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OMG. I need help please!
Ok i'm about to go crazy! I've been very frustraited lately. Well it all started out because I liked this one guy and he liked me then he went out with someone else. And it's a whole big dramatic story which I wont type. Anyways, well i've been telling people i'm over it but really i'm not. It hurt like really bad, we were getting really close. Anyways, i havn't told anyone how i'm feeling so i'm about to explode! But, don't tell me to tell anyone because I won't. I have no one to tell. The only people I can tell know him too and would tell him and I don't want that. I've also already told him how I feel. But, that didn't matter. Anyways, I was wondering if there's anything I can do to make me like stop, "hurting" I guess you could call it. Is there anything I can do to like, not go crazy in the next week because of not telling anyone how i'm feeling? I just need help. I'll rate 5's to anyone who answers! Thanks SOOOO Much!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I believe that before we can meet the person we are truly 'meant' to be with, we all have to have our hearts badly broken at least once. It may not really seem so great at the moment but you need to have your heart broken once so you really appreciate love when it comes round.
But getting over your first love is a very tough thing to do.
The problem at the moment is that because you're trying so hard to put on a brave face and not let anyone see how you really feel, you're not getting a real chance to grieve, so to speak. You need to have a good couple of days - perhaps this weekend - where you sit indoors, in your rotten old tatty pyjamas, eat your weight in ice cream, crisps and any other rotten junk food you love and normally try to avoid. Get an entire BOX of Kleenex Balsam, shut yourself away in your room and sob your heart out. Cry and cry and scream (into a pillow or the neighbours might take issue with it!) and watch the soppiest, most sad movies you can find (I always felt that Pay It Forward was the best to cry to. That, or Forrest Gump).
One thing I like to recommend is that you write a letter to him. Write down everything you'd like to say. Be it good or bad, jot it all down. You can say whatever you like. What you think and what you feel because you're not going to send it. When you're done, either burn it (if you can get away with it) or rip it to shreds and throw it away. It sounds crazy but it's very therapeutic.
After the two days are up, however, that's it. No more crying, moping, sulking or being depressed. You get up, do a facial, manicure, pedicure. Whatever makes you feel really good about yourself. Then you plaster a smile on your face, get out there and face the world again.
Remember that there are a LOT of guys out there who are waiting to meet you and find out what a terrific person you are! So don't waste your time letting yourself get upset about this guy. Go out there and find one who can REALLY make you happy. I promise, there IS one.
Good luck!
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i think that you should have a serious talk with him. maybe he feels the same way but maybe scared on how you would act becuz that is what had happened with me. the only thing is that he waz going out with this girl that waz all about the kisses then eventually he broke up with her to go out with me. but no matter what goes down you will always have a little something for him. but you want me to explain this a little more than what i have done email me or something
hope i helped
kriddle06
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