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does anyone know of a self tanner that works well and doesn't streak? please help! i need it bad! thanks!
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neutrogena build-a-tan. works the best


how do you use it and what's better a pencil or liquid...?

I have tried a pencil but the tip is rough and you have to push too hard for it to show up at all so I'm confued.

Thanx!

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try using a pencil from avon, they r soft perncils and when i use them i barley touch my eye lid n it goes on dadrk, and if u want to try a new color.. try there voilet its rly cute when you wear it!


my hair is pretty dark so i want to dye my hair to a brown color ..i dont want to use hair products because me and those dont mix well together because everytime i try it doesnt work.. so is there anything i can use? iheard if you put suntan lotion on ur hair it would come out lighter? should i try that? (link)
Use lemon juice when out in the sun it will lighten it and its more naturl then dying it...i never heard or suntan loation but i rly don't see how that would work.. also when u swim in the pool the chlorine will lighten.
Hope i helped


i got this pink dress for my semi [[ more liek 3 shades of pink, light lighter and dark,it has sparkles and diamonds and its a halter ]]..and i dont know whether to wear black shoes or silver (more like light gray..) and i dont know what kind of jewelery to wear.. since its a halter i dont know if i should wear a necklace or anything..please help! x0ox (link)
Wear silver, if u wear black shoes w/ silver jewlery it would look a lil weird so i would wear silver shoes,bracelet and earrings


Makeup/tips for lookin good for a:
Any tips/ suggestions for a girl that is 13 dark skin, black hair, brown eyes and tall[5 10/11]?[not heavy makeup]suggestions (link)
with your skin tone i woyuld use shades of green... not like grass breen.. but like a light pretty green... umm if you sen back you favorite color i could put otogether a look for you if u would like....... let me know asap


Earlier today i went to the orthodontist and got my braces changed and now they are extremely sore and i can't stand it i've taken medicine and everything but it didn't help...I need your advice on how to make them stop!...they hurt so bad ive cried my eyes out over them!..thanks in advance i will rate if thats what you want! (link)
take pain medicine and eat some soup or ice cream whatever u like better!


Hi!
I just got hired to plan a 3-year old's birthday party, and am stuck on games. I already have Simon Says and Red Light Green Light. I also want to do a craft. If it helps, the parents have rented a moonbounce for the event. If possible, I would like to have 1 water game that does NOT soak the kids!! Thanks in advance and I rate!! (link)
i remember when i was little.. if the parent are goin to be there.. you take a tarp and cut a hope in it... hang it up and have the parent or who ever is supervising the party put there face through the hole.. give the kids a bucket on sponges and the throw it at them.. but i might do the for like a 6 yr old.. you could have them play tag.. or have fun and invent a really cool game.. left me know how it works out!


What is a "body wave" in your hair? Is this a perm or is there a way you can get this by using styling products or whatever? (link)
a body wave is like a perm but not as curly... i know b/c y'm related 2 two hairstylist and they tell me alot about it.. ut its basically a perm but not as curly..if you have any other hair and fashion questions feel free to ask!!!




Ok! I am 13 and a girl and my boyfriend is 14. He has a younger brother my age. He wants to keep our... um... love, a secret from almost everyone, expesically his mother and father. Now here's the problem, he said that we have to do that until his 16 when his aloud to date!!! I do truely love him and he loves me. What should I do? I don't want to keep it a secret but he said he'd break up with me if his parents or brother finds out! (P.S. I don't want to hurt him cuz he just broke up with a girl that he was dating for 2 years! She just said we're done and walked away! I don't want to hurt him...) (link)
well.. it depends on how long you have been with him.. i seriously don't think you are "in love with him" and my parents say the same thing..."your not allowed to date till your 16"... the big ordeal.. anyway tell him his parents are in a good mood just be like i really like this girl and i asked her out n she said yes.. to parents dating...is like going in a car with another person to dinner or a movie... but to people who r 13-16 see it as im his girlfriend and hes my boyfriend and we are dating.. but i think to his parents they mean goin somewhere with someone else..i know that was a little confusing but tell him that they shouldn't care if e has a girl friend.. just don't call it dating around them.. you are just boyfriend/girlfriend!

Hope i helped...even though it confusing!!!

Let me know what happens Goodluck!


