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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 9 months on Jan.9th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little sister was home and i didnt want her 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
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*Court~*

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my kid hates me what do i do they are turnin rebelous help!

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I was cleaning out my closet that I havn't cleaned for like a year and a half and I found the $125 gold necklace that my ex-boyfriend gave me last year. I remember throwing it in the closet when i broke up with him-----but now I found it. I don't have any jewelery that fine and I was thinking about wearing the necklace. Who's gonna know? My ex lives in N.Y.C. anyway and i'm like 2 hours north of the city, so I wont see him. Do you think its ok to wear it???

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Ok I have been trying to convince my parents in getting me a cell phone with minutes..not a plan. but they wont let me! how do I convince them into let me get one! I have saved up 100$ to by the phone I want..Tell me if this is or isnt a fair deal w/ my parents they buy the phone which is 150$ and then I pay for all the other stuff like the 40$ minute cards? is that fair or unfair??? please help me I M 14 and I reallllly want one..and I need one too!!!
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how do i take things to the next level without making it to obvious?

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My boyfriend is absolutely the bestest person in the world. I don't love him yet seen as I'm only 14 and we've only been dating now for about a month and 3 days. But still, he always hangs up on me when we get into stupid arguements. He pranked me the other day with his friend, which I knew was him and I asked him about it and he called me a stupidass bitch!! I hung up on him and left a message on his voicemail saying I didn't want to date anymore. But we're still dating. I dont know whats wrong with me. I told him I hate when he says mean things to me and when he hangs up but he still does it. I can't break up with him either because no matter what I do I always tend to run back to him because I think I need him in my life. He means so much to me and I don't want to lose him. This is the longest relationship I've ever had in my life. And I don't know. What should I do?

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Im 15 and have been best friends with a girl in my school, we wnt on holiday together, played netball together, got drunk together for about 3 yrs. Now she starts hangin round with this girl i kinda like but not particularly, somedays she cool and hangs wit me but otha days she goes off with this other girl and just leaves me. I told her i thought she was being unreasonable and things worked out for a while. Now though its all starting again and as its school holidays i never hear from my friend cos shes always with this new freind. It was her birthday (my friend) 3 days ago, i txt her and asked if she was doing anythin for it and she sed she was havin a party, not invitin me, just telling me. So i txt her and sed thanx 4 the invite, she sed wel u r invited. Jus 2 anoy her i said well i cant go anyway and she starts goin on about how i would have made all these xcuses anyway bcos her new freind will b there and i cant handle them two being friends, she ended her text with see you around. I have done so much for her in the past and now she just throws it back in my face. Do you think i should just leave her completely and never tlk again or jus try and b freinds with her, even though she likes her new freind better?

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ok i cant handle being told "I love you" by anyone or like people that just say luv ya chick bye bye because i know theyre lying i mean i always think theyre lying or if someone tells me im beautiful i automatically think theyre lying and i dont know why and everytime guys ask me out i say no because i dont want them to like me or love me or w/e and i dont know why whats wrong with me btw im 14/f if that does anything helpful but im so confused why cant i handle it

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Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out)

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It's those kind of things you only hear about in movies.. I've always been gah gah about my neighbor(who i've known since i was three) named Jared. He gave me my first kiss and he's leaving high school this yr. Which im gonna break down when he's gone! I've told him before i care about him, and he just doesn't want to ruin our friendship, some peole i know think were going to get married after college but the way its going i just can't see it! i mean i would anyday lose my virginity to him, thats how strong my love is for him. (i'm a type a girl who's waiting for marriage usually) Is there ANYTHING i could do to make him see he cares too? Cuz i know he does. Or am i just suppose to let go... plz share your thoughts on my story! Thank you SO much!

