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I live in Georgia and around where I live the gas prices have gone up so much in only a few week. The cheapest I have seen near me is $2.06 and thats if I go out of my way to get it. The gas station closest is like $2.10. I am in school and don't have a job, I am looking but it's hard to find a part time job. Does anyone know when the gas prices should start to go down or if they are going to go up...?
Thanks
well gas prices here are 2.21 - 2.23 and i dont realli think the gas prices will ever go down that much to make a difference
14/f
I'm going on a cruise for Christmas. And I went on one a few years ago. The last one i went on I saw tons of hott guys but i was to afraid to say hi. So I spent the entire cruise with my family (which was ok). Well, this time i want to be able to meet people while I'm there. What are some ways to meet new people without being really weird about it? thanks!
im going on a cruise for easter break! ah anyways im excited im goin with my friend so yea but i would just go up to them and ask them where their from cuz they could be like amlmost anywhere and then u could say where ur from and just keep talking and ask them if theyre here with family if they kno any1 else and stuff like that
At school a few weeks ago, I walked into the assistant principlals office to get my locker combination because I couldn't remember it. While I am in there, the assistant principal takes me into her office and informs me that several teachers and staff that walked into the office said that it smelled of alcohol, and that the strong scent of alcohol was coming from me! She asked if I would be willing to take a breath alizer test and I told her yes, I will take one. Well, I obviously passed the test and then she kept talking about how strong the smell is. I told her I couldn't smell anything! I told her that maybe it's the halls in my mouth that is making the room smell like alcohol, but we both agreed that a tiny little halls can not stink up the whole room with a strong scent of alcohol. So, she brings me all the way out to the front of the school so I can smell fresh air and then back into her office, and I informed her that I still can't smell any alcohol. She was very surprised at this, and kept saying how the smell of alcohol was so strong. She asked if I smoke cigarettes. I told her yes. She asked if I had them on me. I told her no. She asked if I could prove it. I confessed that I did have cigarettes and a lighter on me, but I do not smoke in school and I only carry them on me because I walk home from school and smoke on the way home. She then, searched my things just to be sure, but she asked if she could beforehand. I didn't have anything else on me, and then she suspended me for 3 days. Well, just yesterday, I got a letter in the mail ordering me to court for this. For having cigs and a lighter at school. I just wanted to know..do I have an argument? Was she allowed to do all those things? Do I have any argument at all? I'll rate 5 for everyone. I really need help on this.
the school can search anything locker car etc...while on school property for no reason at all....which they did...im not sure about the breathalizer test....and u can def. get in trouble for having ciggarettes and a lighter on u also ...and i believe that u could go to court for it also because a lighter could be a form of weapon and for all they know u could have been planning to burn down the schoool...haha ikno it sounds dumb but yea.....but i wouldnt think theyd take u to court? that seems strange but im sure if they do nothing extreme would happen because the judge would probably understand your reasoning
I like this guy that I went to school with last year and went out with him last year and the beginning of this year. I'm 17 and he is 16. And I don't know if I should tell him that I still like him alot because I don't know how he feel anymore. We still talk and he gives me hugs when he sees me, and we're still cool and all. But I have no clue what to do anymore. I want to tell him but I'm scared to because I don't know how he will react. PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I'll rate really good!!!!! Thanks in advance!!!!! Blessed be!!
~Candy the Wiccan
well before u could tell him u could ask him how he feels about u or if he thinks theres a chance u guys could ever get bak together...and then just tell him that u would like to get back to gether with him and u stil have feelings for him but i do think u should tell him because otherwise ur gonna have to keep it all inside and never kno if he likes u back or not
Ok, here is my situaton. I am a 14/f and in 9th grade. Well, i take a foods (cooking) class and there is this guy AJ who is in my group. Well the other day Garth, also in my group, asked me who I was going to the X-mas dance with and I said no one and that I wasnt even sure I was going. Well, AJ, an 11th grader said he was doing the same thing. He then asked me if i wanted to go with him. He said he would pay for it (It is $35 to go as a couple)and he would pick me up. He also said that he wouldnt ditch me for someone else at the dance b/c I was his date. Well, AJ is a really nice guy but he isnt the most attractive guy if you know what I mean. Also, he is really immature...he acts like a lil kid a lot. Anyway, he said he didnt want to go as boyfriend/girlfriend. Just so he'd have a date. So now, I dont know if he wants go with me b/c he wants to or because he wants a date. I don't know what to do! I dont know if i should tell him yes or try and find another date. My friend Kayla said she was going to ask her friend Bunion if he would go with me. But she said that if he didnt want to go then to go with AJ and then ditch him at the dance just so he can pay and so i'll have a ride. I don't want to do that but maybe i should? I dont know. I dont want to hurt him but i want to go. I told her i wasnt going to go if i didnt have a date b/c I didnt want to pay $20 to go by myself.
