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Does my best friend like me?
So at the beginning of the school year I got in a fight with this girl. Let's call her Lynn. Then we became best friends! But later I was noticing these weird things. At school she would sit REALLY close to me at lunch. At recess she recently put her arm around me. Whenever I talked to her she would either stare at my boobs or right into my eyes! She's always talking about how much she thinks guys are hot... but ahh is she like bi? we're both 13/f, is she lesbian?? what's up??with her??? and she calls me 30 times every 2 days... i'm scared... because i'm straight!
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Yea sounds like she might be bi. See when you were fighting with her (i.e. calling her names, etc.) she may have took that as a hint to you "liking her" since thats the way most guys handle their relationships at first lol. Let her know that you are infact STRAIGHT but you wanna still be friends without all "close" bonding. Be careful of how you break it to her though, she might stil be confused about herself. Hope it helps
-Adorkable
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I dont really think she is bi, im 13 too and girls always do that, even your best friends, but dont worry its normal
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Alot of straight girls will put their arms around other girls or hug them or whatever and its not a big thing.I doubt shes staring at your boobs maybe you just happened to look at her at the wrong time and thought you saw her staring at you when she really wasent.Now for the calling 30 times thing,maybe because you guys got into a fight in the beginning of the year she wants to make up for lost time and hang out with you and just chat with you about everything that is going on.I wouldnt jump to conclusions to quickly.Dont ask her if shes gay or bi because that would be rude,if she likes girls she's probably tell you considering your her best friend and all.And if you feel uncomfortable when she touches you then tell her you dont like it and that it makes you feel uncomfortable and hopefully she'll listen to you and stop.
♥ danielle
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Dont jump to conclusions. Some people are just more touchy than anothers. Like I'll hold my best friends hand or lean on her sometimes, but it doesnt mean Im a lesbian. It just means Im comfortable around her.
If she is gay though, don't lead her on. Make it clear you are totally straight, and thats it. Nothing personal. Thats really all you can do. If she's being to clingy, introduce her to some people she doesnt know that well so she will have someone else to chat with, or just privately tell her that its a little to much for you.
Good luck!
-Abby
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