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they wont listen!!
okay so i have two sisters and it gets hard sometimes; oh yea, and theyre both younger than me--now youre startin to get it..
anyways i find myself soo frustrated sometimes--by my parents, my sisters, and the world itself. its seems so unfair sometimes that i feel like packing my bags and leaving--but where??
i have tried to confront my mom about it before, but it didnt help much(it just started up another arguement)..this all happens bc my sisters do not behave, and i start to yell(bc there is nothing else i can possibly do) -no timeouts-no consequences-nothing!!
sometimes i think of moving in with my dad(since my folks are separated) but im afraid ill miss my ma' even tho i have so much hate in me...wat do i do about all of this?!?! please help..
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Well, hun life has it's sucky moments. I have a best friend just like this...wink, wink!! I think you should take every problem with that family with not a frustration, but with a diary or talk to yourself. It helps you collect and really think about the things going on with you and figure it out out loud. I know you have good friends that if you packed up your bags you could be with them. I think you should really tell your mom or dad that you always devote your time to those kids you never have time for yourself. As a teenager that may have common sense let her know that your not a babysitter all the time. You should say that if your in high school or going to be that she should think of all the time that will be gone from being a big babysitter. Just tell your mom that those aren't your kids and say you love them, but you see i get frustrated and i can'tdeal wiith them well. Tell her if she baggering of her giving you the kids all the time see bothering you that you gonna have to talk to dad about this. Just let her know your too old to be giving my time into the same thing that makes it seem like i'm getting ready for having kids soon. Let her know that's not fair and common sense. hope i helped a bit!!!!
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i think that you should just take regular visits to your dad. maybe every other weekend. or you could stay there everyother week if he is in your school district too. or you could go into your room and play your muisic really loud and ignore it all. go out alot to get out of the house also.
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