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Member Since: August 25, 2005
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Hi, I am 24, I have a fiance who I love but had a girl friend before i get engaged who I had thought to get married to and me and her stayed nearly for 5 years in serious relaitionship but then because of her attitude anf family presure I left her but the thing is that I still feel love for her and I am now so confused what to do! I mean my old girlfriend still wants to marry me but then I am also engaged now and my fiance and my family are so eager to me get married soon with my fiance and they are very happy of this thing! so what to do though my family never liked my old girl friend! who should I love and who should I get married to? I am just too broke and confused. (link)
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hi..
You are in a bit of a mess!!!
First of all you need to think about what you want but at the same time it might not be the same thing as what your family wants. You have the responsibility of three people: your first girlfriend, your family and your current fiance so the overall decision is going effect all of these people who are apart of your life.
I am assuming that your girlfriend and your family are of different background and culture. This will make all the difference to what you decide for your fate. 5 years is a longtime to spend in a relationship almost as long as most marriages and if you are still CONFUSED! and are not sure about your relationship then maybe your not all that in love as you think??
Your family who you have a strong and close relationship with you, is I take it have a strong hold on you?? if they are unhappy and this matters to you, obviously they will influence your decision also the current fiance who is probably looking forward to a new and happy life with you has the right not to have to share you with anyone else, you need to realise marriage is a big commitment and it is for life. Are you ready for this?? You have the responsibility to be honest and faithful to her its only fair, three's a crowd!
Most of all if you really, really love this girlfriend and want to spend the rest of your life with her, then you need to be honest to your family about it but you also face the obstacle knowing that your family wont approve, so you need to be prepared if they decide to disown you. Question the girlfiend's attitude and intentions towards you and your family. Is she aware of what you are going through, because you have a lot to loose. At the end of the day, you need to decide what will make you happy, its your life not your familys!!! So the decsion is yours my friend!! Good Luck
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Ok, so there's this guy I've went out with twice for only a few weeks. The first time we went out, he dumped me after a week. The next time, I dumped him because he was acting weird around me.and i totally regret doing it. He's ALWAYS on my mind. He calls me occasionally.. and we talk online whenever he's on. I can never get him out of my head. Other guys are soo easy to get over but this one is so hard to. what should I do?! (link)
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you need to seriously ask your self that, is this guy worth your time? if so, then talk him, you only known him for a couple weeks so get to know him..
have you tried to explain to him how you feel?
if you do talk to him and he doesnt seem interested then move on!! at least you know his true colours and wont be wasting your time on him!!!
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Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first? (link)
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no its not okay.
once you tell your child thats it ok to hit someone back, they begin to think it's ok to do other stuff like stealing and lying..
what if your child turns into a bully? because its ok to hit someone?
but i wouldnt advise you to tell your child its ok, you need to tell your child that if someone hits you, you should tell an adult or the teacher. if you would like some more advice about this, i suggest you go on this website it should be helpful to you..
http://ideabox.debatenation.com/showthread.php?p=116478#post116478
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Ok,you see, there is this guy thatI really like
and he knows it and he told me that he liked me...he is really sweet to me and if i'm having
a bad day then hr will try anything to make me feel better.But the problem is that he has a
girlfriend and i'm like madly in love with this guy and i dont no wat 2 do!?!?!? (link)
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it seems to me that you have misread this guy.
he probably likes you but as a friend, before you start jumping to conclusions number 1 he has a girlfriend and number 2 the reasons that he's always sweet and nice is because your friends, thats what friends do, help one another.
i guess you are going to have to control your feelings. either you want to tell him that your madly in love or you cant be friends anymore, but just remember he has a girlfriend dnt you really think that he wants to jepordise his realtionship? dont worry there'd plenty of other guys out there, i'm sure you'll move on... just think before you do anything..
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what happends when my best friend gets a lil too close to my boyfriend??! i mean they are always talkin! and my boyfriend always has ta talk everything through with mah bestfriend b4 he talks to me about it!! uuh its soo annoying! how can i get rid of that?? (link)
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look nothing should really happen between your boyfriend and best friend.
if she's really your best friend, she wouldn't do anything to hurt you. end of the day its you who hes coming back to not her, yea he seems good friends with her but it's you that he wants to be with not her.
if you really feel like its tearing you up, i suggest you speak to your boyfriend and friend about this because if you dont it will only eat you up!!
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what are some good sad songs and artists to listen. kinds that you want to listen to when your really down and just need a good cry. (link)
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i know a couple of friends that listen to some nice sad songs.
they usuallly listen to 112 slip away, aaliyah i care for you, toni braxton un break my heart, destinys child emotions and alica keys if i aint got you. they should help to set the mood for crying
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Fellow atheists: I have a friend who is a militant Christian, meaning, she thinks it's her job to convert everyone who isn't Christian into one, including me. She knows I'm atheist, but it really bothers me when she tells me that I'm going to hell for not believing in Christian ways. I've told her many times that I don't believe in a god, afterlife, or book of worship. Yet, she still has the nerve to constantly bring up "god" and how I NEED to be a Christian. Other than that, she's cool. Are there any ideas on how to get through to her that I really don't want her help when it comes to religion? I'm going to snap if she comments to me one more time. (link)
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well your right you do have a point..
the next time she says anything to you about it just turn around and say 'look you wouldnt like it if i constantly asked you to change into a another religion, would you?' that should make her think for next time she opnes her mouth.
