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Candace Rae- the topic of everyone's coversations. Keep my name in your dome & out of your mouth. :] My parents were blessed on March 31st, 1994. I'm 13 years young, but I stride to act mature but it's not usually easy. I'm a good time. I'm a learning wakeboarder and my longest record of staying on the board is 13 seconds. WOOHOO! My second home is the soccer field, no lie. If I'm listening to hip-hop/rap/r&b I'm usually happy. Try to take my music away from me & see what happens. I can't stand people who haven't listened to 2 minutes of my music & assume it's negative. I will speak my mind until I knock some sense into them. Anyways I live in New England so I'm at the beach A LOT. Don't be stupid and ask if I live in England because I will tell you to pay more attention in geography class. I'm the type of girl who'd wear Red Sox clothes to a Yankee Game. Now let's see you top that, biotch.

I have a problem with liars & ditchers. I also have a problem with people who diss soccer. Soccer is the national sport in every country except the United States. Yeah foo' I think that speaks for itself.

I love love love Dunkin Donuts. Yummy! Coconut iced coffee & Tropical Fruit Smoothies make my day. Speaking of things I love, Abercrombie and Fitch is definitely one of them. I have a Sidekick and I treat it like my baby. It comes with me everywhere and that's the way I like it. =)

Ima huge flirt & if I see a hot guy, I'll go up to them and say "I'd tap that, bang that, slap that." Haha I don't care. [:

I tend to cause a scene.... EVERYWHERE. =]

Ask me for advice, I promise I won't give you the answer you want to hear. I'll do my best to help you though.

advice

its on the radio alot it goes something like

i still hear your voice.....

then its like

everytime we touch... something

i reach the sky

do any oneee knowww


Everytime We Touch by Cascada.

Next time type the words from the song on google and it will give you the name of the song.

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is there any way to clean under acrylic nails.


Nope. Don't worry one time I got this random black gunk stuck in my acrylics and it was GROSS! I tried getting it out but the nail ended up falling off and I didn't have the right glue and I had to pay to get it back on. So just leave it, and when you go back to the nail salon tell them what happened. They might have to put new nails on you.

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okay. i am almost in the 9th grade and my breasts haven't grown any since sixth grade. does this mean that my boobs will grow a lot in the next couple of years? and if so will it hurt a lot? because honetly i can't remember.


Well, they will keep growing until you're 18, but they might either grow a lot or a little. Honestly, judge it be your family. If they have big boobs, you probably will too. If your mom and sister are only like A cups, you might not grow much. :]

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Im starting a new school next year.
Im 16/f. Im pretty shy :) Any advice on making new friends and being more confident?

I'd say no matter how hard it might be for you, go up to as many people as you can and introduce yourself. Be like "Hey, I'm ___ I'm new." You can ask them who the best teachers are, pretend you're lost, and basically anything that will help start a conversation. Also, if someone in your class has the same teacher as you you could say "NAME OF TEACHER is so mean/nice." These simple sentences will make conversations, trust me. Eventually after doing that, people will want to be friends with you. Don't act fake, but try to be your self. Don't act intimidated and shy because it's a turn off and try to be a little more outgoing.

Also, join some sports teams such as soccer, basketball, cheer leading etc. to make more friends that have the same interest in you. If you're in class and someone is sitting next to you, if their clothes look cool but don't have an obvious brand name on it be like, "I love your shirt where did you get that?" And maybe after a month or 2 throw a Halloween or regular party and invite people from school who could be potential friends.

Bottom line, you have to make strides to make new friends. Some people will come up to you considering you're new, but don't expect everyone to act like you're best friend. You have to be the one going up to people you might like and talk about random stuff (homework, teachers, etc) so it will start a conversation.

Remember, just don't act shy because people will treat you like this quiet little thing, haha!

Merry Thursday. :]

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For verizon wireless, i have free after 9:00 pm. but when does that end. at 12:00 am? or in the morning? or what? thanks.


9pm-9:01 p.m.–5:59 a.m. on weekdays. :]
I looked it up don't worry.

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hey is this cite a rascist cite coz i think so????????????????? i hate this, its sickening

First of all let me re-write your question CORRECTLY.
"Hey, is this site racist because I think it is? I hate this, it's sickening."

