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whats the best band merchandise site
i used to buy shirts off this one great site, but i dont remember what it was called

im looking for shirts from bands like senses fail, the scene aesthetic, norma jean, fall of troy, a change of pace etc.

Try
Hot Topic - http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/index.jsp

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ok soo.
me and this guy, Allen, have been i guess "talking" for about a week or so.
and we are ALWAYS together at school.
like, after every single class he waits on me.
and we always write each other notes and stuff.
and he comes up my house all the time and we go to the movies, or go eat or something.
he's told me he lkes me, and he knows i like him. and he calls me like everyday.
but he wont ask me out..... ?
it's killing me. lol

why wont he?

btw, hes a senior. im a freshman.
is that why?

Some boys arent really always caught up on asking a girl out. By him always walking you from class, and going out to the movies... calling and everything, I think that says a lot already! Just go with the flow! Dont try to rush things with him.. you gotta give guys their time!

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I really hate saying this and even admitting to myself that I have feelings with the same sex as me...a girl..not really a girl but a boyish one. Maybe i started to like her because she's really a caring person and is sensitive to other's feelings. When we talk, I feel as if my problems would go away and feel alighted. But then the problem is aside from the gender, she does have a relationship with another girl. I don't know when she think that i might have feelings for her but she did at one time. When she somewhat think, she showered me with many attention..but I think with my head than my heart, I know it's wrong so I kind of avoided her. When she talks to me, I don't have the same enthusiasm as before. By what I did she maybe realize that she "mistakenly" interpret my feelings. There was a time I really avoided her. but when she was absent I had a tantrum and I miss her. This is wrong I know it. That's why I wish people could help me on what should I do..I think avoiding is not a solution. Saying it either is a big mistake.

first off... I personally dont think its a wrong thing at all. Who are other ppl to tell u that its wrong to feel some type of way for a person. I dont think that you should avoid her, it would just make things harder the next time you see her. Tell her how you feel... everything has to start there. Its going to be hard to start off.. but youll feel better at the end.

Email me sometime if you wanna talk about it!

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I think I am fat. I weigh about 116-120 pounds and am about 5"4. Is this overweight?
I don't have like ANY time at all to exercize, I do lose weight, but than I end up gaining it all back on. I can't wake up an hour earlier in the morning because I am already tired as is. I am busy like ALL the time. Does anyone have any way I could lose weight quickly, and wouln't take much time out of my schedual?

To tell you the truth it is all in your head. No-one with those measurements is considered fat. I would kill to get down to that size, altho its harder bc im taller.

But if your still convinced you want to lose weight, do it the right and healthy way. Find the time to exercise. Walk instead of ride, bring healthy snacks w/ u insted of buying junk food out, and when you are eating at home.. cook healthy foods.. not fatty and oily foods. I think thats about it since you dont have time to really get a workout in!

Take Care!

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hey guys i think i might be bipolar.. i know what it is but can some one explain it to me more and what can you do about it

thanks

♥ thanks

I dont know to much about this Disorder... so I did a little research for ya! Just copy and Paste!!

http://www.webmd.com/hw/bipolar_disorder/ty6917.asp

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/102/106775.htm

These two should have everything you need to know for now!

Hope I helped!
Destiny*

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okay i have an ipod mini but i wanna download a program that gives you the songs for free but doesnt ruin your computerr like no viruses and stuff
will rate 5s

I have an Ipod also, and I use Limewire. I have heard diff people say that they have gotten viruses and all, but I have had it for about 2 1/2 years and i've NEVER gotten a virus or anything from it!

Hope I helped!
Destiny*

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I heard that they stopped making ipod mini's is that true?? If not where can you get them i looked at best buy, wal*mart and radio shack.

Yeah.. me and my friends were talking about that today. They are discontinued. But you can still find their accesories in stores. And im sure they still sell the Ipod Minis on Ebay

Destiny*

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What is a 'hard drive' MP3 player? Is it different to a normal one? Will it need a faster PC or one with more memory?
I have a Windows '98 PC. Do you think I'll be able to find many MP3 players compatible with that?

A hard drive mp3 player is just an MP3 player that doesnt involve a mini disc.. a mini disc is just a really smll version of a reg CD. Mostly all of the mp3 players now-a-days are hard drive.. which just means the music goes directly on it. You dont need a fater PC or anything to use them :) and yes.. there are mp3 players with a hard drive that are still compatible with Windows 98 :)Your ready to go!!

Hope I helped!
Destiny

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Hi,
Well can some one tell me some good song I've been listening to the same old one forever and I need some new one.

I will give you some of my new favorites!

