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(14/f)
Well, my problem is that about 5-7 guys have asked me out since, like, october, and when you think about it, that's a lot. in december, i asked out the guy i liked, but he didn't really "like me like that." naturally, i was kinda upset, and it's been distressing me even more ever since i've been getting asked out, because i'm still trying to impress the guy who wouldn't go out with me, but it doesn't seem to be working, and i want to make sure he really is never ever going to really like me before i go out with anyone again. i'm also worried that i'll never get over it.
Help! (link)
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If he is never going to go with you then STOP trying to get him, some boys like it when girls play hard to get, try doing that, and if that doesnt work go with some of the boys that asked you out ad evanutally he will get jealous and ask u out
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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
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Well really commiting suicide is bad. you may not think when your dead people may not miss you but just as you die people realize how much they ned you, all you just have to do is pray to god, god will help you out, trust me! just please [ray to god. if you want to commit suicide an easy way to do it is pray to good adn say'' god i want to die, im ready for you to swipe me off my feet and put me in a good place(heaven)'' just try and do that
BUT DONT DO IT! PLEASE I BEG OF YOU!
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what does it mean when someone says they gave them head? (link)
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it kind of like ebonics its a sexual term, when a girl give a guy head what she is doing is ducking his penis, but when that happens sometimes sperm come out, but anyways to a guy that feel really good.
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there's a few main websites i like for porn.
13/f
i think i might be addicted...
i watch it almost every night when i sneak my laptop into my room!!
is there a way to forget about porn if i'm addicted?
does it sound like i am?
i don't ditch school for it or anything
twice i had a dream i was asked to be in porn movies
problem here or am i normal?
i don't have accounts but..i'm scared i'm addicted!! (link)
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I dont think your addicted to it, i just hink you imagine or want to do or imagine how it feels, but this is normal at this age, im 13/f too and i do that too alot of my friends to
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So at the beginning of the school year I got in a fight with this girl. Let's call her Lynn. Then we became best friends! But later I was noticing these weird things. At school she would sit REALLY close to me at lunch. At recess she recently put her arm around me. Whenever I talked to her she would either stare at my boobs or right into my eyes! She's always talking about how much she thinks guys are hot... but ahh is she like bi? we're both 13/f, is she lesbian?? what's up??with her??? and she calls me 30 times every 2 days... i'm scared... because i'm straight! (link)
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I dont really think she is bi, im 13 too and girls always do that, even your best friends, but dont worry its normal
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ok so is it possible for a mom's egg and a dad's sperm in a test tube (or wherever) to be put into another woman. or anything similar to this? thanks (link)
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yes it is! alot of boyz donate their sperm to woman.
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okay well theres this girl and im friends w/ her and all but lately shes been getting on my last nerve and she never botherd me befor just now that my best friend (whom is a guy) is like in love with her its been bugging me i mean she says shes fat and ugly and all this other crap and shes not shes like freaking perfect and i think its becuse i a little jelouse that he kinda ignores me for her but yea i dont no what to do i kinda wanna hit her. but she doesnt no any of this and im not about to tell her how i feel. so yea idk she keeps saying shit like i rub in that i went out w/ him and blah blah blah. and she even had the nerve to say im the reason they broke up and still like each other i dont no can someone help me pleaseeee (link)
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sit her down private and tell her how u feel
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well ok theres a guy in my vocal class and we have become somewhat of a couple just not going out and what not, because i am moving in 3 months but i asked him out anyway i just figured i would just ask just to see...and he's thinking about it...was it a smart idea or should i have not of bothered at all? (link)
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hat was very smart good job!
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well at my school there's going to be a dance. i have a dress already but not shoes. but anywayz i'm not sure if i should go. i mean like, i'm afraid it's going to be wack. and i KNOW no one is going to ask me, but should i go?
note- a semiformal i'm 13yrs.old and in eight grade (link)
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yes go but if no one asks you out go with ur friends
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((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much crap
any suggestions on what i should do?
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go out secretly
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Ok so I have this friend, let's call her Sammy ok? So Sammy recently has started like leaving me and kinda ignoring me. Today she even started hanging out with my enemy! Like 2 weeks ago we started hanging out with a girl named Natasha and ever since she has been doing all these things. Oh and I already talked to her a billion times. It's like she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. Should I just start hanging out with different people? (link)
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yes! of course but kind of tell sammy that you think she is replacing you and also make lots of friends
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me-almost 13, f
guy1-13
guy2-13
today of all school days was very different. i've been pretty good friends (FRIENDS!) with guy1 and guy2 but today.. idk. anyway, in one of my classes i had to work with guy1. i was really into the work but then i noticed guy2 come over to check my answers. then guy1 got all territorial and pushed him back. they went on like this, kind of trapping me in the middle, for about 5-10 min.
they were being really immature and they even had an armwrestle to see who was stronger. guy1 got pissed off because guy2 was playfully grabbing me. not so playful for me.
well, things got pushed up to another level and guy2 was hugging me and grabbing my waist and legs. theeennn he would smell and pplay with my hair. you see, im the kind of person who gets taken advantage of, so i would just ignore it and pretend i didnt notice. other times i would slap his hand with a smile, because i didnt want him to think im mean. aahhh its hard to explain.
sigh
after that i soon found out that guy2 wouldnt talk to me if i was fat and ugly. i called him shallow.
time was running short and i didnt want the paper for homework so i asked guy2 (smart). he said he would give me the answers if i'd "be nice". i was like, define nice and he said forget it. i begged for the answers and finally agreed to "be nice".