Okay, now that I'm finished with your English lesson (trust me you could use 100 more lessons on spelling and grammar,) I'm ready to answer your question.

First of all, you're not being detailed at all. Did someone give you a racist remark? If they did, you could have posted it so we could see it. The moderators on this site are extremely watchful and they would see something if it did happen. If you don't know what a moderator is, open the nearest dictionary (even though yours probably has cob webs on it.) =)

I encourage you to ATTEMPT to use better grammar and spelling so you will be taken more seriously. =) But anyways back to your question... If someone said something racist, report it or it's your problem. If you're just looking for drama and trouble, good luck and have a nice life.

Merry Wednesday. :]

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my boyfriends birthday is on july 2nd and he is 15 years old and i want to know what i can get him with $6.00 and i want it to be something special.


Uh, all you could afford is like 2 packs of gum. Not cool!

Yeah, you might as well make him something such as burning a cd with all of the songs you listen to together or songs he likes... Um, a little memory book with pictures and captions.. And that's about it haha.

I'm sorry but $6 wont get you much. =( Could you borrow money from someone? Or tell him you're sorry and you'll buy him something when you save up?

Merry Wednesday. :]

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I just wanted to tell you that I read your response to the seance question (I didn't ask it, I promise) and pretty much died laughing. Hahaha!

Haha, I felt like being a little humorous when I answered that. I doubt it was a "real" question. It was probably just a joke. But whatever. Thanks for noticing my humor. =)

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i want to try out for my high school soccer team in august. so, how many miles a day would i have to run if i do make it?


I play soccer and basically the whole time you play, you're running. I would say do a lot of crunches each day and run about a mile every 1-2 days. Try to stay away from soda/junk food around the days of your practices or games. Just get yourself in shape and used to running and you will be fine! :]

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okay so i want to have a seance. mostly to bring back some pirates such as blackbeard. i have absolutly no idea on how to host my own seance. can anyone whose done one before give me any tips on how to do it and anything i might need to know?


Find a huge oak tree.
Stand under it and make sure you're eating a strawberry while saying this..
"Bring back pirates, let me them be, let me be happy, as I'm under this tree."
Usually it will take a couple of days for the pirates to come back to life. So wait it out and find someway to occupy yourself as you wait.

If that doesn't help, google is always by your side. :]

Hope I helped. Merry Wednesday!

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i am not sure this category fits, but its the best i could choose..sorry

okay..so im a 15/f...almost 16 in october..

i have always lacked self-confidence, and i think i am really ugly and fat..but everyone always tells me im hott, but i honestly dont get it. when i look in the mirror i hate what i see..
i dont know if me being REALLY fat last year has anything to do with it. i lost over 40 pounds, but i still feel fat, even though i am in the healthy weight range, and i also have double d's, if that has any effect.

so i was wondering what i could do to make myself feel better? should i lose more weight? or what? any advice helps, and please be honest! thanks!


here is my myspace, if you wanted to see a picture of me..
myspace.com/THISisWHYimHOTTdoubleD


I don't get the point of this question honestly. From the picture, all I can see is your face. It doesn't look as though you have multiple chins, so losing weight might not be THAT important but I'd need a full body picture to actually answer that.

You say you're "queen of the double d's" so obviously you must have SOME confidence in yourself because most girls don't brag about boob size on myspace unless they are conceited.

Anyways.. If you're in the healthy weight-range YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY. Most people can't even lose 20 pounds, so you should be happy about your goal. It wasn't easy losing all that weight so feel proud that you accomplished something that difficult. Don't ask people if you're pretty because usually people will be nice and say yes.

I'd say, forget about the whole weight loss thing because if you already lost 40 pounds, it seems like your doing pretty good. You can still exercise every day and eat well, but don't obsess over it. Make sure you don't slack off though because you'll gain it all back. Okay, I'm going off track. I wanted to say that if you wanna make yourself feel better you have to gain self confidence. Instead of noticing the BAD stuff about you, think about everything good. Your hair is gorgeous and your eyes are pretty. Maybe even write down everything you're good at, and what's good about your appearance. Try different make up, get another piercing, dye your hair, get your nails done... just try something new to make you feel good about yourself. I used to think "ugh I'm an ugly freak" but then I dyed my hair, tried new make up techniques, and got acrylic nails and I feel good about myself. It's okay to pamper yourself!

