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heyness my names Regina im 17 and i live in VA i love jus helping people out and giving advice...soo lol ask me anything and i'll try my best to help!

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Ok, so like omg totally theres this one girl right, and shes all like...in my religion class and stuff, and like omg she has this totally huge obsession with love handles! Her hair brush was one but like like like now she doesnt use it and like wants a new one. Like what should i give her for her to use as like a new love handle?

sincerely,
totally-omg-helpless-like-neeeeds-advice-teen

ps: this girl is like really weird too, she had a thing for a duck

define "love handle"
then get back to me later....

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My 8th grade prom is coming up(towards the end of the school yr.) and its not a problem to find a date for the prom the problem is that i get nervous dancing infront of people i dont know why though. Just to let you'll know i do know how to dance. If anyone has any tips on ways i could get over this please let me know!

aw just get on the dance floor and have some fun! i dont think people are gonna stare and see how well you dance because they'll prolly be too busy dancing so yeah dont worry about the other people just remember to have fun!

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If you download music on limewire how do u put them on a cd from there cause i dont no how and i need 2 no soo


ill give 5's if u anser

what i do is like, 1st i open wmp (windows media player) then on limewire go to the librAry thing with all the songs then go to file then exploRe then look for the song you want to burn on the cd then right click and then press "copy to cd or device" then it'll show up on wmp then go from there'
hope i helped!! xOxO

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hi i think im beginning to have a crush on this boy Michael, Michael is a senior and I am a sophmore, I met Michael last year when my cousin who was a senior last year took me to a party at his house, it was in the winter and very snowy and we drank s we stayed there. everyone was downstairs playing beerpong and i was in his living room tired, about to passout and he sat on the other couch and talked to me, hes just naturally a really nice yet really popular kid. so yeah in school he usually makes eye contact with me but we havent really talked since last feb/march? so i went to the football game with a bunch of people and i saw him on the bus and he was lookin at me ( well i think) and so somehow i had balls today and IMed him saying "nice game last night" and he said "thanks, i still couldnt play though" and i said ohh yeah.. then we didnt talk and i dont want to IM him again, and he obviously knows who i am ( my sn basically says my name) i want him to kind of get the feeling i like him (rmember we dont talk) what should i do when i see him in the halls at school? thankss

talk to him more so that you guys get to know each other better because it seems that you guys dont talk much just look or stare at each other but yeah talk to him more and get to know him say "hey" to him in the halls and hopfully you guys start talking more at school as well as IM hope i helped!

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me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and things have been going great and since i can only see him once a month it has been hard. school has started and so has the girls hitting on him again and his ex tryin to be all over him. but any how for the past 3 days (school started on tusday for him) he has been spend A LOT of time at the mall or at the store doing soemthing. i dont know with who or anything just that when i call he says he will call me back and NEVER does so yesterday i called back and he said 7 words hi i will call you back later.. i was like ok bye and hung up on him yesterday i only talked to him for 30 minutes the day before that to. i am scared that he found soemone else and since i am not around him all the time idk what is happening?? i want to talk to him about it but idk what to say i love him and dont want to loose him.. any advice??

love always,

sad hearted girl

aww that sucks...try seeing him and hanging out with him more...the next time you call him and he says to call you back later, tell him that its important and that you really need to talk to him then tell him how you feel ask him if everythings okay and if he wants to tell you anything and if he asks why tell him because your relationship doesnt feel like it used to and hes always telling you to call him back ask him if theres anything wrong if he doesnt mention any girl but he makes it so obvious that there is one then tell him straight up what you think is going on but dont like, give him the impression that he cant trust you because that'll def. make him mad just mention it if you really really think theres another girl, other than that, its probably because hes busy all the time with school and whatever he does but yeah talk to him fist dont assume unless its really obvious hope i helped! good luck!

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ok, well me and some of my friends are bi. i just found out that one of my friends who i like likes me too. but we dont want anyone to know about us being bi. so we sorta wanna go out but if we were to go out we agreed we wouldnt tell anyone. so we also agreed that we wouldnt be jealous if the other person went out with a guy or got with another girl or something. so my question is should we go out and just keep quiet or shoudl we just stay being friends with benefits?

hmm i think you should stay benefit friends keeping you guys going out on the down-low can be hard to do

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ok so heres the question...

if im too scared to ask my boyfriend if he's been messing around behind my back, should i get one of my guy friends who is like a good friend of him to do some investigating, like secretly and what not? i am scared to ask him cuz i dont want him to think that i dont trust him. i love him to death, but theres always that possibility that he is messing around with other girls. he says that he loves me and that he wouldnt do anything to hurt me..but i have heard that before. i ended up with a broken heart. i have never felt this way about a guy, i feel that i am in love with him and i want it to work out but if he is messing around i want to know cuz i deserve to know. so what should i do?