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Okay, there is this teacher at school that I feel very close to, she is amazing and helps me all of the time with my problems, i think of her as a mom. I spend all of my study hall time with her because its her free period. I call her at home all of the time and we talk and joke around. I am 16 (17 in feb) and she is 26, i call her by her first name and we are really good "friends". I am going through a rough time with my mom and may be going into foster care, well, she said if that happens i can live with her. AM I weird for being this close to a teacher?

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when me and my bf fool around, it makes me feel so good...the slightest thing he does to me makes me orgasm..this turns him on...ALOT..and im beginning to think that hes using this to his agvantage..i dont really mind cause he deserves it too...im wondering whether or not to take it one step farther and have sex with him... everything else he does to me is wonderful, so why wouldnt sex be??? does anyone know if this is a good idea??

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okay so im a 16/f and ive never had a bf. I dont consider myself ugly or anything, and its not like i cant get a bf..i could if i wanted too..only thing is, when i start liking someone im all flirty and then i find out they like me and i TOTALLY stop liking them, I think im scared of a relationship or something because everytime someone askes me out i think its the biggest thing in the world and i just cant find myself to go out with someone...theres ONE guy that i would say yes to on the dime..which is my best friend in the world, me and him are like getting married one day haha, but yeah, anyone know WHY im like this?! WHY am i scared of having a BF?!?! and How do I stop it, or help myself ? :( helppp please, * i rate everyone a 5*

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ok...i like this guy and we have been friends for awhile and well we talk an awful lot and we both like eachother but i dunno if he likes me the way i like him..whats a girl to do?

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Im addicted to the computer. When ever i get home from wherever i am..i dart to the computer and if i don't get my reading done for school..ill lose computer for like 2 1/2 months! and i know im not gonna get my reading done. So im gonna like die with out computer! Can someone help me get over this? Thanx!

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ok my dad and my mom are divorced and its alwayzZzZ hard havin divorced parents....... expecially when the dad has a girlfriend..... and you know my dad always focusing on her and not much on my sis and me he gives her liek everything in da world and wastes a lot of money on her!!! like i love my dads gf but i just wish hed look at me for a second ya know......liek he thinks im this lil perfect angel and im not and he'd know that if he knew me!!!! what do i do!!!!

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ok.. i dunno what to do. me and my bf well he used to live here, and he moved to florida. and we talk all the time, every free minute he has, we are talking. and, he has been talkin to me bout movin to florida when i graduate this summer. and i dunno what to do. i keep thinkin bout it. but all that comes out of it is negative things. like.. what if he dont wanna b with me no more. b/c i dont have a car or anything and he said he would put me on his insurance, and help me find a job and stuff.. but then it just worries me that he will like a girl that looks better than me. i dunno what to do.. there is alot more but i dont feel like sayin it all

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I am a very shy, quiet person. I guess that you could also say that I am also somewhat of a geek... I kinda live on the computer... but. I have two friends, and don't get me wrong, I love them and appreciate them soooo much! But neither of them go to my church. The kids at my church are very rude and mean to me. They always leave me out. I am the outcast. I hate it! I mean, I am too shy to do anything about it, but I can't stand them just being so rude! I sit by myself, I talk to myself, I am always by myself because they are so mean! They make fun of me and stuff all the time! I don't care what they say, I have learned to let it bounce off. But I still don't have friends at my church. I also dress differently. I am very self conscious, and I can't help it. I dress in non-form fitting clothes, and I don't wear skirts. I don't put myself out there. I don't have a b/f. I do have a lot of family/home problems, that kindof makes me really quiet and insecure. Am I being too shy and quiet? What are some ways to get over being so insecure? Is there a way to get over self consciousness? I have several mental blocks against : guys, men, letting my hair down, form fitting clothes, and large crowds. I know that I can't get over some of it because of my home life. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!! I am so sorry that it was this long, but I had to make myself clear.

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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..

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Okay, this may sound dumb, but im confused.

If you call a suicide hotline, do they call the cops? Especially since you are in danger? I have always wondered this and my councelor at school gave me a list of hotlines because I am always thinking about suicide.

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