Mariah Carey=It's Like That, We Belong Together, Shke it Off, and Dont forget about us

Pharell= You got it like that

Alicia Keys= Unbreakable

Hope I helped!!!

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my mom is gay and now im startign to tell my friends and they like me for who i am not what my mom is or isnt but now there is a nasty girl across the street and i guess she saw my mom and her girlfriend kissing and now shes telling everyone and its not sucha great way to start off my summer.should i really care what other people are going to say do you think its gonna ruin my years coming in school if i admit to everyoner that my mother is a lesbian?

Its going to be a hard thing for some people to handle, but dont worry about them. This girl is just ignorant. You've already told your friends, and they are ok with it...thats all you need!

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i need help!!! i am 14 and i am having a baby and my mom is really strict...should i tell her about it? hide it from her? what do i do!!! help me! i rate high!!!

yes, the best thing for you to do is tell her about it. You know shes going to tell you everything you dont want to hear...but hey! Thats what happens when you have a baby that your not ready for. Just be upfront about everything, and you'll be alright!

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people always say i am outta style and im worried because i really want to fit in what should i do!

Be yourself. Yes, there is such a thing of being out of style, but I wouldn't worry about it if thats your style! Just update your clothes a little, but dont change who you are are wear clothing just to wear them.

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ok there is this kid he wants me dead and i didnt do anything to him!! what should i do? hes nice to eevryone else but not me! i need help! badly!

If he's REALLY making serious threats to kill you, and you think he just might be crazy enough to do it, then I would go tell someone, maybe your parents or something. But if you dont think he's willing to actually go that far with it, figure out what the hell made him so mad. If your sure that you didn't do anything to him, then I woud just leave him alone.

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Hey Im 17 and i have PCOS... I was wondering if there was any tips for someone with PCOS. Maybe things to avoid? or things to remember?

Thanks a lot.

Im not really eduacated on this syndrome, I think the best way for you to find help for this would be to ask your doctor for additional information, or search the web and use it to your advantage!

best of Luck

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i love music but i dont always have to money to buy cds. can you give me some good FREE sites that i can download off of? also can you give me any that wont have spyware? thanks muchly.

I dont like free sites, something always goes wrong and you end up with a virus crashing your whole computer..

But if you still wanna go through with it..try limewire.

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hey im 13 and lately ive been feeling left out. i have a whole group of friends who iused to hang out with but i cant hang out on the weekends anymore because i need to study for school and i also have something going on. even though i cant hang out really ive been feeling left out, my friends wont talk to me, and the only chance i can hang out with them they always have plans. ive been also trying to hook up with my friends ex so do you think its that they dont wanna be friends with me or what

First off.. I dont think that you should be trying to hook up with your friends ex. DO you think thsta why they aren't talking to you?

If its not, then explain to them that you have a lot of things to do on the weekends, and you have a busy schedule, but you would like to set a day where yall could just hang.

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ok i like my b/f but i never REALLY REALLY liked him okay hes really nice and all its like i like the b/f thing just not the boy....... i mean ther is nothing there n e more well i kinda wanna break it off w/ him but like my friends dont want me 2 and our 1 month aniversary was monday and he bought me diamond earings i no weird 13 year olds wer do we get this money ?! n e way i have 4 classes with him... i wanna break up with him but i dont no if i should b/c i dont wanna make him feel bad and i just dont wanna go o/ w/ him n e more! so should i break it off with him or not and if i do how should i do it?

Try givinbg him a little more time..Its only been a month! Try doing more things together, something like going to the movies, or the arcade or something like that! Boys can be really hard to figure out, but give him a little more time. If you still dont notice any change in your relationship, then I guess you should break it off. :(

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14+f ...all right.. well I dont like hugging people.. i just dont.. like after achieving something amazing.. or saying hello/goodbye... i just HATE giving hugs and try to avoid them.. like.. i dont know.. I think i'm just afraid... is there like something wrong with me??

-Anti-Hug Person

You are perfectly normal! You are just a person that hates hugging people! That is perfectly fine. I have a thing about hugging people to--I also hate it haha. Theres nothing wrong with ya hun!

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Does suicide send you to hell? someone told me it did but i'm not sure.

yes..as far as I know, from what i've been taught..you can go to hell for suicide

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what do u think about a 15 year old grl that likes a guy thats 13 goind on 14?
*needs honest oppinions*

My thing is...I wouldn't want to start a sexual (if thats what your talking about) relationship with someone if I dont think they are going to be old enough and mature enough to handle the responsibilities that might arise if you were to get pregnant or something like that.

I really dont have a problem with age, its more of a maturity factor with me

I hope I answered your question..if not, email me or something if you have anything else!!

Best of luck!

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