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damsel in distress...
(14/f)
Well, my problem is that about 5-7 guys have asked me out since, like, october, and when you think about it, that's a lot. in december, i asked out the guy i liked, but he didn't really "like me like that." naturally, i was kinda upset, and it's been distressing me even more ever since i've been getting asked out, because i'm still trying to impress the guy who wouldn't go out with me, but it doesn't seem to be working, and i want to make sure he really is never ever going to really like me before i go out with anyone again. i'm also worried that i'll never get over it.
Help!
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If he is never going to go with you then STOP trying to get him, some boys like it when girls play hard to get, try doing that, and if that doesnt work go with some of the boys that asked you out ad evanutally he will get jealous and ask u out
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Don't spend your life on the side lines just waiting on one person. You could be waiting forever- why take that risk?
Honestly? The guy said he didn't like you like that, he surely meant it. You can try all you want, but you can't change the way some one feels.
Don't worry, you'll get over it in time. Have patience with yourself and date some one else when you feel comfortable with your feelings. Meaning: don't waste some poor guy's time if you are going to go out with him while thinking of this other guy.
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you will get over him. who knows someone way better might come along and sweep you off your feet. just kind of put this guy on the side for now. if you cant tell him that you really like him and dont see anyother guy but him. try being friends with him too.
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i was just going through the exact same thing i liked this guy and he said he only wanted to be friends even though he always flirts with me so just of couple of days ago i decided i was over him and acted like i wasnt interested in him any more he started liking me so i just gave him a chance my secret is to act like you are over him and the people who know you like him tell them that you are over him and tell yourself that also
Hope i helped
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