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ok so i have this friend that i know loves me like a sister but doesnt act like it. when were always talking, she blows things out of porportion. and i feel bad b/c sometimes i make it seem like i'm mad at her even though i am but i dont want it to seem like that. it really sucks because shes a sister i never had and i dont want it to be like this. i'm so sick and tired of her doing the things she does and it sucks! ugh...! help
♥ much
CRaZy OuT Of MY MinD (link)
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just remind yourself why both of you are friends?
remember all the good times you had with her and try to forget the bad times. now think, do you really want to lose someone who you really care about?
just talk to her and tell her how you are feeling, if she's like your sister like you said she is then im sure she'll understand.
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ok this girl likes me. and i like her. but im in 9th and she is in 7th. is that kool ? should i go out with her. also she is hot lol all myu friends thing she is hot 2. (link)
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well if you like her then the age shouldnt matter. it doesnt matter what people think as along you are happy thats all that really matters no one else should come into it
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Hey im going into the 8th grade and i like this kid and i never met him and i heard that he liked me before but i dont know him and im scared of talking to him i liked him since last year but the thing is hes popular and im not a geek or a popular person im just a normal person u know and i dont know what to do should i just leave it alone and go find someone i know? please help!! (link)
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when you see him just say hi.. im sure he'll like it that you have made the first move, just go with your gut feeling and have lots of confidence in you, you cant go wrong!!
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Hey, i need some help! I have some acne on my forhead and a little bit less on my cheeks and some on my nose! I've tried about everything! And clearasil and clean 'n' clear are one of the most that are the worst! What could help me? (link)
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first of all start off by cutting down on the junk like chocolates, fizzy drinks, burgers e.t.c because they are not doing your skin any favours. start by drinking plenty of water, cut down on late nights and just use water on your face instead of soaps.especially cold water as the coldness freezes the bacteria on the spot which makes the spots to disappear.
if you like to know more about this, i suggest that you go to see your doctor about it.
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He's just beginning to become a friend, and I find him as attractive and magnetic as most others always seem to, but I doubt his motives. It sometimes seems that all he truly cares about, deep down, is his own little world, and the roles he makes those in his life play. Am I just an amusement? I don't think he'll ever let anyone too close to him, I think it's very rarely that he tells me anything true. But something about him is friendly and safe, and at times I feel like he's not trying to fool me at all. He's done nothing wrong. What kind of person is this? Should I steer clear or ignore my gut feeling? (link)
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always trust your gut feeling you cant go wrong there. get to know him a little more before making a decision. talk to him, find out stuff about him. it could be that the guy is probably shy. maybe he doesnt know how to express his feelings towards you so he feels the need to suss you out before telling you how he feels how about you. no guy likes to get rejected by a girl so it could be that he is scared of that.
if you want to really know the truth about him, go up to him and ask. whats the worse that can happen? just go with the flow...
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(13//f) ok well i have had my period before and yesterday i got it and i was bleeding like a ton. usually when i first get it, i only bleed a little and it is dark brown. but yesterday it was blood and a lot of it! and i ran out of pads so i put a tampon in and when i went to the bathroom an hour later there wsas blood all over my pantilyner ( i always wear them when i wear a tompon) so i took the tampon out and i didnt even have to like pull! it was sooo full of blood! is this normal? i know that it could have been my heavy day but normally they arent that bloody! and now it is just as bloody as yesterday!...is this normal??
please help ASAP!!!!!!!!!!
sorry, it was long...
thanks!! (link)
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well theres no need to get worried, its perfectly normal. the blood tends to start heavier during the first dew days of your period and will get less as the cycle begins to finish. but if you like to get more advice about it visit your doctor.
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okayy ! well i went out with this boy for almost 3 months and he was short .. and he knew it.. well we had an argument like a niqht before we broke up cause i didnt see him for like 3 weeks then if we didnt hang out today (the day of the argument) i wouldnt get to see him for another week .. soo anyway .. i got mad cause he wouldnt hang out with me ( am i right about getting mad ?) and i made steph my friend talk to him .. but i was sittinq on the floor rockiinq back and forth and then i was whisperinq i can do better i need to dump him because he treats me like ass.. but anyway then he heard and got mad so i forgave him about not hangin out but he didnt really forgive me but i talked to him the nxt day when i was babysittinq and then he said that he was ten like messinq around and i was like suuureee ..and he goes why do you think im soo short .. i said i dunno maybe you have growinq problems then he said what do u tell your friends you go out with someone whose short and i said nahh i say i go out with a short kid & he got mad and hung up so i called him back and he said dont fucking call me again bitch ! so i didnt...
what should i do .. oh yeah by the way im 14 and a Female (link)
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has it ever occured to you that maybe he acts in this certain way beacuse of his height? it seems to me that he has low self-esteam and confidence in himself. im guessing you are taller than him, maybe he feels embrassed that your taller than him. guys like to feel that they can protect their women maybe he feels like he cant because of his height.
have the both of you sat and talked about your problems with each other?
if you really like this guy and want to make things work, i suggest you tell him how you really feel about him and resure him that your not bothered about his height and that you like him for who he is and that height doesn't come into it.
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Hey Everyone..k i have a really weird problem..i can not do a push up. any tips? maybe im not doing it correctly or something? ive tried but like just one pushup takes so much effort, and i can barely do one! please help! thanks! (link)
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maybe is due to the fact theres not enough calcium in your body which causes to weaken your bones, but if you start by eating diary foods e.g milk,cheese,yogurt that should help. Or your body is not use to the pressure is going through, start by doing exercises daily and that should make your body use to the pressure and weight.
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