ok so i have this cousin and everytime i ask him to hang out with me he says no w/o even considering it but when my other cousin asks him to hang out with her he says yes right away. im not jealous but it bothers me in a way. should i tell him this or keep it to myself and avoid conflict? also is it ok for me feel this way or am i overreacting? please help=)
lightoftruth923 answered Sunday April 17 2011, 12:02 am: I think it's fine to feel that way. I don't know how close you guys are but I'd just talk to him about it. It's either he just doesn't want to hang out with you or some other reason. I really wouldn't know why but my advice is to just talk to him and see what happens. Good luck! [ lightoftruth923's advice column | Ask lightoftruth923 A Question ]
MissYMelisS answered Saturday April 16 2011, 2:24 pm: This is gonna sound really mean, but maybe he just doesn't like you. Your cousins not friends. He doesn't have to hang out with you. Go hang out with your friends instead of dwelling on him
BestAdvicer answered Saturday April 16 2011, 3:15 am: Well, it seems like he's trying to avoid hanging out with you it's either because you done something to him before ? or he just does not want to hang out with you or even he might really be busy when you're asking him to hang out with you. Maybe your other cousin when she asked him to hang out with her , by chance he wasn't busy and accepted .
So my advice , you try to ask him to hang out with you to dinner or something and if he says no again you ask him why not . [ BestAdvicer's advice column | Ask BestAdvicer A Question ]
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