone to start... so what u have to do is just walk right up to him and all of his friends the more that are there the better... If his friends start to make fun of you just tell them off... and in a sweet voice tell him exactly how u feel...Thanx and Keep the Fires burning
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I know I'm anorexic and leaning towards being bulimic too. But that's not my problem(yes I know it's a problem but not the one I'm concerned with right now), but my problem is that I need to tell someone but I don't know how. I'm too afraid of what their reaction will be to tell someone. I asked my friend if she's read my online journal where I talked about it as kind of a hint for her to look at it but I don't think she got it. So should I just ask her to read my journal so that she knows and I don't have to come out and say it? (as you can prob tell...I have confrontation problems) Thanks! I rate high!!
honestly your mom or guidence coulsulor should know by you not a friend... You should tell them...I know it will be hard for your mom to her it but hey whats worse... Your mom sad because your anorexic or your mom sad because your dead... aight peace and tell someone...yOU HAVE TO!!!
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ok so my exboyfriend whent on a trip this weekend and he got drunk and went skinny dipping w/ his friend and her sister and ended up having sex w/ both of them cuz he liked both the girls. he told me because he has some feelings left for me but i cant trust him i know i cant ive been trying to get him to stop drinking for ever and its reasons like this that make me try to get him to stop so he doesnt do anything stupid which he already did. he feels bad about it but he already did it! what can he change now? and i had a really strong feeling the night that it happened that he had done something he would regret. lately ive been missing him and considering taking him back but what do i do now? i odviously cant trust him. please help!!
I think he is dead to you... dont take him back because he already hurt you real bad... Even if he sobbers up i think you should still stay away from him...Find a new boy and good luck...
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Is it true that guys give other guys blowjobs and/or handjobs at sleepovers? I heard that they did so I'm just wondering. If they do, do the guys swallow the cum or spit it out? Thanks!
Well Im not gay so I wounldnt know... I guess at Gay sleepovers... and spitting swallowing is up to person... Thanks for the question peace...
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ok im a 14 year old boy. i am id say about 3/4 done with puberty. the only thing i have yet to confirm about myself is the ability to ejaculate. i have seen porn movies and when guys go off its usually really milkly and white. when i masterbate and i have an orgasm its clear with little or no white. all the amount of sperm that comes out is not alot. is this normal? am i even having an ejaculation of sperm or is this just like a body fluid that my body is letting out? (btw i have yet to have a wet dream)
I had the same problem... It is because you havent ejaculated much or you just have to wait awhile...also once you see your first real naked girl and mess around with her.. you get your hormones raging and I garantee it'll come out white...Thanks for the question.. Peace...
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15/F
So i made a mistake..i have this problem where i can't keep a secret. People (my friends) don't usually realize it until they find that out through experience. I have this really weird cyber-like relationship with my friend who is 3 grades older than me, and now we don't cyber anymore but that's another story. He also has a girlfriend. He told me he was going to break up with her awhile ago and now i don't think he's going to anymore, but my friend stephanie told me she thought they were going to break up so i told her that he told me he was going to break up with his girlfriend. i don't remember exactly what i said, but the other day in passing i guess i told my friend bailey, too. i was kind of nonchalant about it, i mean, most people think they're going to break up anyway. Well, today it kind of backfired on me...when i saw him in school he was being kind of weird, and when i got home i went online and tried to be normal talking to him, but he said he didn't want to talk and never wanted to talk to me ever again. so i'm like oh man..what on earth did i do? (we go through so much crap and things get spread and it's just, not a great cycle..)He said my friends stephanie, bailey, jackie, and harry had ALL told him i told them that he said he was going to break up with his girlfriend. Now, stephanie and harry i don't understand because they are two of my best friends so i think they turned on me. great. jackie and bailey was totally an accident and i dont even remember what i said, jackie said bailey told her and i told bailey..i know this is a ton of "who told who" and i'm sorry. my best friends not answering her cell and i have no one else to talk to at this point. Bascially, the issue is what do i do? he's just angry with me and theres so much behind it but i don't know how to handle what's going on, what with him being so mad at me and my friends apparently casuing it? any advice? thanks!
You need to appologise to him... I am a kid that can keep secrets real good...like steal box tight... I dont think the natzis back in the day could get me to tell... and if you want to know how just dont pay attention and act like what they are saying is not true but keep it in your mind... Dont worry about your friends just keep things to yourself... yeah just apologise and make it up tto him every thing will be okay
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I really like this one guy, but he doesn't know me at all, he just hangs around the same people I do. Alot of girls like him at my school, but he doesn't really go out with many of them because even though they are really pretty their not really smart and all they do is flirt with him whenever they can and I can tell he doesn't like them. I want to get to know him better but I don't want him to think I'm like all the girls who never stop trying to be his girlfriend; because even though I'm really pretty and popular I'm not like them at all, I actually care about my grades and things other than shopping. What should I do?
I think that you should first become his friend and dont flirt with him act like well hard to get... he will get so ticked off that you dont like him like every other girl does and try to get closer to you... I have had girls do that to me and I am a dude that is like in the middle at school and as far as i know not to many girls like me... so I find girls that are not in my school... anyway playing hard to get should work and I will be mystified if it doesnt... Peace and keep the fires burning!!!