thats very true you do deserve to know if hes messin around behind your back id say talk to his friends and ask them how he is around other girls but only if you really think somthings going on, if you really think hes cheating on you, because if and when he finds out that youve been talking to his friends about him you have somthing to say, dont just assume hes been messin around youve gotta have a reason to it aight hope i helped! and g/l! xoxo

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okay 7-12 in our school is in highschool.. and im goig in 7th.. and im kinda scared ill get confused and stuff and i wont know where to go (ive been going to this school since 2nd grade but i dont know the highschool that well) please help me and tell me your experinces of your first day of highschool

aww tha 1st day of highschool is yeah nerve wrecking but then it turns out great meeting new people and you could always ask the teachers for any help you'll be fine! g/l xoxo

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ok so my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little while now and i really love him. i had a crush on him for a while before we started to go out. well now he's on vacation and i am missing him like crazy! the place where he's at has girls who are whorish and what not and i want to ask him if he did anything with them while he was there. i dont know how to ask him and i dont know if its a good idea or not. i do trust him 100% but its the girls there that i dont trust. do u think that it would be a good idea to ask him or not? and if u could tell me how or what to ask him? thanks a bunch!!

oh yeah it always sucks when they go out on vaca lol you start to worry a bit lol well hmm i think that maybe you should say somthing about it if its bothering you just dont take it too seriously because he'll prolly get made and start to think that you dont trust him just be like, dont do anything now! like, playfully but in a way that he knows that you really mean it...hope i helped ya out! and g/l! xoxo

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Over the summer I really splurged on sugars and sweets. Im average weight but I can see my summer splurging is coming back in my stomach and my thighs. I'm goin to stop drinking soda and eating sugars and hopefully find time to exercise. But I always think "Oh this wont hurt" or "Ill start tomorow" What can I do to remind myself to stay away from soda's and sugars and excersise everyday ? I'll rate high!!

lol i have the same problem yeah its hard but like i just tell myself that all that sugar and stuff all it does is taste good and that it'll be harder to loose if i keep taking it all in (even tho yeah we need sugar but you know what i mean) but it works for me because i just remind myself that if i cut down and excercise it'll be easier esp. when you do excercise often like 5x a week its way easy and it kinda gets your mind off it all too because youre determinded to keep in shape haha yup so hope i helped ya out!

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my friend hooked up with this guy for the first time yesterday...he walked out of the room laughing 5 minutes after they went in and she locked herself in the bathroom...according to the guy...she didnt know how to french so he left her...is there anything i can tell her to make her feel better or any pointes i can give her...ive tried everything, but shes still devistated and i would like to know if theres anything else i can do....thanks!!!

omg what a jerk tell her that hes not even worth it if he treats your friend that, thats really mean and low and that shouldnt even bother him if he really liked her hopefully that works! hope i helped

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ok... when ever i go on vacations i meet/see really cute guys but im really shy so we barely talk. Then the day to leave comes and i get all emotional about it and i barely even know them. But im really hard on myself over it and i get mad that i didnt get any contact information and stuff. So how do i over come the shyness and get the courage to go talk to them more???

just be cool around them be yourself and have fun! yeah you really should get some numbers or e-mails to keep in touch dont be scared or too shy to ask thers nothin wrong with that you just wanna keep in touch nothin to be shy about...so yeah as i said earlier just have fun dont be shy! hope i helped!

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Hi my name is April 15/f.i have this really nice b/f name ralph he's so cute and very sweet.weve been going out for about a month now.we talk with each other constantly on the internet and on the phone.. but since this week passed by which it became a month now i have this feeling that my b/f is thinking of something but hasn't said anything to me. what if my b/f ask me if i still have feelings for him. and obcourse i do cuz i love him. but most of the time i feel awkward when talking to him i don't know why i just do. most of the time he ask if he's boring me and other things like that. if you were in my position and had a cute and sweet b/f which i think you do or may be not.what would you say if your b/f asked you if you still have feelings for him? and how would the outcome reflect on the behavior of the relationship. thank You for helping. ^_^ April

aw yeah tell him that he doesnt bore you and that he never bores you because you really love him right...and say, of course you still have feelings for him and tell him how much you love him...yeah a month isnt that long the begining maybe kinda awkward but it'll get better yeah thats happened to me before and it wasnt just awkwardness tha whole tyme it became really diff. after a while an it was great we lasted a long tyme soo as long as you guys keep talking and you know how much you love each other it should be just fine!...good luck! and hope i helped!...

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I am 15 and a guy. There is this girl i like and know likes me, but i missed my chance with her a few weeks ago. I know she is still single but i have no means of reaching her and its killing me inside to at least get her screen name. I know i could call her but i am ver self concious on the phone and scared to call her. Is there any adivce you can give me on either how to get up the nerve to call her or just to find an alternative way to contact her? Thanks for the help

hmm i think you should call her up cause it really seems like you like this girl and theres like no other way to contact her...just think to yourself that it'll be fine somtimes dialing the number is the hardest part but then when you start talking and making conversation you realize that it wasnt so bad after all...do you know any of her friends preferably a close friend maybe...well if you do then talk to them about it and maybe they can help out with getting her screen name for you or maybe you guys could set up a time where you can hang out together so that you could meet up with her again and hopefully increse your chances with her but whatever works for you hope i helped ya out...good luck!

