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Hey my name is Kay....
I'm a senior in high school so I'm finally graduating this year! i love school and meeting new people. my hobbies are crocheting, math, and decorating! i someday hope to become a home decorator. I'm from Pittsburgh. i don't drink. i have a lot of experience with drugs and drinking...hence the reason i don't anymore... i may only be 17 years young but i have been through a lot in the past 4 years and i just keep getting stronger. i have a boyfriend whom i have been dating for 3 years and we are still working on some things but our relationship keeps building everyday. i love with my mom and my teenage sister..ya 3 girls in one house.. just think how that is when all of us are on our periods at the same time.. its a trip all on its own. ha ha. recently my moms new boyfriend moved in and he sucks! me and my sister both hate him but life goes on. i don't have many friends but i do have a lot of important people in my life whom i love and would do anything for.. if you want to hear a little more about me you can reach me on my IM. other than that i would love to answer any questions you have about love, sex, families, or anything else you wanna throw at me!

C ya!

advice

I have really bad acne and I have tried everything I can imagine...does anyone have any natural remedie that they find work cause I need some help, and the prom is this year so I dont want everyone knowing me as zit face... want to look like all the popular girls!

tee tree oil works great. use it like a facial mask.

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Can someone give me some songs i can think of for my wedding? thanks!

toby keith - your my best friend

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okay so i have two sisters and it gets hard sometimes; oh yea, and theyre both younger than me--now youre startin to get it..

anyways i find myself soo frustrated sometimes--by my parents, my sisters, and the world itself. its seems so unfair sometimes that i feel like packing my bags and leaving--but where??

i have tried to confront my mom about it before, but it didnt help much(it just started up another arguement)..this all happens bc my sisters do not behave, and i start to yell(bc there is nothing else i can possibly do) -no timeouts-no consequences-nothing!!

sometimes i think of moving in with my dad(since my folks are separated) but im afraid ill miss my ma' even tho i have so much hate in me...wat do i do about all of this?!?! please help..

i think that you should just take regular visits to your dad. maybe every other weekend. or you could stay there everyother week if he is in your school district too. or you could go into your room and play your muisic really loud and ignore it all. go out alot to get out of the house also.

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Is breaking up over the phone okay? Or should I make an effort to do it in person?

it would be way better to do it in person. because (1) you can show them how sorry you are, if you are. (2) if you do it over the phone you might not be able to face them again

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14/f
In the morning I wake up at 6 o clock so I can catch my bus, but the thing is, no one in my family wakes up till' like 7:30 so when I get up they are all sleeping. Whenever I walk around adn stuff because no one else is awake it makes me really annoyed and just want to sleep. Does anyone have any ideas that will keep me awake when my family is sleeping?
Besides coffee.

get everything in the night and wake up a little later. you could COOK your breakfast, then you would have to pay attention. or do what i do and put on your headphones and listen to music. i have the same problem. dont worry most teens have to.

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The show fiddler on the roof: i am the fiddler. opening night is tomorrow and i am terrified of getting off the roof in the blackout. i am on top of the roof, playing my violin... thats scary enough! i dont think im going to be able to do this all week, i get panic attacks and im scared i will get one while im on the roof! what should i do? ill rate high!!!

ask if you can put a stool in the back of the roof so you can step down.

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Me and my friend want to start a "band" so there would be two singers. I was wondering if anyone has any songs that have two singers in them. We already have a couple of Aly and AJ songs. But we would like some more. If you have any ideas please help.
I rate 5's for good answers.

maybe you should make some of your own songs as well as some that others suggested.

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i am 19 and my brother is 18 and we dont get along he has a realy bad temper and when he is in a bad mood he hits me and i dont do anything to him like the other day he strangled me and though me on the floor i told my mum but she does not say or do anything about it so he is just gets away with it and then he tries talking to me and pretends like noting happened and i hate it what can i do to make my mum and dad listen to me please help me.

well this isnt GOOD advice but its advice. fight back. my sister is younger than me and she does the same. one of you will get hurt and your parents will notice but keep telling them about it. ** i dont rly think thats will help but its worth a shot.

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what are the best acne solutions? like cleanser/toner/gels whatever works? please help with this.

no the person below me is right proactive

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Okay im 13
4'11
and i weigh 92 pounds
i want to lose weight but my doctor said it would be unhealthy. so im kind of looking to tone-up my body in a more healthy way. and i'm not aloud to go on a diet
:-/
anything helps!
i rate high!
thanks

go to the school gym if you have one or just ask and see if one of your friends wants to go with you to a regular gym, you could also start like dance or gymnastics. you could go to yoga. it is relaxing and healthy. you are not fat. i know what you mean though i want to lose weight but it isnt healthy. i stoped eating full meals, which is rly bad since i lost about 5 lbs in 1 week and its not good. i cant eat right n e more bacause my body isnt used to eating a lot and so when i am hungry i cant eat or i will get sick. its not good so dont do what i did do something healthy.


ps i started taking dance and it works.