Should I go with AJ or find another date? Im confused about what to do! Please help
HEC
if ur not into AJ then dont go with him because u wont have a good time....but if ur not sure then its worth a try...but dont ditch him ....cuz then other guys will look at u as some like mean girl...and im sure that once uve spent more time with him u might not even want to ditch him ....i hate going alone to dances by myself and paying it totally sucks and wenever i doi always wish i had a date there but i dont so i think ud be better off going with him and then if ud rather go with someone else and he hasnt already bought ur ticket then cancel on him ...yea i guess thats mean .....but im not sure how far away the dance is but if its soon then chances are u might not get any1 else to go with
Okay, I there's this guy that likes me and i told him i would go to a dance with him but now i dont wanna go (and for a good reason dont worry) so would it be rude to tell him over the phone? Or should i do it in person? I would really rather do it over the phone so i wont be as nervous but im afraid it might be rude. Plz help me!! And i need to know like ASAP!! Thx
i think u should do it in person because doing it over the phone makes u look childish and seem like u arent going for a fake reason ....even thoit will be harder to do in person i think it will mean more and be not as rude
Okay, picture this.. if you look at your teeth not the two front, not the next ones. but the next ones.. i haven't lost yet, their the only ones i haven't lost and i have an extra tooth growing out of my gums and its like way up there, and you can kind of see it when i smile but i think its grown to its fullest. but i dont wanna get my two teeth removed because i am 14, and I'll get picked on really bad, would u get them pulled?? or would u just wait for them to fall out?? please help
the one thats growing in your gums should be removed but i didnt lose all my teeth till i was like 15 or 16 and i kno sum other people who didnt either the dentist can check to make sure theres another tooth underneath it to grow in and if there isnt then they might pull it and give u fake ones but even if u had fake teeth u cant tell their fake so it wouldnt matter
hey every1.okay i know ALLLL the diet tips and the right fo0ds to eat and the excerise plans, etc, alllll of it... Im about 126-127 lbs, and im 5'2..I want to go down to 120 but I dont know how to STAY on the diet..I need motivation..Like sometimes Ill just be like aww screw it and just eat w/e, then right after i eat it i feel really depressed, etc..Any tips on how to STAY on a diet and STAY motivated?? Thanks!
whats the point in losing 6 or 7 lbs it wont even be noticeable...but maybi get some pictures of how u want to look and put them certain places like on your mirror so wen u awake up and look at them and be like soon if ii keep doing what im doing ill look like that or maybe like make a deal with yourseld if i lose this weight ill buy a whole new outfit for myself or something like that
hey kelsey well im a female and im 14 and i really like this guy in my school who i went out with but he broke up with me a week after he asked me out and he said it was because he wasnt really ready for the realtionship and he didnt think i really liked him butim like in love with him after i told him that he said that he still likes me and everything but he wants to get to know me more and then go out but i think its really stupid because he already went out with me so yea i dont think its going to be any different when he get to know me more and anyways i really dont want to wait and like now when i ask him if he likes me he doesnt say yes he says may be and its pissing me off
please tell me how do i get him back because i know he likes me its just something standing on the way between us
i really need to know what should i do to get him back
love ya lots!!!!
well im not positive u can get him back..but trying can be fun....first of all he says he doesnt want to be with u right now and he wants to get to know u more...which is a really good thing....he wants to spend more time with u and talk to u and really get to know u ...actaully knowing a person and like knowing what their favorites are differ very much...u really want him to be your boyfriend.....basically u guys almost are but u want the label of him as your boyfriend...why? to tell people u have a boyfriend to feel more secure like he ownt just leave u ...the list is endles... i believe that ur need for him is more than ur love....u feel like u need him...u shouldnt need anyone but urself....honestly i dont think u will get him back until u can understand his point of view... a realationship willwork better the more you know someone...and ur only 14 ....u have so many more years of ur life why dont u date different guys because im sure u can find someone more like you who wants to be with u and then get to know u even more while dating because thats what u want so find some1 who agrees more with u
Okay about a week ago I started going out with one of the most hottest guys you will ever meet and I have liked him for a long time. Well on Tuesday he broke up with me but told my friends all over the school to tell me that it was over. So I was hecka mad and started crying when I got home. But then on Wednesday I was better and was laughing and saw him and he said he wanted to talk to me. I asked him y he broke up with me and he said because i was cheating on him andI really wasnt and I hecka like him and want to go back out with him. Wut should I do? I am a 13 year old female!