Hey Heather... it's Kelsey. Can you help me with something? Just please dont mention this to anyone else!!! Hardly anyone else knows!! Except my truest best friends you jill kayla hannah steve (kayla's boyfriend) and jeremy(the one that i like)
okay theres this really hott guy that i like. It's my BEST FRIENDS BROTHER!! he knows i like him alot! i was with him Saturday night and Sunday night. i stayed at his house with his sister. bUT ANYWAYS.... okay.. my friend and her boyfriend were wrestling.. me and (lets call him Skipperdy) well me and skipperdy were wrestling and having all kinds of fun. He'd like lay on me, out his arms around me.. breath on my neck(i thought i was gonna get a hicky) but anyways i didnt. It was really dark in the room. Anything that made light... it was covered. We tickled eachother and we got really close to kissing but didnt. I was like OMG!!! WOW!!! i mean words cant even explain how i was feeling. Then his hands were on my hips and were moving down slowly.. i didnt care.. later he grabbed me.. didnt care.. only becuase we were having so much fun. we were watchign movies together with our friends and things like that. It was the most fun i have ever had with a guy. And he ws the only one (guy) that ever touched me that much. I was so happy to be in his arms. i liked him once before for a while. We held hands alot the alst time.This time he always lays beside me... he lays sideways on his hip and curls his knees under me then i lay on my back and put my legs over his... then he put his hand on my stomach and alittle up my shirt. i thought he was gonna do "something" but then started tickling me again.This happened all night. As u can see i had a lot of FUN!!! It was the best night i have ever had!!
My question is... how do i know if he likes me? i really like him and his sister told him that i do. i didnt care if he knew. I think we're all doing something this weekend too after we get done working. Should i talk to him about it or just ignore it and have MORE fun than saturday night?
Should i talk to him about it or what? i sat with him again at lunch today and i might stay at his house again tonight. and i'll be there this saturday night too. i was supposed to stay last night but i didnt. What should i do?
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yes talk to him asap


is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance! (link)
no thats not bad, this is a free country you can like who ever you want to like and you should care what other people think of you


14/F. I have to get orthodonic braces in a few weeks and I have a few questions about them. I will rate. Do they hurt? What will happen if I chew gum with them? What color bands would look good with brown hair and brown eyes? Thanks. (link)
no, it does not hurt when they put on your braces. i have hads mine for about 2 years now and the only time they bother me is when i get them tightened. but if u take medicine for like headaches before you get them on it won't hurt as bad,not will happen if you chew gum w/ braces, but i were you i would wait a week until your teeth get use to your braces. As for what color bands to get yoou have to see what colors are provided by your dentist. but most people will get like red and green for christmas w/e holday is comming up is usually the colors i pick and basically any color will go.

I hope this help you alot


Well its my first year in college and I am like 500 miles from home and I only know 3 people up here at college. I have joined the softball team at my college and that has really been my only way off meeting people and all the girls on the team are really nice. My thing is, is that I would like to go and hang out with the girls on the team outside of practice and seeing them at school. But they seem to have their own little groups between them and me being a freshmen, I feel like they don't want me to hang out with them. They talk about going to parties and going out during practice but never tend to invite me, and I don't want to feel like a bug and invite myself or say anything about me coming along. But I am just getting sick of hanging out with the same 3 people everyday and night. I would like to have some other people to go and do things with instead of sitting in my room doing nothing. See my problem is, is that I am shy so I don't talk much while at practice or games so that might be why they don't invite me but thats just how I am for a while when meeting new people then after a while I open up. So what do you suggest that I do? Any advice would help. Thanks a bunch!

Sorry this is long (link)
just start talking to the people who sit around you and if you have a roomate maybe ask her if she could introduce you to some of her friends!
hope i helped


this morning i burnt my leg with my hair crimper. and it left a scar on my leg. there is like 2 dark lines on my legg, and im not sure how to get rid of it?!...is there any way i can?!...please help! (link)
i did the same thing i dropped my cruling iron on my leg and it left a mark, so i used what you put on sun burn.. i think it is called aloveria i think im not sure but i hope that might help it not scar


i started my period in 4th grade (in 8th now) and its still irregular and this last 2months its worse like it wont come for 2 - 3 months then when it does it only goes for 2 days...whats wrong with me its been more then 2yr's?!?! (link)
there;s nothing wrong with you... its just you horemones... hope i helped


I just found out from my friends that I am going to Homecoming with them, which is next saturday! my family's budgit is very low and we can't afford to buy a brand new dress. I have my old dress from last years 8th grade dance. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas to make it look different. Here is a picture of the dress:
http://beallsflorida.com/page?name=process-page-call&page=page-style&styleid=47261

I appretiate any ideas!
Thanks!

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well your dress is realy cute... but so it's to expensive for you to make it look different.. i would geat a real cute silver heart shaped necklace(check at maybe Fashion Bug they have real cute stuff there) and i wouldput like a pink head band(like the ones you tie in the back for in my hair and curl my hair in spirals.. i would also go to walmart in the sewing section for like $5 you can get these real cute beads and have you mom or someone you know sew them around the bottom of you dress... well i hope this helped


alright so one of my friends was talking to the boy i like. she said "ooh you know who you'd look so cute with?" and he says, "no, who?" ... she says my name... and then he changes the subject. she didnt say what his facial expression was- only that he changed subjects. can anyone translate to their best ability of what he might have been thinking.. ex: "oh i like her... better not say yes and change the subject," or "ew her.. better not say anything or she might be hurt"... if you need me to better specify things- ill ask again later (link)
well im just not rel sure about this one but i think if he changed the topic real quick he probably doesn't like you sorry to burt your bubble if you like if him.




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