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okayy ! well i went out with this boy for almost 3 months and he was short .. and he knew it.. well we had an argument like a niqht before we broke up cause i didnt see him for like 3 weeks then if we didnt hang out today (the day of the argument) i wouldnt get to see him for another week .. soo anyway .. i got mad cause he wouldnt hang out with me ( am i right about getting mad ?) and i made steph my friend talk to him .. but i was sittinq on the floor rockiinq back and forth and then i was whisperinq i can do better i need to dump him because he treats me like ass.. but anyway then he heard and got mad so i forgave him about not hangin out but he didnt really forgive me but i talked to him the nxt day when i was babysittinq and then he said that he was ten like messinq around and i was like suuureee ..and he goes why do you think im soo short .. i said i dunno maybe you have growinq problems then he said what do u tell your friends you go out with someone whose short and i said nahh i say i go out with a short kid & he got mad and hung up so i called him back and he said dont fucking call me again bitch ! so i didnt...
what should i do .. oh yeah by the way im 14 and a Female
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has it ever occured to you that maybe he acts in this certain way beacuse of his height? it seems to me that he has low self-esteam and confidence in himself. im guessing you are taller than him, maybe he feels embrassed that your taller than him. guys like to feel that they can protect their women maybe he feels like he cant because of his height.
have the both of you sat and talked about your problems with each other?
if you really like this guy and want to make things work, i suggest you tell him how you really feel about him and resure him that your not bothered about his height and that you like him for who he is and that height doesn't come into it.
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you should break up with him. it's probably for the best. i mean from the looks of things you guys get in a lot of arguements. who knows maybe you'll dump him and he'll decided he acted like a jerk and want you back.
hope i helped
Ashley<3
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Hey,
Wow this guy totally isn't worth it.. hes totally taking advantage of you because he knows you like him alot. If he really liked you he definitly wouldn't say that shit to you on the phone..but i suppose that he's confident enough that you'll crawl right back to him.. so he can act like a totall ass to you.
And you're right for being mad at him.. he seems like a little (literally?) jerk..
kick him to the curb.. you might have heart break for a little while, but you'll get over him soon enough.. dont let him play around with you anymore!
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Get yourself a new boyfriend, and try to be picky this time. No shorties, because short people often times have short tempers. Next make sure this guy is in your grade, its very possible this guy was actually ten, but you can't be sure. Finally, make sure this new guy is in some way within close proximity to you. Normally, I don't approve of dating unless one of the people involved can drive or has some form of public transportation. Good luck, hope this helped.
-The Knight Owl
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hmm..that's an interesting situation. if you truly like him try talking to him again. if you aren't so sure i'd try to move on. i know saying it is easier than doing it, but he doesn't seem like the best guy to be with. i'm not totally sure what he meant by the "i'm 10" thing, if he was kidding it wasn't that funny of a joke, plus he should be honest with you. if he's going to be mad about the argument let him. you did try talking to him and he still seems mad about it. if you really like him give him one more try, but if not let it go. i mean he shouldn't ever call you a bitch, and you can do alot better. there's a lot of guys out there that can treat you good.
-hope that helped!♥
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huh?
that is sooooo confusing.
but if you like him then who cares if hes short?
just appologise for the argument on the fone about him being short it sounds like he was really upset by what you called him which is kinda a good sign cos if he was hurt then it meant he was upset by it. trust me this is just a silly little argument. if you really wanted to be with him his height wont matter at all. just sit down calmly and apoligise to each other and sort stuff out!
hope i helped xoxoxo (rate me :D)
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Hey,
wow you got yourself into a crazy mess. My name is Althea and Im a 15 female and Im currently dating a guy that I havent seen in almost 3 months! We actually dont live that far from eachother but whenever we try to get together something comes up. So I really understand what your going through because not seeing the person your with can create a lot problems.
First off, when you were mad at him in the begining you forgave him because he got mad at you. That was a bad choice. I think the problem you two are having is communication. I know that it sounds weird and queer, but you have talk to him and tell him how you feel. If you were mad about not seeing him you have to say to him "look, it really frustrates me that you didn't want to see me after I hadn't seen you in 3 weeks. You have to understand why I was mad about that" but at the same time, you have to understand his point of view: "Im sorry about what I said before I didn't mean it, I was just frustrated."
Since you aren't talking right now I would trying calling him and talking to him about things, if he doesnt put it any effort and just says "fuck it" then you should do the same. Because an asshole that won't give you time to talk and won't put any effort into the relationship is NOT worth your time. Maybe when he sees that he can't have you when he treats you the wrong way he'll realise that he's missing out.
If he does put in the effort to at least talk, recognise that he is trying, which is a really good thing and thank him for that.
When it comes to him being short, you have to respect that he obviously is insecure and instead of saying I have short boyfriend or your so short say I have an amazing boyfriend who I love and compliment him on the things about him that your attracted to like, "your hair is amazing" that will help him get over his insecurites.
Well, I really hope this helps and please feel free to ask me questions anytime!
- Althea, the sexy beast.
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