Just be happy with what you have because I don't judge girls, but I'm saying.. you're NOT ugly. Some people are huge, or have big noses or small ears, so feel good you're not them. When you go out with your friends, take a look around at other people and notice that some aren't as lucky as you. I know you're thinking "shut up you corny bitch" but it's true.

So to sum it up, to make you feel good try something new to make you look different (I listed some things above) and realize that some people only have 1 leg so you have it good. Also, about your weight.. you look fine to me but I can't see you but even if you're 80 pounds, if you don't keep up on exercising EVERY day and eating things like fruits and salads, you'll gain everything back. Don't obsess over it, but don't be too leaned back either.

-Candace

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am i still a virgin, even though my cherry's poped because i fingered myself?


Yup.

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Is "Ginny" short for a different name (a girls name)??

And can everyone PLEASE tell me their favorite boys and girls names??


Thankss soo much!!

I think Ginny is short for Virgina. I'm not positive.

For girls names I like Candace (my name), Aubrey, Carmen, & Ashley

For boy names I like Jason and Scott. Haha

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does anyone know where to buy cheap skateboard?

Ebay. =]

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i dont really pay attention to ratings because i just started but i gave someone a detailed answer and he gave me a 3. its not so much his rating its his comment:
Thank you for your answer. I would give you a 4 but you didn't capitalize. Otherwise it was a good answer.
what does capitalizing have to do with anything?


Some people will do anything to find something wrong with a person's answer. If you're not talking in "txt chat" you shouldn't be judged on grammar. I think anyone who at least ATTEMPTS to spell things write, DOESN'T talk in txt chat, and gives meaningful advice deserves a high rating.

Of course capitalization makes it look more professional, and I think it looks better so I try my best to use capitals.

"Y0 whaDuhpp dawggie G i think yu sh00d ask hurr 0ut k`zz peace out gurrlscoutttt."
THAT'S the one thing that annoys me. If you type like that, expect people to get mad. But, typing in lowercase letters won't kill anyone so personally I don't see anything wrong with that.

People are harsh and tough, and you can't do anything about it. You have plenty of chances to get more 5 ratings to wipe out that 3. And a 3 isn't the end of the world anyway. But get used to people being unfair. It will probably happen again, so just stick it out.

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ok so i want a sidekick id, its 99 and im only 13. so how am i supposed to get money, and also. i want a pre-paid and its not prepaid so i clicked the sidekick three one which can be. and it was 400 dollars.! can the id still be prepaid even though it wasnt on the list of prepaid phone?

yeah the sidekick ID can be prepaid. i bought one yesterday but it wasn't prepaid. the prepaid was is about $300. to get the exact price go to t-mobile.

i got the money buy helping around the house, babysitting, and dog walking. i'm 13 too so there's really no true JOBS for us.

the sidekick ID is only $99 if you don't get it prepaid, so i say you shouldn't get it prepaid. its much cheaper that way.

i'm typing this on my ID right now and i love it. =) you should definitely get it. just do anything you can to get money because it's worth it.

EDIT: if you only want to use it for data (texting, AIM, internet, & email) then there is only one plan and it's $29.99 a month. if you want to use it as a phone as well the plans range anywhere from $30.00-$$70.00 a month and if you get a phone plan, the data plan drops down $10.00 so its only $20.00. i dont know the best phone plan because i don't use it as a phone.