well first of all i dont think he broke up with you just because he thinks u were cheating...and if he realli liked u and found out that u were cheating he shouldve asked u about it first and talked to u about it...it doesnt really seem like he cares that much about u just to dump u so quick on a rumor he heard...but if u really want him back talk to him about it ...talking is something that can solve and help almost any problem....try to get to the base of the problem...gain his trust back...flirt a lil...and remember ur only 13 u will me plenty of more guys before finding the right one ...not saying that he isnt the right one....but the chances are slim....dating is about finding the right guy and having funa nd meeting new people...the more people u date then u will get to kno more about what u like in a guy and what u dont ....and stuff like that ....as u say u like this a guy alot what do u like about him? the fact that he dumped u based on a rumor? well of course not so im sure he has a lot of good things about him but make sure that they outweigh his bad aspects.... goodluck
ok there is two boys i like and they both have a gf. one of them is my ex and the other said that he loves me. i wanna go wit my ex and him and his gf dont look like theyr doin good but then i want to go wit the other one but hes goin wit dis hoe and he had no clue bout it. i really love my ex though cause when we broke up i went home cryin and i still havent got over him and its been like 2 months. wat should i do im 13 too and a female
well personally i think if both of them are taken then u should try to find someone else and i know how hard that can be but its not going to help likeing two boys who both arent single...the one is your ex and u still like him remember that ur only 13 and u will meet alot more boys before u find the right one...he is taken he has a girlfriend that im sure he likes alot ...even tho it looks like theyre not doing well they probably still have feelings for eachother and will try to get over their problems....the other guy also has a gf but says he loves you if he really loved you he wouldnt be with that other girl...and do u really want to be with a guy who would tell another girl that he loves her wen hes with you? i know i wouldnt ....my opinon in this is to try and forget about both guys ....meet someone knew ....atleast until one of them is single again....good luck
My period is very heavy on the first few days. I usually use pads and slender tampons. I was wondering is there any way for me to make me period less heavy? I tried using a 'super' tampon but it hurts because I'm not big enough down there. Is there anything I can do? I'm sick and tired of feeling like I'm wearing a diaper but my period's too heavy for the small tampons.
i learned in health class a few years back that the more u eat the heavier your period is
Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship!
first of all u should never say that u love him like that cuz that could scare him away....which that seems what happened....but dont worry about it u can change it... first of all back off for awhile because most people get upset or disapointed wen people dont like them anymore and sumtimes they start to like them as in people always want what they cant have...then just flirt with him a lil and if he flirts back then gradually flirt more....if u feel that ur friendship is going to be runined talk to him about it and if ur too scared too then just be like some daay ur such a great friend or be like ur the bestest friend in the whole world and then he will get the idea that u want to be his friend atleast but if u talk to him about it u can prolli get more answers and see his viewpoint on things....good luck
I was wondering if it was ok to go shopping with your mom every now and then. Cause i go up to Pennsylvania every summer and Christmas to see my mom and i am 14. We always go shopping together because i dont have friends up in Penn. cause im only staying there for just a few weeks, so i was wondering if its strange or immature or something just cause you go shoppin with your mom for clothes and coffee, please, i really want peoples opinions! thanks so much!
almost everyone goes shopping with their mom ....especially for school clothes and stuff like that...so dont worry about it
ok well my homecoming is this saturday and well like 2 weeks ago this boy whose a sophomore asked me (im a freshman) to be his date for homecoming and i sed yes cuz i used to like him soo much but ever since after that i kinda got the hint that he liked me but now i really dont want to go with him nemore like it seems to me that i dnt like him at all nemore i jus wanna get away from him and he already bought the tickets.... well i was wonderin how do i tell him how i feel without hurting his feelings? like how do i tell him that i dnt want to go with him to homecoming?? its been botherin me almost every day now and i really need to tell him that i dont want to go with him cuz also i think it would b more fun to by myself... soo can ne1 help me??!! thanx soo much xoxo!