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i have a friend and she alwayssss is in love with a new boy everyday, if she has a boyfriend (which she does now and is not going to last very long) shes hooked onto him and sucks up to him . shes always asking me for advice but sometimes i run out of things to say and repeat the same things.. now her and my other guy friend are coming over tomarrow (which she cheated on her bf with him) and i dont know what to do.. like really.. its kind of confusing but i need help ! quick. even if its not today its okay bc i need something to do in the future
Tell her to stop... If she doesnt she will be alone cuz every guy is gonna know not to be near her... Hey if she wants to cheat on this guy with this other dude so let it happened but not on your watch and if you every find out she was wit a boyfriend of yours... Man if it was me sparks would fly... anyway this girl sounds like a dependent slut you need to make her stop...
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so my other problem is theres only 3 days of school left and then summer.. should i just try to get him to hang out with me over the summer ? or call and talk to him ? or..?
O well I think you should try to call him first and if that does work you should get one of your friends that is his friend aswell and let them know whats up then tell that friend to get him someplace at a certain time and all of a sudden "accidentally run into him" get what im sayin... That is all I can think of... Unless both of your parents are friends are they??? if they are you can tell you mom whats goin on and have their family all over for dinner or something and go staight to the subject with him no small talk tell him whats on your mind...Peace and Keep the fires burning
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i hate my dad. its not like one of those days that you just got mad and hate someone. i hate him. my mom knows it. if hes not dead by the time im 18 im willing to pay for a hit man to kill him. my mom knows it. he is so mean to me. he hits me sometimes. i hate it! no one understands. and dont say i should tell because i told my mom and shes waiting for my dad to get some money cause hes sueing these people for hurting his leg. so any advice? ANY THAT DOESNT INCLUDE TELLING ANYONE
well I am sorry but you just have to tell someone... there is nothing you your mom or he can do... You have to get someone to help... like its not even funny your family needs help...That is the only way...
Peace and Dont Kill him tell someone...
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15/f...i went out with this guy ive been best friends with since sixth grade and were now in 9th and so it was a few months and everything was perfect and i just told myself everything was wrong but it wasnt and so i broke up with him for no reason at all i was just like its over.. and so its been about two months and he went out with this other chick and they broke up and now i realize what a big mistake ive made and we were BEST friends we told each other everything and after he wouldnt even look at me and the past week ive been just trying to make small talk and he'll talk to me and he gives me that look like " make it better please" but he doesnt act like that you know?..i want him back so bad i miss him soo much but i dont expect that i just want it to be the way it was before and ..
This one is really a good question... well one of my old girlfiends did the same thing to me and it was not fun i tell you what she did... One day I was sitting there loook ing at her laughing and hugin her you know making her feel good... and well the next day she broke up for no reason... NOT FUN... but I eventaully got over it she first started talking small talk and I told her to get away from me and I went out with another girl just to make her jealous I felt bad and told this new girlfriend what was going on... and she told me straight up to get the hell over it... so she eventually gained my trust and I talk to her just about everyday now and Im about to ask her out...So dont be worried hell get over it... aight peace and keep the fires burning!!!
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hey. ok im like really scared because my parents have already been in a divorce once and i think it's going to happen again. my step-dad smokes pot and my mom is like an alcoholic and always comes home late. he always says that he's moving out and going to get a lawyer but he never really does anything. and like if he moves out then me and my mom have nowhere to go because my dad moved away. and my mom is also like really mean to me. i dont know if she cares where i am or what i do but im just scared where im going to end up, advice?
I think you should first talk to your mom tell her how you feel and if that doesnt work...if things are good between you and your dad you should find him and tell him whats up... if your mom doesnt care where you and what you do then she doesnt derserve you and you should not be there... but however if you and your dad are not close you have to get out of that house because all of what is happening will affect you in later years...aight well peace and cheer up cuz you got alot to live for...
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14/f
Okay well I have this guy friend and...Ok so he’s not just a friend were A LOT closer than that but the prob. is he’s moving away...really far and I know I’m going to be sad and all but also he’s older than I am…not sure if I want to say or not how much so this way people cant be all on my case about it but its not like a bad age diff just something some people wouldn’t like is all. But yea I guess my question is if we should try and keep our "friendship" or just tone it down and be friends…because do long dist things work really? So yea thanks for your help! =)
k sry but first off I am 14 and already know having friends with benifits is not good, and Im a boy... Hey screw what other people say... remember if the say stuff the care about your business even im the hate you... people still care... and who cares what other people say it is about you and him... you definately tone it down and call him when he moves and just talk.. k peace and kepp the fires burning...
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k 14/f hereee
okayyy.. so theres this guy, justin i met at the beginning over the school year, and he had a thing for eachother ever since.. like basically we're in love.. we've been talking for like 9 months.. and i pretty convinced i love him, and i can tell he loves me also.
and well we wanna date and stuff but our school=drama.. i mean when me and justin started talking, so much crap went around. it was crazy.. and if youre wondering why, im 14 and hes 17. but in my case i dont care bout age. but everyone bascially knows we're in love. so everything is cool with people at school.
but my mom, doesnt like him.. although shes never met him, she just thinks he wants sex, but hey i havent slept with him and hes still here, after 9 months. and i told him that i wasnt gonna have sex with him, cuz basically i think im too young, and he totally understands.
But anyway, i had to beg my mom for me to even talk to him.. and she just doesnt understand.
and well me andhim really want to date.
any advice?
thanks, i rate all 5's
but if you say im too young to be in love;
no rating.
I say hey... Date him...the people in school are just well dont listen.. school makes me mad...
Even though I am a boy I been in this Situation.. your just have to find some way to make them two meet... If they get to know each other every thing will be fine... Tell your mom to chill... Hey props to this dude and to you cuz he really likes you if you toldd him no sex and hes still around...Yeah but date him and screw school...Im 14 and no ur not to Young... aight peace and Keep the fires burning!!!
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