=)

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I want a new digital camera. I want the best for my money. I want a point and shoot kind of camera. I want to spend around $100 to $150. I want to be able to take cute pictures like this one:

http://xce.xanga.com/f47d461531530124180611/z89814949.jpg

Well that picture you posted was most likely taken by an professional photographer with a professional camera. and professional cameras can be up to thousands of dollars. but there are a few cameras that can make pictures look ALMOST as good as that..

http://www.circuitcity.com/ssm/Samsung-S630-Digital-Camera-Pink/sem/rpsm/oid/174210/catOid/-16941/rpem/ccd/productDetail.do
my friend has that camera and its only $99.99. its a great camera with awesome pictures that aren't blurry and its pink. =)

http://www.circuitcity.com/ssm/Panasonic-Lumix-DMC-FX8P-Digital-Camera-Pink/sem/rpsm/oid/150875/catOid/-16941/rpem/ccd/productDetail.do
this camera is $139.99 and i used to have it but it broke. but i loved it and the pictures were fine and its nice and small too. panasonic is also a good brand.

http://www.circuitcity.com/ssm/Samsung-L700BLACK-Digital-Camera-Black/sem/rpsm/oid/175653/catOid/-16941/rpem/ccd/productDetail.do
this one is personally my favorite. its samsung and its $161.99. i know its a little more than you want to pay but i think its definitely worth the money because my cousin has this and i'm always trying to use it because the picture quality is the BEST. & its a cute camera.

all of those were got from circuit city.
if you'd like to see more go to www.circuitcity.com

oh yeah go on ebay and they have all kinds of cameras and basically any brand name such as sony, panasonic, or samsung should be a good camera. you should also check to see what your friends or family have for ideas.

happy fathers day!

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i think my girlfriends dad sexually abuses her. her parents are divorced and she has five older brothers but they all live on their own since there alot older than she is. i went over there for dinner one time because she said she was scared but she wouldnt tell me why and the whole meal her dad kept making perverted comments about her chest size. shes like a 36d which is nice. her dad was like wow molly your tits look huge i just wanna grab them. and she kept telling him to stop and saying not now dad please. and he kept asking me when i was gonna fuck her next. and he thinks she would be good in bed. she kept getting really embrassed. then all of a sudden he did grabb her and then she started crying and her dad told me to leave but she looked so scared i couldnt leave her. i took her to my house. and i kept asking her did he always do this to you and she wouldnt answer me. i dont know what to do. do you think he rapes her and sexually abuse her. thank you in advance.


CALL THE POLICE NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW ! sorry i spazzed out but he is definitely a raper. oh my god i can't even believe any parents saying HALF the stuff her dad says. most parents try not to bring up sex and dont ask "when are you gonna fuck her next?" that's sick and inhuman. she needs to get out of that house and she NEEDS to open up with you and tell you whats going on. if he does that IN FRONT of you, try to imagine what happens behind closed doors. yeah, he is probably sexually abusing her RIGHT now. even if he's not, he doesn't deserve to be a parent for making those comments. it's just not human. call the police and if she gets mad tell her it's only for the best, and eventually she'll forgive you because she'll be living the life she always wanted to be living. just remember, NOBODY deserves to be treated like that and if you dont tell anyone, and the police find out somehow and find out you were a witness of him saying that perverted stuff, you will get in trouble too. just dial 9-1-1 because if she ends up pregnant one day from him, you'll probably never be able to live again knowing you didn't tell anyone.

good luck,
-candace.

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when your cherry pops does it hurt? and this is a retarded question but does sex hurt?


for the first few times yeah it does hurt. then you get used to it. for some it doesnt hurt at all but for others the pain is unbearable. it really depends on your pain tolerance.

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Theres this boy, Brandon, he lives in foxboro mass. and i live in Westchester NY.

He days he loves me

Example on aim

"Brandon: I love ***** ***** [my name] more than anyone else in the world."

and he comments my myspace pictures/comments and facebook pics/ comments like

"now i see one gorgeous girl in this picturee "

"pshh can you say I see a gorgeous girl in the mirror?


he probably just thinks your hott and wants to bang you. he doesn't love you emotionally and want you as a fulltime girlfriend. probably as just a friends with benefits thing. also, are you sure he doesnt say that to other girls? because my boyfriend i thought only loved me, but i found out he says "i love you" and "your hot" to all his friends.. so don't just expect that he loves you. also long relationships dont always work out because you wont see eachother alot and you cant tell if they are cheating and you arent there to stop them. also, you cant drive 100 miles everytime you miss him. so theres kinda a downside to everything. i say you just stick to being his friend because he seems like a player. i could be wrong, but YOU have to make the decision and i can only guide you.

-much love

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