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Ok,So I really like this guy hes Funny,cute,nice but he says he likes me but really he likes me and another girl. I have gone out with him befor and everytime he has broken my heart I promised myself I would never fall for him again but I did...!I dont know what to do. The other girl he likes likes him bak and everytime they go out they go out 4 soooo long!!! I dont know what to do cause I love him so much and he likes another girl more then me and if he asks her out I will be heart broken I dont know what to do to get him attention and to get him to like me more...What should I DO!!??!!
Yours truley,
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THis guy has obviously already broken your heart too many times before, and he might again. Hun why would you set yourself up for that kind of pain? He seems like a good guy and thats awesome, but maybe hes not for you(you need someone who you can depend on and not have to worry if you might get hurt)Maybe it would be better if you guys stayed just really good friends. If anything you could always talk to him how you feel, thats always a great thing to do.
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I got my first period at the end of July (thankfully right before HS started) and it lasted about 2-3 days and that was it. Haven't gotten it since. Now, I am scared that i am gonna get it some random day at school, and i don't know how heavy it would be or anything. So here are my questions::
1. Is it normal to take this long for the 2nd period?
2. If and when i do get it, will it go down my leg at school or will it just be a little on the first day that it comes?
3. What is the maximum amount of time between one period and another?
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1. This is definitly normal. For not only your second period but for about a year or even more your period will probably be off.
2. No it usually won;t come down your leg if you are worried about it bring extra pads in your purse and back pack. I am also sure that your friends, the nurse, and the bathrooms will have pads or tampons for you to use. When you have your period it never really gushes out so you won't have to worry about it running down your leg unless you don't have pads ect.
3. Everybody is differnt but usually your period happens about a week, more or less, every month (once you r regular)so about 3 or 4 weeks difference.
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my boyfriend and i will be watchin a movie, and he will start making out with me.. i love him to death!! but.. they only problem is that he wants me to have sex with him.. i dont want to.. im a virgin, and proud of it.. however, he has talked to me about getting married and having children someday. and mayb even b4 we get married.. i dont want to have sex or get pregnant! IM 13! how do i make him stop? (link)
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Don't ever let people talk you into things that you are not ready for. That is such a great thing that you are a virgin and I'm glad that you are proud of it. People these days are doing the wrong things and are messing up there lives. Talk to him and tell him how you feel, if you really love him and he loves you then he should understand that you are not ready for something as big as sex!!
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If you've never gotten your period and you have sex, then you can't get pregnant, am I correct?
Oh, and I'm not that young, so don't be like if you haven't gotten your period, then your not old enough, lets just say I'm in High school (link)
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Thats never a stupid question. No you can not get pregnant until your first period.
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I'm 20 years old. Female. I've been with my man for about 4 months and I definately feel that I'm head over heels in love with him when it's just the two of us but when I'm around other guys I start thinking about dating other people. How come one minuet I feel like I could marry my love but then another minuet I think about wandering to other guys? (link)
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Your human. I think that no matter who you might be dating you will always be wondering about the opposte sex. The best of luck to the both of you!
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is it a good way to make money
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Gosh yes!!! Babysitting is a geat way to earn some extra cash. But It depends ont the people you babysit, usually if you baysit a few kids than the price is more and if the hours are long too and what the parents are willing to pay you.
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i have beauty marks like mole things on my back and in the summer i am scared to wear a bathing suit and a tank top because i am scared that people and freinds will make fun of me.what should i do ? (link)
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Don't worry about what people say about you. There is no good reason for your friends to make fun of you b/c I bet no one will even notice. Remember everyone has moles and beauty marks.
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ok my dad and stepmom are getting divorced. i dont live with them, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, and i dont know it's just a big problem. i'm afraid i'll never see my stepmom again once they get divorced, and i don't want that to happen. I got really close to her and i love her, she's almost like a sister to me. i know i cant' stop them from getting divorced, but how can i get through this and still be happy and have a good outlook on things? i'm normally an optomistic person, and i want to stay that way. i don't expect never to be sad, but what are some ways to deal with this? i went through a divorce a few years ago with my real parents, but i dont know how to get through it again. thanks in advance to everyone who helps. love ya! (link)
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I am so sorry hun. Divorces are so awful. My parents have gone through a divorce too. I would tell your stepmom that you would still like to hangout and be close because you don't want to lose that special relationship with her. Sit down with her and talk with her and tell her how much she means to you and how you would like to coninue a realtionship with her.
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If you ever need anything I would be happy to help!!
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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do? (link)
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Pot is something that can effect you for the rest of your life. If you know you shouldn't be doing it then you know its not right. Drugs are so awful for you and they ruin your life. These people you are hanging out with are definitly not your true friends, DON'T SMOKE IT!!!! Don't hang out with these people b/c they are into things that are really bad.