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ok i have writen before about me not wanting to be lesbians but i just cant help it. i like boys and everything its just that when i see a girl i look at her booty, her breast, her face, and i see how big her breast and nipples are compared to what i really like. i dont mean to but it is natural i guess. anyway how can i stop being lesbian and if i cant stop how do i find a girl that is my age in my area without everybody knowing? please help me!
i rate high for good answers!!1

accually. if you feel like you can like girls more than guys then that is who you are. you may not like it but you also need to accept it. you will find someone someday who has the same problem. you cant hide it in anyway. so like i said you are who you are, and you cant change that. watch the south of nowhere. its a great show that deals with the same roblem as you but in the end it turned out her best friend and her ended up together. im not saying to go and screw your bestfriend. im just saying you will find someone sometime. hope it helps. and i hope it all works out for you in the end.

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i have this really small bumb on the right side of my toung. i don't think it's very serious because i've had it before. anyway it hurts when food touchs it and when i touch it. do you think im allergic to somthing or do you think it's somthing serious or do you think it's nothing. let me know!

thanks

i dont think you are illergic to n e thing. i have them all the time. an ulser. dont worry its just from too much sodium. it should go away soon. use ambosol to numb it.

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hey!i have circles,and i now that if i didnt have dark circles,i would look great!i really want to know,from users out their,(or expeirienced people,or anyone who knows anything about it!)what is a great cream to removes them?i also wanted to know what are some great concealers?!thank you so much!

(ps-im not going to rate you low if you give a bad answer,if you try you will get a 3-5! :])

face mask. then wash face. also i use cover girl cover-up. its not a concealor but something like that. it is a powder. hope i helped.

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i was wondering what i should wear to my date on v day..i don't know where he is taking me...oh and some ideas on makeup with my outfit...thanx

red blouse and a knee length black skirt or if you dont want to be too dressy wear a blue jean skirt knee length like the person below me said.

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16/f. single for valentines day. i need some cheering up. i dont have a boyfriend for valentines day. i cant leave the house (sick.) it seems like everyone is going out and having a good time with there bfs. what can i do to make myself cheer up and still have a good time on vday? (even tho im alone) thanks.

treat yourself to go and get your hair and nails done. that would be nice.

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i need to know what is the best hair dye to use..
thanks

i use nice N easy. i think it works best. if that doesnt work i would use frutise*.

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what should i do for my mom on v day she is single...thanks

Make her breakfast in bed with a rose in a vase on the side of the tray. eggs bacon and sausage orange juice, milk, or coffee.

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I have yellowish Asian skin, long, almond-shaped brown eyes and coarse black hair. Can anyone give me makeup tips? Pleeease don't suggest brown eyeliner. It just doesn't look good.

dont use eyeliner. use maskera and maybe some darker shade lip gloss. like a brown sugar color. a little blush. no concelor since it will make you look pale.

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Ok, so I masturbate on school nights out of fear that I won't be too horny the next day and look at one of my friends the wrong way, ya know? But lately it hasn't been working so well, I still feel horny sometimes when I am at school. Don't suggest doing it in the morning because I barely have enough time for breakfast as it is, add that and well, it'd get messy. And also I have enough morals not to do it at school. So, if anyone knows the cure to unrelenting horniness please tell me.
15/m

ummmmmm......... well i heard that chocolate is good for making you horny so i guess you could cut down on the chocolate.

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I am 14 and my mom won't let me wear thongs. My sister is 16 and still is not allowed to wear them. Alot of my firends wear them and some don't. Sure part of the reason I want them is because alot of people wear them but that not the whole reason. I don't want panty lines when I wear sweats of whatever. My mom has always been overprotected, she didn't let me or my sister wear a bikni until last summer. Last weekend I tried on a really cute bathing suit and all she did was say how it was to low and I need to wear something more modest or I will be sending the wronge message. She thinks if I wear a low bikni someone will come and rape me, to make a long story short she is inpossible to shop with. Anyway If I could get a thong it would make me feel that I beat my mom and won. Don't get me wrong I love my mom we don't have a bad relaship at all. It just she very religous and hard to talk to. Oh and even if I did buy a thong behind her back. I've never done my own laundry in my life so she defintly know something was up. Sorry that it was so long, guess I got carried away.

accually you can buy a thong behind her back and you washe it under hot soapy water. unless she sees she will never know. good luck.

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