well first of all if u dont go with him u need to pay him back for the ticket and next time dont say yes to aanyone if ur not definite ulll want to go...im not gonna lie what ur doing is selfish and rude....for all u kno u could go to the dance with him and find out that u like him more than u think and have a great time wen ur young u should try to meet as many new guys as possible in order to find out what u like best in a guy .....but since u dont want to even give it a chance call him up or tell him in person that u dont want to go with him because u dont feel that u would enjoy the dance as much with him than by yourself but tell him that hes not the reason that u dont want to go even if it is .....anyways i think u should rethink your decision its just one dance and ur a freshman theres so many other dances that ull have to go to so why not go with him and maybe u could have more fun than u think but make sure u tell him as soon as possible....good luck
During ur period if u had sex would you be able to get pregnant???
yes u can get pregnant anytime just some times are greater than others
ok lets see if i can get this right lol...
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...
he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..
i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...
and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...
-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"
--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys-
ok well that was realli confusing..but ill try to help u as best as I can.....heres what i think.... its hard to tell whether its you or someone else he wants to ask out....but since hes asking u for advice that means he trusts u and either likes u like a girlfriend or as a realli good friend so if i were u i would ask other questions about this girl as in what grade shes in what she looks like n stuff like that to get more hints and if it seems to be more like you then chances are it is...if he asks u again how he should ask her out without being rejected i think u should tell him that i doubt she would if she was smart and then if hes like why be like cuz ur a great guy and if i was her i wouldnt turn you down(im assuming that u like him)....even if its not u he plans on asking that will show him that u care about him and stuff to the point where maybi hell eventualli realize that he wants to be with u and not the other girl....u could also ask him how he knos "the girl" and how well he knows her and stuff like that...sorry if my advice was confusing but i hope i helped and everything works out good luck
I'm 15 and female and I've never kissed a guy. I go to an all-girls Catholic high school, and I haven't kept up with ANY of my very few guy friends from when I went to co-ed schools.
*reads question, cringes at own stupidity*
So . . . how can I meet new people? I have a lot of really great friends, but it would be nice to meet some new people, and possibly get a boyfriend.
Any ideas?
i meet a lot of guys at the mall and snowboarding....u should try to meet guys doing sumthing u like to do cuz then u alreadi kno u have one thing in common...if any of ur girl friends have a boyfriend u could try to get them to get one of their friends for u and go to a movie or sumthing...or search guys from your area online and arrange to meet them with a friend at the mall or movies.....
i have been anarexic for 3 months.. My boyfriend is really worried about me, and really wants me to stop.. i have tried to do that for him.. but i just cant make myself.. i am 13, 5'8 and i weigh 65 pounds.. what should i do?
if ur 5'8 and weigh 65 lbs ud be dead!
Alright I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17. A while back, we were hanging out; and I guess you could say things got a little out of hand. Well, I recently found out that I was pregnant. Today, my friend Amber (who is also pregnant, but not from my boyfriend) pushed me into telling my boyfriend. He didn't freak out, but he was upset. He told me that it'd be too much of a burden to have a baby now, and so he told me he wanted me to get an abortion. I'm very against abortion. I told him this, and he respected my opinion, but still tried to push me in that direction. He also suggested this "safe baby" thing. I don't really want to put my kid up for adoption either, because I can just imagine how much it hurts knowing your parents gave you up. My boyfriend doesn't want to tell his parents either, but he said he will, but you can tell how reluctant he is. He told me he loved me no matter what, but it was too much of a burden. I know he's not going to dump me, but he is afraid to keep it because he's going to college next year nad still trying to figure out his own life. Someone please tell me what I should do.
i think u should do whatever u feel is right..but first talk to your parents and maybi even to his parents too and talk to him but in the end listen to urself and do that.....sumtimes depending on the situation its better for the baby to be adoptedand wen its older usually they understand how hard it is for u to give them up and u were onli doing it for the best intrest of the baby...if ur against abortion then dont do that unless u want to i would never get an abotrion myself and i would keep the baby bcuz well im 16 and im a senior i have no idea what i want to do the rest of my life and it wouldnt ruin my life it would give more direction and i love kids but either way im sure u have an opinion or an idea of what u want to do alreadi so i think u should just listen to what other people have to say but together the advice and do what u feel is best for urself and the baby