he gave me an answers or two and then he got behind my chair and sort of put himself overtop me (representing thee position). guy1 (you should know the fact that guy1 & 2 are good buddies) told me that guy2 was most likely going to rape me some day--he was joking around. and then guy2 was like "maybe... i could probably think of worse"
wow ooookkkkkk.
next class: my assigned seat is next to guy2's. he was still being a jerk and he grabbed my ass when i didnt look. and he would stroke my back when the teacher was talking.
he doesnt ALWAYS do this; but today i guess he just didnt care.
dont you hate when you know a friend is doing something wrong but you dont want to tell on them? if i told a teacher/counsler anonymously, HE would know i sold him out because im pretty much his only target. its like i want him to stop but i dont want him to hate me as a friend because im such a people pleaser.
no ratings for people who say i have to talk to my parents. they wouldnt exactly understand and i hate talking to them about things like this.
what should i do? (link)
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really i think guy 1 likes you, and guy 2 kind of but guy 1 is a jealous guy so really there fighting over you but dont let this keep happening becuz evntually they will become friends and you are out of the picture
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15/f...i went out with this guy ive been best friends with since sixth grade and were now in 9th and so it was a few months and everything was perfect and i just told myself everything was wrong but it wasnt and so i broke up with him for no reason at all i was just like its over.. and so its been about two months and he went out with this other chick and they broke up and now i realize what a big mistake ive made and we were BEST friends we told each other everything and after he wouldnt even look at me and the past week ive been just trying to make small talk and he'll talk to me and he gives me that look like " make it better please" but he doesnt act like that you know?..i want him back so bad i miss him soo much but i dont expect that i just want it to be the way it was before and .. (link)
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what i think you should do is sit him down and tell him that you guys are friends and you use to be best frinds and now u think that ever since you guys went out it ruined our frindship and want to be the best of fiend again and forget everythin that ever happened
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I'm eighteen years old, and female.
This morning, I just had anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I was allright during, and it was fully consentual, but now, several hours later, I can't shake this feeling of guilt.
My question is, is it common to feel guilty after a sexual act? If there's any advice that you can offer, I would appreciate it. I'm feeling ashamed of myself and I don't want to let my boyfriend touch me sexually ever again, and I really want things to be the same as they were before. (link)
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Yes, you are going to feel guilty yet because you did not get there permission but maybe if you keep doing it you might get use to it. Just remember this is your life! Do what you want to do!
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Ok. I recently bought my first pair of Converse. They are Chuck Taylor Premiere All Star, Low, and I was wondering if I am supposed to wear socks with them. If it helps, I'm a girl. (link)
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you should wear ankle socks or no socks at all.
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I'm a 19 year old female. I'm 5'3'' and weigh 135 pounds. Ever since I was 16 I've wanted to lose weight. I've been going to the gym at times 5-6 days a week for 3 months then I see no results AT ALL and stop going. I've been the same weight for 3-4 years. I've tried cutting back on calories but and it seems to be working well until night time. Then it is like I can't control myself and have to eat, if I see it I want it, if i know its in the cabinent I want it. I know I just need to tell myself no but has this happened to anyone else?!?! I restrick myself during the day but after dinner I lose it and undo my diet. I honestly need help...i was thinking of wearing a bracelet as a reminder to feel guilty or something when im bingeing (link)
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First of all, if you see something you want that is okay but if you eat alot that is okay too because at least your going to the gym. You should not want to lose weight or go on a diet because your normal. But you can still go to the gym. But if you keep eating and going to the gym your healthy and you can keep eating!
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Ok so i tired to get into my hotamil account. But every time I put in my password, its like locked out you have or someone else has tried too many times to log in as you. And it has a recover password button, but it sends it to my email account, which i cant getinto. AAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUGGGHHHH help its so annoying that i just want to blow something up. (link)
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All you have to do is make a new one. But when you register you have to put in your old email tell the people who own hotmail to email it to your old email.
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I'm 27 years old and my ten year highschool reunion is coming up in the new year. Well I feel that by my age I should have acomplished more than I have.
For one thing, I'm still single and don't own my own home or have children. I thought by now that I'd be married, have either a successful career or be a housewife.
All I have is a ten year old car, a small appartment that I rent, a part time job that doesnt pay that good, and some nice furniture and lots of movies, cds, and large television and computer. Maybe I shouldnt complain, I guess things could be worse. Some people from my class are in jail, or had to move back in with there parents for financial reasons, or became single parents.
How can I feel better about myself so when I do go to the reunion I won't sound like such a loser? (link)
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Well I want to say 1 thing, that is very good to start with because some people wish they had what you have. Not only that, people who are rich now start off like what you are doing. You dont sound like a loser. All you have to do is tell your self ''I am so happy I am here and not in jail or in any other place''
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I am male/14
Next year I'm starting high school. Everyone who goes to my school now is going to another highschool than I am. Should I be worried about starting all over? I mean, I'm going to be losing a lot of friends soon. It's just going to be sad on the last day of school when I have to say good bye to all my friends. Help me Please! (link)
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All you have to do is keep in touch with your friends. Ask for their number and address and email. You should not be worried but to be a little nervous is normal. But you will make a lot of new friends so try and keep in touch with your friends. Hope I helped!
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My best friend Rachel and I are in this thing at school where we help new students. A new girl came and she was really cool her name was Ashley. She always hangs out with Rachel now and Rachel always avoids me and now they are best friends and always exclude me in activites. Should I talk to Rachel? Ehh (link)
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I think you should tell Rachel how you fell because if you dont it is going to be worse. And when it is worse you can't control it. So tell her now and she will understand.
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