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no guilt about cheating...
So I almost feel guilty that I don't feel guilty about cheating... i've been in a relationship with a guy for like 8 months and i've had sex with two other guys. Why don't I feel guilty about this, and how can I make myself feel guilty about it. I really like the guy i've been seeing and he's a great guy but the sex is not as great. I'm not looking for your judgement, so if you're gonna post that I'm a heartless slut or something you can just save it. I know what I'm doing is wrong I just don't know how to be better. 19/f
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You wouldnt be thinking about it so much if you didnt really feel guilty. You know that what your doing is wrong. Break up with him.
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The reason why you do not feel guilty is because you do not love the guy. There is something in the relationship you are not happy with. I think you need to sit your boyfriend down. If you are not happy or feel satisfied with the relationship you're in than you should let him know, and maybe cut the strings loose. You can not string him along. It's good for the both of you to be honest. The truth is if you are happy, and you love him and care about him, you would not cheat.
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Why do you need to feel guilty? You're obviously not in love with the guy your with or you would have guilty feelings. What you do need to do, is be honest with him and let him know what you've been doing and how you feel about your sex life. When I was younger, I dated a lot and was honest with most of them, that I wanted to play the field. If I did date someone for more than a few months and I hooked up with another, I let them know and let them decide if they still wanted to be with me. You're still young and will have plenty of opportunities to have a serious relationship. I hope this helps and good luck.
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