Hey everyone! The names Melissa and I'm just dying to help everyone out.
Sometimes i might be brutally honest but that's what people need!
If you need some help or have a question feel free to send me a message I would be more than happy to help!
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: Sales Associate
Age: 21
MSN: missy_meliss@live.com
Member Since: February 18, 2010
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So, I'm a very mellow person, i don't enjoy drama, yet i like dealing with other peoples, thus advicenators. But i like to know random stuff just cause i can, so here's an easy to answer question for all of you people out there. Tell exactly what it is that makes you like that one special person, maybe it'll be an eye opener for some of you. (link)
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His penis
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Ok people... im Female, 13 and im telling you all now that im not crazy... Could i Be a vampire?? I like the taste of blood, have a dark ring around my iris, can see in the dark well, extremely good sense of hearing, can feel peoples energey (can tell if someone is near even when i cant see and can pick up on their emotions or how they're feeling... Its like hummidity sometimes too), Love the dark, have animal like insticts especialy when i go into fight or flight mode, and have fangs..... What do you guys think????? (no im not a cannibal) (link)
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Ok so i have this huge project due at the end of this year and basically what you do is make a movie/slideshow of photos you took but there has to be a story behind it...so i was thinking im gunna do like scary/trippy circus with some sick dubstep i found behind the pictures. But what I'm looking for is like more trippy shots like I already have : "A bearded woman" "One armed girl" "Lizard man""Contortionist" and those girls who fly in the sheets aha i dont know what there called... but I really need somemore....aha I know those don't sound like trippy but they will be ahah in my mind they look better lol ....so some ideas of more of those kind of things would be fab thanks so much!! I need alot because I have to make the video thing like 2-5 min long so anything would be great Thankss! (link)
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Fire breathers and sword swallowers.
Stuff with animals
Or messed up people in cages. Like deformed or midgets or something.
You can have like a crazy beautiful woman with some weird offer on a sign.
Fortune tellers, fucked up clowns, and don't forget the ringmaster.
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is there a place in the world where everybody wants to have sex and is willing to do it anytime? and btw, this is a serious question. I live here in Ottawa, Canada, and the girls are somewhat interested in sex on a normal manner, but is there a country where sex is really important and where people are down all the time to do it? (link)
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Its in my pants.
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I like this boy at my school and we hang out every weekend pretty much and he always flirts with me constantly. I finally got around to telling him that I like him but he said that he just doesn't want a relationship right now. His actions are speaking much louder than those words though. I'm pretty sure that he likes me and I feel like we connect! How can I get him to ask me out already?! By the way I'm 14 going on 15 and a girl:) (link)
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He was honest with you and told you hes not interested. Just back off. Why waste your time on someone who doesnt want a relationship?
Find someone else to spend your time on.
Maybe this guy you like will realize what he lost.
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I live in Sydney, Australia. I've had this feeling for as far back as I can remember that I wasn't living where I should have lived. When I was 4 my parent's moved from Melbourne to Sydney, so for a long time I thought it was just because I wanted to be back there (even though I couldn't remember anything about the place).
But as I got older I started to notice how different I was from everybody else around here. I was really creative, and in High School I felt like my abilities were never able to reach their potential. The school wasn't awful, but it didn't have a lot of resources, and a few not so amazing teachers. But it wasn't just those things, it was the whole vibe of the place. None of the other kids were interested in Arts or Music, or culture at all really.
I had friends and was never picked on, but I still felt outcasted because I didn't want the same things all of the other kids in the school wanted.
Now, I'm in my second year of University. I'm studying literature and creative writing which is absolutely what I want to be doing. And yet... I still get this feeling. I want to travel, move overseas, explore the world and find the place that 'speaks' to me. Is that normal, though? Is it normal to feel like you've just been living in a place you weren't meant to spend the rest of your life in?
I feel like I already know the answer to my questions and that I'm just terrified to go so far away all by myself. I keep thinking about it more and more though, and every day I get more excited, and the plans become ever more possible.
I'm going to try and apply to do an exchange program through my University to study in Canada for half a year. I'm really excited, but still terrified at being alone. I'm even more terrified that I may not be accepted.
I guess what I want to ask is if anyone else has ever wanted, more than anything, to move away. Just because you feel like you're not where you're meant to be. And maybe if it's crazy to pack up all of my things after I finish my degree and move to another country for a year or so? (link)
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Just Go. Your never going to know if its what you truly want unless you DO it.
Finish your degree, apply for the exchange program. Even if you dont get accepted, look for something else to do! Dont give up on something that is so obviously calling you.
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who is my love life?
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How should we know?
