I like this boy at my school and we hang out every weekend pretty much and he always flirts with me constantly. I finally got around to telling him that I like him but he said that he just doesn't want a relationship right now. His actions are speaking much louder than those words though. I'm pretty sure that he likes me and I feel like we connect! How can I get him to ask me out already?! By the way I'm 14 going on 15 and a girl:)
hoji answered Tuesday May 10 2011, 9:53 pm: Hope for the best, plan for the worst...
You don't get him to ask you out unless you flash your boobs or something equally shallow.
Just hang out... if you have talked to him a little and know one or two of his interests, talk about it and expand from there. If he likes frogs ask him to meet up at a pond with frogs in and allow him to lead you through the experience.
MissYMelisS answered Tuesday May 10 2011, 9:59 am: He was honest with you and told you hes not interested. Just back off. Why waste your time on someone who doesnt want a relationship?
xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Tuesday May 10 2011, 7:32 am: He says he doesn't want a relationship, and I believe him. He might be flirting with you and leading you on because it feels nice to flirt with someone, to have someone's attention, to know someone likes you... etc.
I think the only way anything is going to happen is if you ask HIM out. And it's the 21st Century, girls are allowed to ask boys out! But, be aware that he has already told you he doesn't want to be in a relationship, so expect that he may reject you. [ xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx's advice column | Ask xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx A Question ]
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