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ok well i love my girl so much and i don't want to lose her. but how do i know if she still loves me back or stil have any feelings for me. when we talk she act's some what different. Ok so my question is how do i know that my girl still has feelings for me? thanx in advandce ~Jake~
I'm actually new to this and not sure how this works so can u help me with my problem. thanx again in advandce ~Jake~.

hey aww well like, how different does she get when you guys talk and how long have you guys been going out like im not sure but maybe shes nervous around you but that all depends....if you wanna know if she still has feelings for you id say talk to her about it...you should always be able to talk to your girlfriend especially about these things that bother you like, ask her if theres anthing wrong and tell her how you feel that when you guys talk she seems to act differently but thats just what you think make sure she doesnt take it the wrong way...well hope i helped ya on this one if ya have n e more questions drop anotha...good luck!

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hi, well guys tell me they like me and think im cute but none of them ever ask me out. it's getting kinda frustrating! i just want to know why they wont ask me out on a little date.

oo yeah that is kinda frustratings hmm...have you tried letting them know that youre interested in them? maybe they think you dont like them...like flirt with them or somthing make them know youre available...hope i helped!

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okiedokie..so i have a bf, but i dont like him. i just went out with me for sex. we will call him bob. and now im like totally in love with this other guy..we will call him bill. (lol love the names) well see i was wondering how do i let bob know that i dont wanna be with him but that i wanna be with bill? they know each other and i think there would be tension between them especially if i am around.
please help! thanks so much.

haha yes i love the names but hmm tell bob the truth ...that you wanna break up because you have feelings for someone else or say you wanna start seeing other people and you really shouldnt be with him anyways cause you dont even like him right...but yeah tell him the truth dont lie about anything because that'll just make things worse later on if he asks who it is just be like a friend..good luck! an hope i helped

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um.. my boyfriend wants a lapdance from me.. im all for it but there's one problem.. i've never given one before so i dont really know how.. What do I do?

theres like, no right or wrong way in doing it you just like, do it! haha when you start doing it its acutally kinda fun you wouldnt think about whether youre doing it right or wrong...just like pole dancing just go slow dont do it so fast...its just better that way haha... hope i helped!

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my cuz (5 months older than me, were both 13) is here at my house. she slept over last nite nd is staying the rest of the week! im so happy shes here! last nite we had SO much fun cause we were so hyper nd stuff. but then today we went bowling nd stuff but were bored now! :( wut can we do? were gonna have dinner then make crazy moovs of ourselves being stupid but if that doesnt work out or we get sick of it, ne other ideas? also ideas for the rest of the week? were going to rye play land (amusement park) so dont say that please! by the way, it is 6:30 PM rite now.

thanks so much for reading this! ill rate! always do.

THANKS in advance!

o0o how fun! hmm you could do lots of things! haha go to the mall an sHOP! hahha cant go wrong with shopping lol see movies! go to the pooL! * btw have fun @ tha amusement park! hehe* or the beach! or do something with your friends an like get them ta meet your cousin or somthing and do stuff together or see whos having the next party hehe hope i helped!

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I am in love with this guy. We'll call him Zach. And I like this guy. We'll call him Elijah. Zach's in love with this girl. We'll call her Alli. Alli's in love with this guy and is in a lasting relationship with this guy. We'll call him Joe. Okay, now the problem is Alli has no feelings for Zach and she's told him so. Zach is still hanging on because it is so hard for him to let go. But he knows he has to. And he's told me that when he isn't thinking of her he's thinking of me. I am that girl that he will fall back on and I'm okay with that. But while I'm waiting for him to get over her Elijah really likes me. He wants to be the guy to make me smile. And the more time he spends with girls the more he thinks of me. I like him, but I love Zach. Elijah told me that he will wait as long as he has to but he will not wait if it will jeopardize his well-being. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to lose Zach more. Zach tells me but he would be okay if I went with Elijah. But the problem is that if I get too deep in with Elijah and Zach decides he wants to be with me it will only make it harder to turn Elijah away. What do I do? I will rate all answers.

hmm i think you should go with elijah...zach is like waiting for Alli and when he finally realizes that he cant have her then hes gonna turn to you?! thats kinda wrong...elijah seems sweet and all for waiting for you that shows that he really cares about you and hes not like waiting for someone else then after that hes gonna turn back to you...id be offended if i were you but w/e you think about that then alright...give elijah a chance if zach falls for you while youre with him then thats not your fault you waited for zach and he even let you get with elijah so yeah...hope i helped ya out! and good lucK!

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