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i was thinking of getting him a throw blanket of his favorite sports team, a pillow for the college hes going to, and i want to make him somethhing for him. he wrote like the story of us for valentines day and i absolutely loved it because it was basically a time line of our relationship. i want to do something along those lines, but every idea i come up with is either really similar, not personal enough, or too corny. i need to come up with something from the heart that shows how much i love him. we dont have a lot of pictures :/ open to any ideas. and what do you think about the blanket and pillow? thanks! (link)
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Get a small box and fill it up with scraps of paper. Write something you love about him on each one, or a special memory or date. Little things he does every day, or the big things he's done to make you feel special. Basically anything you love about him
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I used to have good luck with the ladies and now I don't since I gained about 45 lbs. I think I have gotten funnier since then though but it doesnt seem to make a difference. I am a 22yr old male 6'1 225 lbs and heavily tattooed. Am I too fat or is it in my head? (link)
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Lose the weight and see what happens. Honestly I'm attracted too tattoos but not guys that are heavy. It might be in your head and it might not. Only way you'll find out is lose the weight or turn it into muscle
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Theres this one spoiled biznatch in my class who text all the time, and she looks lilke miss queen B when she is texting, and it bothers me.
What do i do (link)
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Ignore it? Its not any of your buisness anyways. You obviously are an immature child if your so concerned about what somebody else is doing.
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why do we use soaps
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To keep cleans
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I'm nearing the end of my first year of a Politics degree at a UK university. I've been pretty miserable the whole time I've been here for various reasons - I'm not enjoying the course, my flatmates are awful, I'm very lonely and I miss home badly.
Now I'm seriously considering dropping out, going home and getting a job. I've weighed up the pros/cons of both staying at university and leaving but either way it seems I get a bad deal. I can either spend another two years completing my degree and being miserable or I can go home and accept I will struggle to find a 'good' job.
The truth is, if someone said to me I could go home tomorrow and have a decent job ready and waiting for me then I'd go in a heartbeat. Deep down I know I would be happier at home but I'm scared of ruining my future prospects.
What should I do? (link)
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Lets cut the crap. Its 2-4 years of your life depending on your major. In the states its a bit more. Yeah it sucks right now, and yes that does seem like quite a bit of time, but in 40 years when your 60 years old and comfortably retired your going to be grateful you stuck it out and stayed in school. Your other option? Go home, get a job, and work until the day you die. Is that honestly how you want to end up? Its school. No one said its going to be easy, and it wasn't designed to be fun. Find some new room mates, take a course along with your major that actually interests you and suck it up. You'll be grateful you did in the long run
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so my boyfriend of over seven months just broke up with me. He's 15 and im 16/f (almost 17 in a couple days.. thats right. he broke up with me a week before my birthday). MANY times before i wanted to break up with him. i distinctly remember 4 times and he was so scared and begged me not to, so i stayed with him and tried to work it out. He ended up treating me like a princess last week and i was happy and fine, everything was good,and then he dumps me. He said he was just tired of fighting (because we fought alot that week.) i asked him to give me a week,and if he still felt the same way by then, i would do what he wanted. well he gave it over night and then broke up with me through a text message in my firt period class. he said he just wanted to be with his friends and be single...i guess so he could flirt with other girls and keep his options open(he wasnt the type to cheat and leave me for someone.) he was like "maybe we should break up and get back together later" he just put me on the shelf so he can come back to me later. well i dont want him back. its been hard on me. i just want to know he cares, but i havent contacted him or talked to him at all since, which its only been like 4 days but still.. anyways, what i want is for him to come back and miss me like crazy that way i can say 'im sorry, you're the one that broke up with me. i dont think that i can go out with you again.' he gave up the only girl that would go out with his sorry butt for that long, because honestly he was an ass. so on facebook, i deleted everything.. all the pictures and stuff. now idk what to put as my status. im not going to put something sad because im NOT going to let him know that i miss him. i want him to wonder what im doing. so please help me think of some stuff to put as my status thatll make him wonder what im up to. ANYTHING will be helpful. i know it seems like a stupid and insignificant thing that ask, but Im in desperate need of this lol. Will Rate. (link)
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Don't mention a HIM.
Just put "cant wait for tonight!!!"
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"Omg today was awesome!"
Make it vague and nothing specific about a dude at all cause then u'll look like a slor!
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So I almost feel guilty that I don't feel guilty about cheating... i've been in a relationship with a guy for like 8 months and i've had sex with two other guys. Why don't I feel guilty about this, and how can I make myself feel guilty about it. I really like the guy i've been seeing and he's a great guy but the sex is not as great. I'm not looking for your judgement, so if you're gonna post that I'm a heartless slut or something you can just save it. I know what I'm doing is wrong I just don't know how to be better. 19/f (link)
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You wouldnt be thinking about it so much if you didnt really feel guilty. You know that what your doing is wrong. Break up with him.
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Does anyone know where i could get some cute white or pink rayband sunglasses? I don't want to order them online, I was hoping I could get them at a popular store that would be at any mall.
Thanks! (link)
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Sunglass hut. Or any eyeglass place in the mall. Like lenscrafters or Pearl vision for example.
Also its spelled ray bans.