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Is there anything bad for you in Diet Sodas? I know they say regular sodas are bad for you because they have so much sugar, but since diet sodas have none, does that mean they're fine for you? Is it okay if you have one or more a day? Or is there other bad stuff for you in there? (link)
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All sodas are not healthy for you but I have actually heard that diet cokes and such are really bad for you too even though they are diet.
Even though sodas are really good they are horrible for you they not only are really bad for your teeth but are really bad for the inside of you too. Diet sodas have artificial sugar in it that is supposed to be really unhealthy for you.
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I wanna start wearing eyeliner, and in your opinion, should I wear liquid or pencil? Thanks (link)
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Liquid is so messy. I really prefer pencil better because it stays in place and It's much easier to put on.
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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem? (link)
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Periods no matter how regular you are are always going to be off. Your body is constantly changing but if she is worried about it she should talk to her mom about it.
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Here's my story though it's kind of embarressing... For about 2-3 years now, I have had this clear slime come out my yeah, and I don't think it's normal, but is it somthing I need to REALLY WORRY ABOUT? I mean is it normal... It's like I am constantly wet (though I am still a Virgin and I haven't been there yet) and I hate it...so I wear baby powder down there to keep it from smelling just in case it does... any advice..... (link)
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It's nothing to worry about every girl has it. It's discharge. It really does stink but it's all apart of being a girl. If you are worried about it wear a panty liner so it won't make your underware wet.
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Hey I want to loose 100 pounds in 1 year! Thats my goal. Anyways. What are some excersizes i can do and how often,how long and ect to do them. What food do i eat? And do you have any sites? That can help me. Thank you so much i will rate everyone a 5 if you help! Ill even rate you if you didnt help because you tried lol. (link)
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I think that is such a great goal!! To lose weight you are going to need to stay on a healthy diet. Stay away from carbs, breads pasta's, and junk food. Even though salads are good for you I don't ever think they fill you up but you can add tuna or grilled chicken to it. THere are so many things in the grocery store that are only certain amounts of carbs ect. that are great to try. Vegies are great but stay away from red meat. Get into the habit of exercising 5-6 times a week. Enroll into a gym or you can do your excersises at home. Just remember on excersising start out doing easy excersizes and keep progressing. All my luck!!
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Do you niples ever stick up?? Why?? (link)
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Yes they have. They usually stick up when you are cold. It happens to every girl so you don't ever need to worry about it.
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I have a horrible problem with my face getting red anytime i read in front of the class or do a speach. TOmorrow, i have to give a speach in english & I was wondering, if anyone had any ideas to yhelp me stop that... i odnt want stuff like " just be confident".. things like, is there anything you can take or if makeup or things like that would work. pleeease answer.. anyone who answer, i`ll give a 5 (link)
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That happens to me too. But you just need to remember that everyone is nervous and I bet they blush too when they have to get up in front of people. YOu can try wearing a little bit of blush to not make it look like you are blushing as much.
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How can i become a more confident person? (link)
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All you need is a positive additude about yourself. Belive in yourself and don't get caught up in what others think about you.
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i rly like my boyfriend but when he asks me to do sumtin gi dont really want to bt i rly rly like him so... idk i think its becuz im shy around him and dont tak much but i want to be able to talk more around him and not be shy anymore. (link)
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WEll if he is ever making you feel uncomfortable or he's askin you to do something you don't want to do don't give in and do it. Tell him how you feel and talk about it. It doesn't matter if you really like this guy if he is asking you to do inapropraite things you don't want to do don't do them.
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When I get my period, the first 3 days are very heavy. I wear pads on those days and then tampons the rest. I'm going down the shore on the days when it's heavy and I'm not sure what to do. I'm going to be swimming and everything, but do you think a 'super' tampon would be good enough? It's really heavy and I'm scared even the super tampons won't be enough. What should I do? (link)
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Ya definitly. Super tampons are really good for your heavy days. I think that you should use the super tampons for heavy and pads for your light days. Just remember to change them every once in a while.
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i want to loose weight i know i need to and i want a boyfriend and ive never had one!!! ive tryed to do stuff to loose weight and ill be going strong and then ill like lash out and go food crazy!! but i weigh 235 and im only 16 and im 5'6 & 1/4 please help me i want a boyfriend soo bad i have lots of guyfriends but never a boyfriend! (link)
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You can lose weight by working out in a gym and eating healthy foods. Stay away from pasta's and breads. Make up a schedual for each week and stick to it. By eating healthy and doing good exercises you can definitly lose weight.
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