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Hi! A follow up question to my previous queries (under the same subject title). The guy didn't call (after my "umbrella msg"). I sent a text asking him to go to a movie since I had to be in his town for another reason and indicated if he were most comfortable making it a platonic outing, I would be ok with that as well. He never responded in any way and I have not heard from him in the ensuing question. Although a lack of response seems a bit rude, I still have positive interest in this guy. I am hearing loud and clear he's not that into me. Would it be ok to check in with him in a 2 or 3
of months and either 1) explore what went wrong or 2) ask him out again.
Perhaps I should mention that I had gained ALOT of weight between our initial aquaintenceship and the "reunion" meeting and I wonder if that is part of what went wrong ( I have been losing weight over past 8 weeks and expect to continue losing 10-13 lbs per month. Also I am considering contacting him again in the future because I am interested/attracted to him in a way that is quite uncommon for me. It's happened 2 times in past 11 years. (link)
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I think you should let it go. Hes obviously not interested in any way
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okay, tomorrow im going to black light party at a bar and i have white shorts that i wanna wear. the shorts are cloth like cheerleadin shorts kinda but thicker, but im trying to figure out what color underwear to wear with them lol. i dont want anything too dark that'll show up under normal light, but cant have anything that'll glow through the shorts in a black light. i dont have white or nude underwear. i only have nright yellow, pink, red, teal, or lavender. i'm leaning towards the lavender but i feel like thats gonna glow really bright under the black light. do you think it'd be bright enough to glow through the shorts? i just dont want to look like an idiot hah (link)
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Go buy nude underwear
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I have a boyfriend of 4 years. Here recently, a couple days before our 4 year which was like a week ago I went on to my boyfriends Facebook, just to randomly check up on him. I go through his messages and come across a conversation that my boyfriend started up. It goes along the lines of " Hey so I just wanted to let you know I had the biggest crush on you back in BCIS class and I thought you were cute" she said aww why didnt you tell me? i feel the same kind of thing. and he mentioned he STILL thinks shes cute and that the vodka helps. Gave his number to her and the next morning puts "even sober I meant all that" After that, I was BEYOND pissed and confronted him about it. He claimed he got drunk with a couple friends and left his Facebook up and his friend talked to a couple people. Obviously I don't believe him and his friend called me up and wanted to make sure he told me he's the one who talked to her and sorry for getting him in trouble and that he thought it was funny at the time. Also, I went ahead and messaged that girl, and of course she didn't respond like I thought. Which makes it seem more supicious. With all that said, I am not sure how to approach this issue. I often bring up I am still upset with him and he continues to deny it all. I feel as though it is never-ending. I don't know if I should either brush it off or end it between us because I don't think I could trust him after seeing that.
Any ideas? (link)
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And this is why I hate Facebook. What gives you the right to dog around on his messages? That's just like if he takes your phone and reads your texts. How pissed would you be if someone did that to you? I mean really.
Let it go. Especially if it's a one time thing. He didn't cheat on you. And honestly, no matter who your involved with they are always going to at least find other people attractive.
Moral of the story: no he shouldn't have messaged her. Yes he's probably lying, but is a Facebook message really worth losing your relationship over?
Also I hope you learned your lesson about snooping, it leads to nothing but trouble.
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ok so i have this cousin and everytime i ask him to hang out with me he says no w/o even considering it but when my other cousin asks him to hang out with her he says yes right away. im not jealous but it bothers me in a way. should i tell him this or keep it to myself and avoid conflict? also is it ok for me feel this way or am i overreacting? please help=) (link)
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This is gonna sound really mean, but maybe he just doesn't like you. Your cousins not friends. He doesn't have to hang out with you. Go hang out with your friends instead of dwelling on him
If you two are very close you should have stated that in your question. Instead of assuming people would know that.
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My boyfriend chats with this other girl while we are talking and I'm not stupid I can see they are talking but he doesn't tell me. It feels like a knife in my stomach and I start shaking so I end up telling him good night and going to bed where I lay awake for hours crying. Now I know that is probably pathetic crying over a guy and all. But this is stupid. Why can't he just be honest with me and TELL me that he is talking to this girl or something. I hate her already. I've already talked to him about it last time when he said I was over reacting and I asked him to PLEASE tell me if he talking to her instead of letting me FIGURE IT OUT. Idk what to say to him today, I'm .... in a very bad mood.... should I avoid him or not... this is so messed up. He loves to say that "well I can be friends with whomever I want" I KNOW THAT OKAY GOD I KNOW!!!! But what if that girl is KILLING ME ON THE INSIDE... geez
ADVICE PEOPLE PLEASE!!!! (link)
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Your boyfriend can be friends with whoever he wants. Lets be honest, its not killing you, your just jealous.
Yes its wrong that he's lying to you or not telling you but from what I can tell your talking to him over a computer. I know that when I'm on my computer I multitask like a mad person. Some people just enjoy holding conversations with multiple people at once. You can't hold it against them, andif it honestly bothers you that much you need to re-evaluate how you look at relationships. Its not healthyto expect your significant other to stop talking to people simply because you don't like them.
I guess what I'm saying is you need to grow up. Or wait to start dating until your more mature.
Or you can always let it go and stop crying about it. Crying doesn't get you anywhere in life.
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